I went to a college orientation and got 3 phone numbers which may be just from being friendly with them and not really showing any real romantic type attraction like going up and hitting on them but hey, you gotta start somewhere. haha.
But anyway I met a girl which was very attractive and actually lives quite close to where I live so I tried talking to here the most. I can't remember the entire conversation but it was kind of fun for me and her. She was laughing and smiling. She tossed her hair a couple of times and showed from what I have learned are, "Signs of Attraction" and we really became good friends. I didn't really want to hit on her though because we would have seen each other multiple times throughout the day and I thought it might make it a little awkward. But I had asked her if she would have liked to see the new Spiderman movie with me earlier in the day and she said that would be fun. While talking to her in the conversation I am currently talking about I asked and this I will quote.
ME: "So you said your down to see the new Spiderman movie right? I know, I probably asked you this like three times (Smiles)"
HER: "(Smiling) nah, it's alright. (Still Smiling) and yeah, that would be cool"
ME: "I was thinking, if your not seeing anyone, we should make it a date."
HER: "Aww, thats so sweet but I actually am seeing someone right now... But it's kind of unofficial, because of college and stuff"
ME: "Oh, well he can come too if he wants. Haha!"
HER: "HAHAHA! I don't know about that. (Still smiling and laughing)"
ME: "Well, we should still see it then. At the very least as friends."
HER: "Yeah, definitely!"
After this bit conversation still goes on as usual, fun and light hearted.
From what I got, I think that she is at the very least somewhat interested. I'm kind of curious about her "unofficial boyfriend" whether that was just her being kind about rejecting me, but she said she would still like to see the movie with me so I dunno what to really think about it. Maybe she is just not sure about it or something. I was thinking about calling her/ texting her in a few days and ask her out on a movie date again. Kind of like, "I know you said you had an unofficial boyfriend, but I figured why not ask if you want to go on an unofficial casual date." Maybe if she is still hesitant I can use Kong's, "You're going to look back on this and say, 'shit', I should have taken some sort of risk but was too afraid." Whether I will be smooth enough to pull that off in conversation is anyone's guess. But what do you guys think.
What should I do, how did I do, and what could I have done better? Should I ask via call or text? And it prob does not matter but I am asian/white and she is white/ italian.