I begin by saying that there are girls out there who just won’t mesh with your personality. Regardless of your looks, economic background, whatever… as soon as you approach them these girls say “NO” and/or do other obvious notions that they are indeed not interested in you.
If you watch many of our videos, we get rejected from these girls often…
Many guys mistake these moments thinking that these girls above are playing hard to get, they’re not. Instead these girls are just girls who will never give you the time of day, call them what you want, we just call them girls who don’t mesh with our personality: bitter girls.
Who’s a Girl Who Plays Hard to Get?
Girls who play hard to get are ones who are actually interested in you. It may not be interest in a way where she is fawning over you, but rather her interest reflects this notion of curiosity to see what you’ll do next. This may seem like a confusing concept so I’ll slow it down point by point; a girl who is playing hard to get is:
Interested in You
The clear signs are that when you start talking to her she interacts with you back. Basically, any action of her staying within your vicinity to hear what you have to say or see what you’re going to do, means she’s interested in you. The reason why we call her “hard to get” is because she won’t be complying with your requests: asking for the number, a dance, a glass of water, etc..
Instead, she will be…
Judging You Contently
Yes, she will be sizing you up with every other guy who has approached her before. How? She’ll start cutting you off mid-sentence, being overtly sarcastic, and even at times trolling your every move. The idea is she is trying to figure out how self-conscious you are with your life and if she can break you down.
All of these actions is somewhat called a shit test: girls who play hard to get want a strong guy, so they test the guy through their somewhat snarky comments and actions to see if you’ll crumble under the pressure.
Will be Giving you Only a Few Minutes to Impress Her
I’m not saying that your job in life is to impress others as we’ve written a previous article that you should learn how to DGAF. I’m trying to make it clear that she is only going to give a set amount of time before she moves on: if you can’t combat her shit tests effectively, she’ll leave.
How To Get a Girl Who Plays Hard to Get
Persistence, Wittiness, & Confidence
This action and this personality are the primary functions that it takes to get a girl who is playing hard to get. It should be clear to you that persistence means you’re not backing down and you’re focused on getting her. It’s a fluid concept, remember the rule we set in place is “if she is smiling, keep going.”
But I think the biggest thing we need to go over is wittiness. Wittiness is the ability to be socially observant and intellectually aware of what is being said by the girl & what is happening around her at the same time. This means that when she makes a snarky comment you’re able to take her comment and throw it back at her.
To clarify, wittiness means you’re not going to be mean spirited back, nor are you going to comply with her comment, but rather you’re going to play with her comment in a way which confuses her. For example,
Her: What are you? Poor?
You: Who would’ve thought I’d be talking to a gold digger right now…
Her: Wait, who would’ve said I was a gold digger…
You: God.
Her: I’m not a gold digger…
This is what we call taking her comment and throwing it back at her. Now, some guys go overboard and keep pressing with the one flubber you caught her on (going on and on about her being a gold digger), don’t go overboard. I
Instead, once you notice that your witty retort grabbed her intention, it’s time you start proceeding with your sexual moves or whatever persistent approach you were going up to her in the first place. Wittiness shows you’re confident, intelligent, and when it’s done correctly it means her defenses will break down.
How To Make This Happen
In Project Go and in many of our articles (read a few) we show you many examples of how to be persistent: it’s an action. Wittiness is inside yourself, it isn’t an action, it’s a personality trait. Therefore, to gain this you have to be able to figure out what type of personalities fit you.
What I did was I followed comedians who I thought were strong men & could easily break down anyone who gave them shit. And, when I mean “break down” I mean “break down” the combatant not with their fist, but with comedic intelligence. As you see you in our videos, we all different styles of wittiness.
Next time we’ll go over how to deal with her compliance test and how to communicate with her once you get her number: at the end of this article series, you should be able to handle these “hard to get girls.”
What other things do you think we’re missing and want to know about, when it comes to these type of girls?
well written. good job as always guys.
you have to explain the difference between a girl that's playing "Hard To Get" and a girl the genuinely isn't interested and is just playing games with you for her own bitchy amusement.
They do, though; It's in the "Who's a girl that plays hard to get".
What do I do then in the case that a girl likes and comes around my vicinity often but everytime I try to make us hang out she comes up with excuses?
Move on. She's playing games, it seems to me. If she really wanted to chill with you, she would set up a date, or she wouldn't come up with excuses. There's a saying "If somebody really wants to see you, it doesn't matter if they a working 2 jobs and going to school full time… they will make time for you." There's 6 billion people on earth, more of half which are females. don't stress over one that doesn't give you the time of day… move on to the next.
Of course, but I'm not talking about one girl in specific. This seems to happen everytime with every girl I talk to. There's even one girl who did make plans, took me out, and even paid for me. But still I get excuses when it comes to hanging out. And not just with her. All girls play games nowadays and it's annoying. And yes, I make my intentions clear
How do I become smart and funny at the same time? I'm new and still get a little nervous around girls and one of them told me that I'm an awkward person. I'm still 15. Can someone please help me or tell me some simple tips?
