I begin by saying that there are girls out there who just won’t mesh with your personality. Regardless of your looks, economic background, whatever… as soon as you approach them these girls say “NO” and/or do other obvious notions that they are indeed not interested in you.
If you watch many of our videos, we get rejected from these girls often…
Many guys mistake these moments thinking that these girls above are playing hard to get, they’re not. Instead these girls are just girls who will never give you the time of day, call them what you want, we just call them girls who don’t mesh with our personality: bitter girls.
Who’s a Girl Who Plays Hard to Get?
Girls who play hard to get are ones who are actually interested in you. It may not be interest in a way where she is fawning over you, but rather her interest reflects this notion of curiosity to see what you’ll do next. This may seem like a confusing concept so I’ll slow it down point by point; a girl who is playing hard to get is:
Interested in You
The clear signs are that when you start talking to her she interacts with you back. Basically, any action of her staying within your vicinity to hear what you have to say or see what you’re going to do, means she’s interested in you. The reason why we call her “hard to get” is because she won’t be complying with your requests: asking for the number, a dance, a glass of water, etc..
Instead, she will be…
Judging You Contently
Yes, she will be sizing you up with every other guy who has approached her before. How? She’ll start cutting you off mid-sentence, being overtly sarcastic, and even at times trolling your every move. The idea is she is trying to figure out how self-conscious you are with your life and if she can break you down.
All of these actions is somewhat called a shit test: girls who play hard to get want a strong guy, so they test the guy through their somewhat snarky comments and actions to see if you’ll crumble under the pressure.
Will be Giving you Only a Few Minutes to Impress Her
I’m not saying that your job in life is to impress others as we’ve written a previous article that you should learn how to DGAF. I’m trying to make it clear that she is only going to give a set amount of time before she moves on: if you can’t combat her shit tests effectively, she’ll leave.
How To Get a Girl Who Plays Hard to Get
Persistence, Wittiness, & Confidence
This action and this personality are the primary functions that it takes to get a girl who is playing hard to get. It should be clear to you that persistence means you’re not backing down and you’re focused on getting her. It’s a fluid concept, remember the rule we set in place is “if she is smiling, keep going.”
But I think the biggest thing we need to go over is wittiness. Wittiness is the ability to be socially observant and intellectually aware of what is being said by the girl & what is happening around her at the same time. This means that when she makes a snarky comment you’re able to take her comment and throw it back at her.
To clarify, wittiness means you’re not going to be mean spirited back, nor are you going to comply with her comment, but rather you’re going to play with her comment in a way which confuses her. For example,
Her: What are you? Poor?
You: Who would’ve thought I’d be talking to a gold digger right now…
Her: Wait, who would’ve said I was a gold digger…
Her: I’m not a gold digger…
This is what we call taking her comment and throwing it back at her. Now, some guys go overboard and keep pressing with the one flubber you caught her on (going on and on about her being a gold digger), don’t go overboard. I
Instead, once you notice that your witty retort grabbed her intention, it’s time you start proceeding with your sexual moves or whatever persistent approach you were going up to her in the first place. Wittiness shows you’re confident, intelligent, and when it’s done correctly it means her defenses will break down.
How To Make This Happen
In Project Go and in many of our articles (read a few) we show you many examples of how to be persistent: it’s an action. Wittiness is inside yourself, it isn’t an action, it’s a personality trait. Therefore, to gain this you have to be able to figure out what type of personalities fit you.
What I did was I followed comedians who I thought were strong men & could easily break down anyone who gave them shit. And, when I mean “break down” I mean “break down” the combatant not with their fist, but with comedic intelligence. As you see you in our videos, we all different styles of wittiness.
Next time we’ll go over how to deal with her compliance test and how to communicate with her once you get her number: at the end of this article series, you should be able to handle these “hard to get girls.”
What other things do you think we’re missing and want to know about, when it comes to these type of girls?