You pickup a girl and you’re hitting it off really well when suddenly some other guy approaches her trying to steal her away. To go even further you might even be dating the girl and even then, guys are still going after her.
How do you deal with these guys without looking insecure? Girl magazines would tell you to ignore these guys completely, however, sometimes you need to man up and make it clear to them that what they’re doing is disrespectful.
Before we begin telling you what to do, we’re going to start by telling you WHAT NOT TO DO:
1. Don’t start a fight with the other guy.
She may be a very hot girl or even your girlfriend, but unless the guy is physically attacking you or puts your girl down in a very rude/derogatory way there is no reason to put your fists up.
Don’t act like a pussy and stand up straight with your neck up high. But, fighting should be the last resort because girls find guys who are intellectually and emotionally stable more attractive than guys who have anger management issues.
2. Don’t blame the girl for the guy’s actions.
What did she do? Unless she’s cheating on you physically or emotionally, it’s not her fault that the guy is trying to pick her up. She’s hot, which means other guys will want to bone her. It’s a simple logic.
3. Try to stay away from claiming your girl.
When you claim your girlfriend by saying, “Dude, this is MY girlfriend” you’re essentially making yourself look very, very insecure. It is always better for HER to mention that you two are together, that you’re HER boyfriend, etc.
Her attention will deviate from the other guy to you if you allow her to CLAIM you.
With that said, let’s begin.
The Pickup Cockblock Guy
You’re hanging out with her when suddenly this guy approaches your girl. This guy is smooth. He’s making her laugh while you’re on the other side of the grocery store, and even pulling out his number.
Option #1 Leave Them Alone
Most of the time this is what I do. I do this because I’m very secure with my game that I know she’ll come back to me when I’m back in the area. If you’re in a relationship you can call this security as a signifier that you “trust” your partner.
It’s common logic that girls love attention; so let them enjoy the pickup. Once it’s done she will be going home with you anyways.
Of course interactions can only go so long before you get uncomfortable, so…
Option #2 Introduce Me To Your Friend
The best way to distract her mindset that this guy is attractive is by claiming as a “friend.” The word “friend” creates a rhetorical effect on both the guy and your girl’s psyche. What do I mean?
Her: Hey Your Name or Baby
You: You look good, oh cool who’s you’re new friend?
Her: This is my friend X,Y,Z,
Now there is a common understanding amongst all three of you that the guy in front of her is just a “friend” and nothing else.
You can even go further by complimenting the guy and overtake the conversation by making him talk to YOU instead of your girl: she will lose interest because now he the cockblock is seen as the third wheel to your party of two.
Option #3 Ignore Him Completely
One of the best ways to get rid of the guy is to get rid of him completely by making it about “YOU TWO.” To clarify, to ignore him completely you need to make a social bubble where the only people in this bubble are you two.
Here is an example:
Cockblock: So How do you two know each other?
Remember stray away from YOU claiming her
*Slap her so she looks at you
You: How do we know each other? grin and smile
Her: I think we’re dating (you’re my boyfriend). she smiles
And, you two are back on fire and the cockblock next to you should at this moment feel like shit and either leave or (if he stays) becomes a very annoying pest (unattractive to your girl).
Her “FRIEND” Cockblock
Most hot girls will have many guy friends. Hot girls in general are more social because society is more accepting to them. They’re given more attention and opportunities to speak and to be heard, which leads to them interacting with more people.
And, it just so happens to be that a few of these “people” will be guys. Most of the time, these guy friends and even your girl will claim that they’re like “family,” “brother or sister,” “just friends,” but let’s be honest here, he’s attracted to her and will penetrate if given the opportunity.
How did I come up with this bold statement?
If your girl walked out of the bathroom naked and told her “friend” (he claims to be like his sister) to have sex with her, he will.
If the friend is gay or has a girlfriend, he is less likely to bone your girl if she walks out naked.
Here are a few tips…
Be Cordial & Befriend
Be nice to the guy; treat him as you would a friend. In fact, maybe you’ll even become friends? It’s not a requirement or should be your priority, just treat him cordially.
If he thinks you’re cool and a good guy, there is more likely of a chance he’ll back off:
“Wow, Jason is such a good guy, I have to move on…”
Tell Him To Watch Out For Her
It’s exactly how it sounds. Find an opportunity where you’re able to talk to the guy on a one on one basis. And basically say this:
You: Yo Friend Cockblock
You: Do me a favor?
You: Watch out for my girlfriend, I won’t always be around but if a guy goes after her, just watch out if you know what I mean?
Cockblock: I can do that.
What this does is he’ll start becoming the “insecure” guy because he will start claiming her when he pulls her away from guys trying to pick her up.
The Cockblock Who Just Won’t Stop
These are the worst cockblocks because they don’t care about you at all. They may call her his sister, you his friend, or anything platonic and friendly, but his interactions prove otherwise: being extra touchy with her, finding any opportunity to be with her, etc. He’s a disrespectful ass who doesn’t care about you, regardless of his innocent claims.
The big thing you can do here is:
Tell Her How You Feel & Trust
You should just tell your girl how he can seem like a creep sometimes. Then, don’t mention it ever again and just trust her and yourself that they won’t hook up.
Listen, if she hooks up with any of these cockblocks above then you both were never meant to be together.