Just talk to more whenever you can. Practice makes person, and you will never grow a social callous if you don't talk to somebody new that you do not know every chance you can. You will be more comfortable talking to strangers when you talk to more. and in every situation, talk to somebody. even if you feel like shit, just say to somebody "yo… I feel like shit" and start a conversation. if they don't respond, so what, DGAF. if they do, you are steps closer to becoming a boss.
watch james bond movies… shit these wittiful exchanges..
Hey simplepickup I just want to say thank you for everything you've taught me. I had my first date about two weeks ago and I can honestly say you have changed my perspective not only on girls but on life as well.Keep up the good work.
Hey guys, Not article related, but any plans to come to DUBAI ? I could really use your training camps picking up chicks over here with you. There are all sorts of women here :- social, conservative, really conservative etc…. Not as easy as U.S.A
It would be fun / something different….. Please let me know…..Thanks
the difference between being cocky and confidence. help us find the difference becuz some guys just dont get it
This may help you out player: Confidence is the use of cockiness in a controlled, gentle, funny and smart way. Being Confident only engages "a little bit" of cockiness at first.
Im' having some problem to call a girl out on a date. What is the best SP video for that?
And the bitchy girls that always have excuses to not go out like "i have to study", "i have to do this" "i have to do that"? I just ignore their existence and move on?
Firstly you need to recognize if:
1.She is actually busy
2.She makes excuses to go out on a date with you because she is too shy.
3.She makes excuses to go out on a date with you because she does not like you.
There could be other situations, or a mixture of these situation. But these are most common.
Situation 1. Try setting up a date with her for a long time later from now. Like 2 weeks later!
Situation 2. Point out that your date is gonna be both fun & short. also point out the fact that she should not be a pussy and she has to take chances. (Before talking about you date again, try connecting more to her. Call Her a few times and let her have a short and fun conversation with you.)
Situation 3.
In This Situation, you still assume that she does like you! Do all the answers to other situations.
No Response? Next!
Will having a nice/fast car make it easier to get girls?
Materialistic ones, yes.
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What do you do when a girl cancels a date last minute?
yes
dependends did she resechedule
go to her house and rape her and her little brother
have another date with some random chik in that same time
I was waiting this like so bad, thanks guys, love from Argentina
What to do with regressive girls? I mean they're nice and pretty but they don't wanna be the one who is chased by and asked random questions and approached! They might be interested in you at later times when you know them but not at a sudden and how to get over this situation/girls?
make a fucking video or article about HOW TO GET OVER A GIRL. especially if she just a fucking bitch but you cant seem to get over her
Go out and meet new people, new stories, new lives…eventually you'll forger about her!
So if you just started texting a girl should you text her first each day or wait for her to text you first? And should you ever go a day without texting her so she misses you or would that make her forget about you?
text her for 3 days straight. if she doesnt text you the fourth day its waste of time
I am agree with you.Thank you very much for your such comment.
how do i become less awkward
any tips on how to be confident around other guys?? no homo.
i can get pretty nervous around guys that are cool and popular
This is common, I'd like to hear an "expert's" response on this. Many of us are intimidated by guys who we perceive to be more "worthy" than ourselves, although frankly, a lot of these guys are faking it themselves.
how do i talk to a girl that's not in my class? im crazy about this girl in my uni and when i see her on campus we usually make eye contact so i think she might be interested in me. At the same time im worried.. if i get turned down (i DGAF) but it would hurt if that fucks up my rep. Any advice Kong, Jesse and Jason?
dude
if you DGAF then just DGAF and go talk to her
why should a rejection fuck up your rep?
by talking to her you show everyone that you're confident with yourself
What Schokokeks said. Rep is just another part of "ego" that you just have to get rid of. Most guys think ego is what makes them men, but in reality, ego is what makes them giant vaginas.
I do day game and sometimes i stumble upon a girl who smiles a lot but she keeps saying she isn't interested in me and she doesn't want to go out with me. That means she is playing hard to get ?
Of course bro. When in doubt, "If she's smiling, keep going."
I love reading these articles.. but there's always one thing that bothers me. It's almost like guys shouldn't have standards and just approach everyone not giving a f*ck… You could also twist this logic around and say that girls that give you shit tests are the ones actually not taking charge of their lives, so why would you bother? I've noticed that most guys with good intentions expect good intentions in return and end up being really good boyfriends, girls that keep doing these shit tests tend to find a-holes… I say let her be a 40 year old spinster if she has this mentality when she goes out. There's a ton of confident girls out there that will appreciate your confident approach instead of try to break it down.
I am In this situation but she ask for money and I don't know what to do
DITCH THE BITCH!!! unless she's your girlfriend or wife and really needs it.If she doesn't like ytou because you don't give her money, the only reason she'll like you is for your money. I'm not an expert or anything but thats my take on it.
How did u guys find out this much stuff?
And how do I het a popular girl that likes me and admits it and when I asked her out she.never replied
what do I do?
Can somebody msg me at [email protected] when u get the answer plz
i went on a date with this one girl and it went great. our first date was a month ago and after that date she told me that she was down to hang out once a week. that date was over a month ago, and it has been the only date we have been on since. now every time i ask her out again she keeps brushing it off but never says "no". in fact, instead of saying "yes" or "no" she just stands there, smiles, and makes jokes of how busy she is and how the next week will be better. it got to the point where i said the words "if you do not want to go out anymore thats ok, just let me know" she then smiled and said "ill let you know tomorrow if we can go out". she never got back to me. is this girl playing hard to get or is she just not intrested??
Move on man. If she won't spend the time to even get to know you then just forget her and move on. Find someone who appreciates you and your personality and wants to spend time with you. There are many more fish in the sea. I was in a similar situation where the girl kept brushing me off. So I moved on and now I am meeting and seeing new women. Just move on. Forget her.
your missing the entire retort to all of her shit test. every excuse is and opportunity to turn the tide. she is interested!!!! she's smiling and making jokes… read what they say in the article again. You're literally giving the control of the situation to her. if your playing football your not gunna give the football away to the other team and expect them to score for you, ARE YOU???? example HER: I've got so much work this week and blah blah this day and blah blah the other days of the week. YOU: fuck that!! lets get ice cream right now! ill let you you like mine up an down. Some shit like that and then proceed as if it's set in stone. if she is apprehensive making more excuses those are your obstacles immediately shuffle her and proceed to pursue
What if it's a good, Christian girl? I have a girl that is doing this to me, but I honestly think sexual comments would turn her off
You'll never know unless you try. The fact tht u aren't doing anything makes it worse.
your right! thank you!!!
or, she could be thinking you're a freak & s/th like this:
"Not responding to “no” is a sign of attempting to exercise control. The worst response to give to someone who refuses to accept “no” is to incrementally give in. Negotiation is also a poor response. Negotiation is about possibilities. If you mean “no”, don’t negotiate. Refusing to accept “no” often starts with refusing to accept “no” to minor issues such as buying you a drink, asking you to dance, joining you uninvited at your table, touching you etc."
what if the girl youre in love with plays super hard to get but she plays all these other fucking games with you and fucks with your head and feelings and you are trying to get over her because shes a bitch but its really hard?
What if you think a girl is single and you start hitting on her for like 10min then out of no where her boyfriend shows up
How do I learn to trust my girl when she is with her guy friends?
How can you hit on women at work or school while making sure you are not pushing any boundaries?
How do you hit on girls while you are on the job?
I posted this comment on your last Q&A video, it is the top comment so I figured others have the same problem so will post it here too.. If your chasing a sexy girl, who loves to play hard to get, how hard should you chase? I mean I've asked her out a couple of times, she says "no I'm busy" then came over which was good, but now is saying she's busy again.. should I back off for a bit then go back in, or be persistent and keep trying?
This weekend i went into a music show with a girl i met in the Carnival here is Brazil. It was good and all and i tried to "evolve" my getting physical, trying out new stuff and escalating (it all worked out pretty nicely,but i knew she was really interested in me so). But in the end of the show,like, 5 minutes before i went home, i tried to go completely off the wall and threw this : "can you answer me something? since we met you wanted to make out me, right?" she said no and i felt it was kinda of a turn off(we still made out once after that in the night). Is it a problem to go balls to the wall with those kind of things? Throwing cocky comments like that? btw,she was a 5-7 in appearance but 9-10 in personality so no big deal.
How do you deal with mixed signals? I've been getting mixed signals for months from different girls, really flirty one minute, then almost completely untalkative the next
How do you guys always have confidence? Every time I go out to pick up girls, I have to watch your videos to get the drive.
how do i do to not put every good lookin girl that gives me any piece of attention, on a pedestal?????????, THIS IS MY FREAKIN PROBLEM, once i put her in a pedestal, i start idealizing her and finally the fear to mess it up doesn't let me act with my normal confidence. i can only act normal with sluts(i don't idealize a easy women even if shes superhot) but with a very cute nice smart girl im doomed
How important or essential is it to make eye contact first before approaching? I am only approaching or considering approaching when i lock eyes with a girl for 2 seconds and no less. Also, i have a problem with feeling bad about third-wheeling my friend or the girl's friend/s. I genuinely feel bad about it. These are the only two issues in my way and need your input on then i should be all good. I'l. Take this time also to thank you for the laughs, the cool quotes and for encouraging us to live life.
What if a girl that I'm starting to date with dont always text me back, or call me back? (She says she is too "busy") Should I move on?
Ok i hope you guys answer this now the girls at school im trying trying to hit on them or anything im just wondering they keep acting like nice girls and telling me not to curse and stuff and im about to flip out and verbaly abuse the shit out of them what do you think they keep getting into my buisness i dont like them anyway i like other girls
How do you find out if she has a boyfriend without asking directly?
ask "Who is the most influence man to you? Don't tell me Brad Pitt bull shit or JB crap."
If she said someone else instead of saying "My boyfriend". U know the game is on. Because she is not in a serious relationship. "if she say "my boyfriend." then fuck off.
I've been going out consistently nearly everyday for the past 5 months doing daygaming but MOST girls does not respond back when I text them.. I mean I do get dates now and then, I sometime think I am bad at text game because they responds to my first text but never responded back after that.. is this normal and it's numbers game? I've recorded my voice and I dont uptalk, I don't play it safe but I still have high flake ratio!
What decides the difference between someone confident enough to be awkward around a girl and someone who simply IS awkward? In other words, how do you fuck up in front of a girl and come off as confident where others come off as losers?
Hey guys, I have an odd situation involving a girl. Last year she basically kept me on the hook with the whole "I can't be with you right now, but I do really like you" kind of thing. I managed to get off of this but she is part of my friendship group so we still see each other/talk a bit. However, unlike last year when feelings were involved this year we'll just randomly enjoy erotic conversation by text and she'll send me sexy pictures, but nothing ever happens between us. Any tips?
What should I do with a girl who has come to me for a hug before & to warm her hands, & said she'd message me her number on Facebook, but then never did. So I messaged her & then got the number from her when I invited her to a coffee shop I was headed out to. She said she might come out after work, & sounded like she would. Then she ended up going to a girl-friends house after work that night instead.
The next day she asks me if I bowl, but never really invited me. So then later on I ask her if she'd like to go bowling with me, & we made plans. Then I found out she was already planning on going with some other friends (so it was like I was invited in a way). After bowling a guy friend of hers (& mine) asks her for a hug before leaving. I think he may like her. I'm the newest member in this circle of friends, but from what I understand he's pretty new to the group too. (But I didn't hug her on the way out b/c of other prying eyes there, & I didn't want to appear to be competing) Later on Facebook we each said we had a good time.
What else is strange is how sometimes we'll chat & other times I don't get responses back from her on Facebook. I try not to too often b/c I don't want to come off as annoying, clingy/needy, or insecure. I want to maintain & escalate interest. (I did make the mistake of calling her my "friend" once to someone, & I get the feeling she likes me like I like her, but it's hard for me to tell & gauge the amount of her interest in me & what that interest might be.)
I've gotten her to laugh, but I've been told she is a quiet/shy person (although sarcastic). I seem to be the one who talks & initiates conversation more often. I should also add that not too long after we met she helped me out when I was having a problem with my car (after the guy friend I previously mentioned helped me out). I wonder if she helped me out b/c she liked me/wanted to help me, or if she did because he did (& that maybe she likes him). I think either of us could be good for her.
How should I handle this girl? What would advice, tips could you give a guy in this type of situation.
(Sorry for the lengthy question & post, but I wanted to be specific for you). Thanks
Dude just be clear with your intentions! tell her what you're thinking, that you want to be more than friends and be confident. If she doesn't want to be with you that's her loss right? you seem like your being and considerate but sometimes you have to do what you want to do!
I agree with Matthew, the longer you wait the less chance u have.
I have watched all of y'alls videos that are open to the public on YouTube and from the E-mail list. It has been tremendous help towards my courage to try and talk to girls but I still get stumped at this one point. Y'all have addressed it once or twice, but I always hear that answer. My question is, after initiating conversation with a girl, what do I talk about? I understand y'alls answer of "Whatever you want", but that's my problem, I have no clue what to talk about! Please help!!!!
surely you have enough to talk about with other people not just girls you're picking up? be yourself, have a normal conversation she'll pick up on it and if you're comfortable she'll be comfortable too. you got this dude!
CONTEXT:
There is a girl in my
school that plays it extremely hard with me. For example, sometimes I am able
to have awesome conversations with her where both of us have fun and laugh
together, but in the next day she pretends that nothing happened, and barely
even look at me. She does not say hi, I have to greet her. She spends some days
pretending not to notice my existence. What annoys me is that she is extremely
docile, caring and is always hugging and greeting everyone around her except
me. And then we are finally able to have one of those awesome conversations
again where we laugh and I even comment on how attracted I am to her.
I have been doing this
thing of talking to random girls in the street for almost a year and I have
been quite successful lately, which means I am pretty experienced with talking
to girls. But with this one, it is as if she could cancel all of my abilities.
QUESTION:
How can I make her stop
pretending that we barely know each other and make her treat me the way she
treats everyone else?
If you read my question comment, I think you'll see I'm experiencing a similar situation.
However, I haven't told this girl I'm attracted to her. (I've noticed the other guy friend has called her "beautiful" on a photo comment on Facebook though).
I didn't b/c I didn't want to appear that I'm seeking approval from her. (I don't know if that's the best tactic or not, but I've heard not to do that, or at least over do it before).
I've also heard that with a girl the thing that seems like it would be more awkward is probably less awkward than not doing it. (For example, shaking their hand instead of a hug, b/c later hugging them will seem more awkward later than if you had done so previously).
build relationship with her friends. Get their attention until she feels being ignored. She will notice u are the man in her trial and not suppose to be fucked with. She will..
1st being nice to you, but that was a shit test. Don't be so easy. Push her away.
2nd, then she will eventually respect u and show her the best side. Then that's the time to give her attention.
Women are mystery to men. So play this smart, Playa!
I like this girl who seems to look at me a lot, but we don't know each other. I would go talk to her but she is ALWAYS with her teammates who i know for a fact to be bitchy and controlling. Should i just pull her away in hopes that they don't start harassing me and telling me to leave her alone even if she is responding well? How can i pull her away without embarrassing her and ruining my chances, possibly raising my chances? P.S i love your videos!
I see this as a chance to be a boss! you can go over there, impress them all by being yourself and chat her up in the process!
Man, there's a nice stuff to talk about.
I usually pick up some girls, but there's a weird thing that always happens to me : I pick up the girl and a few days late, she starts a relationship (Maybe you already saw the movie with Jessica Alba and Dane Cook that talks about it). And it happens with all the girls i pick up. We always have nice moments, they say I am great, we talk about a future of more sex and good things…. but in the next week, the wild girl appears with a boyfriend. Why that happens ?
And there is another thing.
I'm from Brazil and what i see in your videos is : how that girls are easy if we compare with the Brazilian girls. How can the people from another country deal with this difference ?
Sorry for some language mistakes ( if you see some
) my english isn't that good yet
I have this story. I talked to a random pretty girl then I got her number and she also gave me her Facebook profile that same night, but then after that to make the story short she is now playing hard to get. Unfriended me in Facebook and She's not answering my calls. Right now Im thinking that why is she doing that to me after showing some interest and I almost kiss her that night. Well stupid me, we were about to kiss but I asked her if I could kiss her before we say our goodbyes, Hahaha. Please analyze this and what should guys do next . I think this issue is common to most guys. THANKS
I think unfriending on facebook is a bad move for you. looks like you missed your chance with this one!
hey guys i know you can get girls anywhere, but what would you recommend is your top places to meet girls at?
So regarding concert/festival game, how does that go about since summer is coming soon?
Defeating sweaty palms?
Could you explain what nice guy syndrome and entitlement is? My buddy is suffering from this and I wanna tell him he has it but I just don't know how to word it. Also, can you give a solution so he can one day overcome this bitch-assness?
Does nagging work better or straight forward tell them they are hot?
I read The Game last week and it literary charged my mind on how to pick up women.
When you are by yourself, mentally down in the dumps, how do you get in the FFM mode without music or alcohol. What do you do to get yourself pumped up and enthralled to be alive?
I was friendzoned by a girl once so one day I asked her to a study date which went really well but weeks later she stopped texting me when I asked her to a movie date.
Besides moving on, what should I do?
I have done very well in the past. Thanks to you guys, I had my first long term girlfriend. However, we have recently broke up. How do I get back out there and be the guy I used to be? I feel so out of wack now.
find a good wing man>
Sometimes, man needs another man for these types of time. Nothing homo about it.
Does racial stereotyping exist ? I am Indian from India and have an Indian accent unlike Jesse. However I feel my being Indian is a great drawback, I approach a lot of girls but almost all of them turn me down within two minutes.
What can be a convincing and a confident reply when a girl goes into Qualification mode and asks you things that might matter to her, but you're unsure about?
What can be a convincing and a confident reply to a girl that goes into Qualification mode and asks you unexpected things that might matter a lot to her, but you're unsure about.
FOR Kong, Jesse, and Jason out here,
Speaking on the topic of girls play hard to get, my question is that how do you make come back to girls who
told you they have "boyfriend" or they are "lesbians" in the night club game and in a group set?
Because girls now are smart about rejecting the guys they are not attracted to by saying these "deal-breaker" statements…..I hope you guys can explain how you would approach this type of situation?
In addition, is there a certain gesture or action(Ex:kiss,hug,etc) you need to take after got the numbers to increase your chance to meet he again…because girls can give out numbers easily, but not necessary will get back to you after you split the first time.
Thanks!
Jason Once talked about girls who have boyfriends in the project go section.
He said " When a girl tells me that she has a boyfriend, whether or not she is saying the truth, it's a good thing. Because:
1. If she is lying, she is basically not that interested and you don't need to waste a night trying to win her over and end up as her gay best friend for the last 200 years(At the very best)! This gives you the opportunity to move on to the next girl faster!
2. If she is being honest. Then she is mostly not down to cheat. which again makes you realize that you need to move on to the next girl faster!
Imagine The girl not telling you about her boyfriend and you spend a whole night with her + buying her drinks + loosing your other opportunities….By the end of the night she goes:
"I really can't do this JJ, I have a boyfriend" doesn't it sound alot worst?
Lesbians would fall into "NOT ATTRACTED" Girls.
You Got This Player!
Hey guys,
on an advanced level topic (& sexual),
how to make a girl that i just met for the first time wet/horny without looking like a pervert ?
There's no "1 sentence" answer to that.
This may help you out:
Attraction triggers:
Getting physical
Teasing
Storytelling
Questions ====> statements
Exaggerate everything
Role plays
Remember to:
Keep your voice from your chest
Laugh/smile only when you want, and not to seek rapport with others
Ignore others when you don't want to respond
Never argue
Dont ask too many questions!
You Got This Player!
What motivated you guys to be pickup gods. How did it all start?
Right from before the first video.
question.
I met a girl, she made me a "shit test" and made a lot of sarcastic comments, I threw them back to her.
After that she was pretty interested in me ( thanks for that guys).
But when i tried to kiss her she was saying; "NO, i won´t kiss you", but I didn´t flinch, I tried again and finally kissed her.( it lasted like 10 seconds but then she took off.)
the question: WHY?, if I passed the " shit test", throw her comments back, being persistent and all that stuff, why she took off? does that mean that she wasn´t totally into me after I did everything SIMPLE PICKUP said in the section above?
pd: when i tried to kiss her again i totally freak out and didn't know what to do, because she was sayin: "you already kissed me, aren´t you happy now?" ( she was kind of serious.)
I think persistence is a good action when the girl give you some signals, but, in my experience, show indiference when she isn´t invest in the interaction is PURE GOLD. Almost with really hot girls. 80% of the time she thinks:"What the fuck with this guy?? Why he is not trying to get me like all the others?"
One of the main ideas of SPU "method" is: Don´t be a pussy. Well, i think a pussy is a guy who doens´t value herself, and a guy who is trying on an on to get the girls attention when she is giving him shit all the time, is a pussy. He is giving his interest for nothing in return.
This idea is a pattern i have see thousand times in my life: You chase the girl for weeks, even months and she gets bored. Then, one day, you think:"Fuck you" and try to move forward. Two weeks later you receive a sms from the girl: "Hi! Do you want to do something tonight?". Girls are not logical. They like a challenge not a gift.
By the way, i want to thank you your work guys. After three months of intense pick up (and a bunch of girls) i have found the one: The most cuttes, smart, funny and sweet girl i have meet in years. I couldn´t have done without your tips and your mentality.
Keep going
After how many dates is it best to take a girl home to have sex?
easy question…you don't follow a fixed rule in here. Depending on the girls meet, you decide how fast you wanna move and take action…Generally second date would be both gentle and not too slow.
Soo third/fourth date its ok to pull home for a movie or sum shit
These comments need to be monitored, too many "Simple Pickup" accounts. -.-
You re the man, Tony. You decide the next move. Taking a risk is much better than to wait and see how things work out. Girls are more attracted to guys willing to take the risk. If your next move doesn t work immediately, try it again a moment later. If it doesnt work at all, the girl isnt worth it.
How to improve your self confidence and how does it help you when talking to a girl?
I've tried to ask this question a couple different times: what tips do you have for guys wanting to practice pickup on a small campus? I want to get some practice in, but with only 650 students total, word travels fast, and I don't want to be considered "desperate" or "the man-whore." Please, I could really use some help in this regard.
Not always you need to practice on Campus…
So many of the students find locations with more crowds like city centers, Malls etc…
It is gonna be harder, but it would make you stronger! Do it at least once a week.
You Got this Player!
Hello , i love a girl that i'm her classmate in 2012 i never talked to her about something interesting because i wasn't confident and enough to talk to girls i was such a big pussy.. my Question is : can i approach her now?
OF COURSE YOU CAN!
-Why not take a chance? Think of it like this: Would you rather not to approach her at all and regret it for the rest of your life? Or would you rather to approach her and Get rejected? Choose your option.
You know how you just go up to random girls, you tell'em that you just noticed them and you thought how cute they were? Now Go up to her Somewhere less crowded, and tell her that you've noticed her since 2012….And you think she looooksss So Gorgeous. Also let her know what you like the most about her! Finally Give her a short, fun conversation ending with a number/scheduled date….HUG HER and Say your Goodbyes…
You Got This Player!
How to get girls who have a boyfriend (obviously you don't know the boyfriend). - I know it's not very ethical though :p
You firstly need to know if the girl is the right type, is she down or not!
If she's down, your job is to make her feel as comfortable as possible about getting in bed with you.
You need her to know that cheating is not a big fucking deal!
+ If she's down, she would probably act and respond to you like a single girl anyways…
So your question sucks!
You don't do anything. If you go after her while she has a bf, that's breaking the guy code. Everyone should know that. It's best to play the waiting game. When the relationship is over, wait a little while, then show her you're interested and that you want to be more than friends. If you hit on her while she has a bf, he has every right to kick your ass.
Simple pickup, can you show us how to pick up this kind of girls who have a shield and hard to get in How to get her number episodes, or Project GO??
Simple pickup, can you show us how to pick up this kind of girls who have a shield and hard to get in How to get her number episodes, or Project GO??
Simple Pickup, do big ears matter?
Does it matter to you?
i didn't got gut to talk to girl on street…but i talk with many girls of my collge and got theri number…..the thing is….no one give a dam! it's been 2 years i've been talking with girl n asking theri number….once when i talk with them after some month no one show intrest on me…like she don't like to talk with me….what to do broda?…ur ever tips bring me to this level but one little things loosing my hope…sometime it's made think that there's no point on doing this…..but ma mind think that i need to learn a lot!
Ok there is this girl and I got with her and she had a really fun time I could tell she was very into me but then after the date she said I just want to be friends and I said ok thats fine with me and all of that pussy stuff but she just broke up with her boyfriend of over 2 years and her house mother is trying to cock block me hard she is a exchanged student from mexico but what can I do to stop this cock block and get with this amazing girl
What to do to get that one girl you want when you failed the first attempt?
Drama. Explain push/pull and some vulnerability examples. This is where most guys are pussys and dont know about this. Even I don't know much about this.
simple question:
how much persistant shall I be? she is smiling but her actions says "no"
How do you approach a girl right away without any second thoughts?
Put your right foot in front of your left foot, and the put your left foot in the front. Continue this until you stand face to face with her and open your mouth. Then start moving your tongue to make different sounds.
PS! Try to combine these sounds into letters and words. If you practice enough you will eventually be at such a high level that you can start creating sentences! Good luck!
How do you know if a girl is playing with you? Like if she's just making you get crazily attracted to her, whereas she doesn't want you as a sexual partner (the same way cats play with mice).
I really appreciate the work you do but why lying? ''If you go out by yourself or with your buddies, it will take you YEARS before you see real results.'' THIS IS NOT TRUE !
So, what if the girl seems to be playing hard to get but has a boyfriend, what should I do? Any ideas are apreciated.
-_- Niggers Girls dose play hard to get Fucked >
What should be the response if a girl compliments another guy you both mutually know, on a date? Is she shit testing if you feel inferior or is she using you as a bait to get him? What can be done?
How can you pick up girls in a library? Most of the time they look too serious or into their work and it's as if they don't actually want to be approached.
Its true you first grow a pare of ball and do it it dosent matter take risk
How to keep girls in check when you are gaming a few of em? Making sure that they dont know about each other.
what is the best way getting motivated to pick up girls?
What if she is smiling and talking nicely but not giving her number ?
My only problem is, to get further then making out. I always go in for the kiss and we're making out heavily… she knows i have a boner and stuff. But i have no idea how to push her a little bit more to get more physical like sex.
Some advice would be nice
tell her to get naked and fuck her. turn her on my touching her below the bicep on elbow or kissing her neck or whatever
Like they say, be confident. You take control. start grabbing her and move her hands where you want them to go. If they want to go farther they will. If not they'll slowly pull away and you'll keep making out.
I use was wandering.. when I'm trying too get my friend, i'm btw not in the friendzone but she's super shy and me and her have been texting, but I never know what to talk about….
This amazing girl texts me and flirts like fuck yet whenever I ask her out she "has plans" is it a safe bet to wait since she clearly has interest or should I just move on?
Its best to move on dude. Sounds like your being carried by this chick. I have gone out with a flirty girl and trust me she acts like that with other guys so move on.
I played hard on a girl, now she plays hard on me by disconnecting and ignoring. It seems I went a bit too hard on her and cross her limit. How can I make her talk to me again?
What If she say she still likes you but she keep making excuses why not to call her what do I do I been on two dates with her already?
If she plays hard is it a good idea to talk to other girls so she sees that she is not the only girl i'm trying to get?
Her playing hard to get is a shit test. She's testing whether you are committed enough and persistent enough for her by playing hard to get. Talking to other girls in front of her just means that you are failing her test. And no one wants to start a relationship on jealousy anyway..
Not necessarily. Being persistent is good but when you start to be needy about it that's when she will lose interest. Honestly just do what you want. If you want to hit on other girls go ahead but if you only want to do it to get some sort of reaction from her then your doing it from a place of jealousy. You'll look like a dumbass and not only that but she'll be long gone. Talking to other girls shows you don't give a shit whether your passing them or not and that is how you truly pass them.
help me choose between two girls! I got the opprotunity of choosing between 2 of my favorite girls but I don't know which one to choose! I'd love to be with both but that ain't happening! I need help on choosing, or even if the best choice would be not to choose either of them. I'm still in highschool and I also want to exploit me being single in highschool! Thank-you guys for everything, love what you do.
When talking to a girl, texting and talking on the phone seems to be very awkward for me, id rather talk to her face to face, so my question is… How do you keep a strong connection without texting, or phone calling. Fuck technology, rather talk to girls old fashioned. Oh, an another thin is when you talk to a girl, and they dont talk to you for a week, then all of a sudden they call you, how should you approach this? Thanks guys
Hey Jesse, Jason and Kong!
My question: When you're trying to be pure yourself everywhere and I mean, literally, EVERYWHERE, how to not become like a douche or an asshole? Because I started trying to be true-self and with the most girls in my school (I'm a senior student) it seems completely fine: I flirt with them, joke with them and, you know, just have a good time fooling around them, although some started to avoid me, because of ME (I'm completely fine with that, as you said, you can't have every single girl), BUT with my male friends it's began to be complicated, because most of them do not like the way I act. So am I becoming a douche and an asshole or is that my friends fault, like they are not my true friends or smth? I know your Dr. Seuss quite, but still wanted to ask you this question, So yeah… Hope my English isn't very bad, I'm not from USA…
Thanks
when i´m talking to a girl, it happens sometimes thaat she starts ignoring me for no reason, when she obviously was interested in me…
what can i do in these situations?
read the hard to get article she is one of those you have to impress her in the little time you get
good luck
Oh, and I completely forgot I had another one… You taught us how to approach the girls and how to talk with them. What I wanted to ask is what you should say like after you approach the girl? Like for example:
Me: Hi, you look really cute and I wanted to talk with you.
Girl: Oh, okay.
Me: So, my name is ……. Nice to meet you.
Girl: And mine is … nice to meet you too.
Aaaaand what know? Should you start popping random questions such as "What is your favorite fruit?" "I guess you live in …." "Where are you going from?" oooor what? So, yeah… Thanks one more time.
Hey! Don't enter the interview mode! Give her a quick compliment like " You seem pretty stylish, I would say you just came from a photoshoot"say it a smile and she'll then see that you like her and you'll find out more of her personality by how she reacted to your compliment.
How do you shake hands with a girl? Do you do the submissive handshake (palm facing up) or the 45º handshake?
if she says you're annoying does that mean you're going overboard?
So If I go out and try to pickup girls everyday and record myself and I do my best to follow what you guys preach and try to improve my game each time I go out what should I realistically expect of my progression be at the 1/4 mark, 1/2 mark, 3/4 mark, and 1st year of pickup?
I feel that a year is not enough time to judge real progress. And for how you'll be doing, it really depends on YOU. These guys were by themselves, and they got to here. It all depends on who you are and how you represent that. And maybe where you live. New York girls (where I am, at least) are mostly stuck up…
how do you make a move on a girl if you were a pussy with her for some time ? (class mate)
how do you compete with other dudes in school? i'm not saying with her boyfriend, but other guys who are also interested in her.
Pick up girls in college! There are a lot of hot girls around the college but they all knew each other, how do you deal with that rumors. Example: In a group of hot girls you try to hit on one girl but then she not interested and the rest of them will kind of know what kind of person I am and try to be. – Question: How Do you move on and hit on the other girl in the group?
I can get numbers. I smile joke a little and touch them and get their numbers. What I have trouble with is sexually getting them attracted to me so that they want to see me again.
Hi guys
I don´t quite know if this counts as an excuse but let me explain my issue.
I´m from a very conservative country, and even from a more conservative part of that country.
So it´s not normal meeting random people in the street, like you guys do.
Culturaly there´s always supposed to be there some kind of excuse to meet new people, either by beeing
classmates or by having mutual friends, etc.
So when approaching girls in a random place it always comes of as desperation because only someone who´s
desperate to get girl would do something like that.
I´ve talked to many friends about it and the usual anwser i get is something like :"it´s not normal to do that", "no one
does that", and so on and so on.
So yeah is very hard to approach girls i don´t know from anywhere without imidiatly coming off as desperate.
I consider myself a cool funny guy and i always try to make the best of any situation but being a computer engineer
student is next to impossible to meet girls in class(since there aren´t any).
I know this all sounds like a pretty big excuse, but things are as I have described them.
So having this in consideration what do you guys think I should do?
Should I keep approaching girls until i find one cool enough to accept me or should i try different "tactics",
approaches.
I'm wordering that myself, because I'm having almost the same situation here.
So how do you make friends? I don't think you get the point. Simple pick up dose.video to show us that we shouldnt be afraid to walk up to a girl and have a conversation. How would anyone get married or be in a Realtionship if this didn't happen. You must be 14
How to last longer in bed, you guys have any techniques you are willing to share? ^^
why do women online lose interest so fast?
When in bed with a girl who is a virgin, how can i get her to want to have sex? I could rub her on top of her pants but every time i put my hand under her pants she would pull it back out.
I went to talk to a girl that I think it's hard to get. I used some jokes to try to get her number but she said she had a boyfriend. I know that's an excuse. What should I do now? Should I be persistent?
If you don't mind cheating then sure go ahead.
I started approaching girls about a year ago. For sure I have already approched more than 100 girls, I feel really good, I can pickup lots of numbers but hardly ever I can convert it in a date. Please give me some tips.
If you have time don't just go for the number cause a number doesn't mean shit. Try to seal the deal by doing something with her at that very moment. What I usually did was have a good 30 minute conversation then invite her to come with me to nando's or starbucks Afterwards tell her that I want to take her out on a date and before leaving a give her a hug. I suggest being much more physical cause it will definitely boost the chances of her being down. Good luck
Hey guys, I usually daygame in shopping, I not good approching groups directly. I dont feel good saying "Hey girls, you are really cute" Because most of the time I just felt attracted for one girl. I usually go talk to the girls and ask permission to flert with the cuttest one. What do you thing about that?
hey guys, i have a real tough question. So i like this girl but i think she's firendzoning me and i can't get out of the "friend zone". what can i do?
If you want to be her friend then do nothing. If your trying to get laid then risk it all by going direct and tell her your intentions and that you were being a bitch up until now. If that doesn't work then it was cause you weren't honest from the beginning and you should just move on and don't make the same mistake. Trust me I have made this mistake all throughout high school and I never went on a date until a couple of months ago. I was this on chicks friend for two years and I asked her out and she of course said she sees me as a friend. I tried to be her friend but it only dragged me down so forget about her. Being her friend will slow you down so go for it and don't waste any time.
Hi Jesse, Jasson and Kong!
First a big Thanks for you guys ! My question is how can i avoid to make Excuses? And annother Point is how can i pick up a girl, who is in a group of girls ?
Thanks Phil
Hey guys! How do you deal with ignorance? It's known that girls are more interested by guys who won't really give a f*ck about them. How do you apply this in your pickup method? I'm speaking short term (in a club) and long term (at school). Thanks a lot!
guys, here is the thing.. I saw this girl, thought that she was amazing and just froze up. How can we not freeze up in situations like this? thanks!
Call yourself out when your freezing up. It depends how you freeze up. You can either freeze up in your mind thinking fuck what should I say, fuck, fuck, fuck and go into a downward spiral. If that's how just start talking and trust what you say cause in order to break out of that you need to snap back into reality. If you just run out of things to say and your starring at her then just admit that you froze up. Or you can just say Anyways and continue. As long as you stay calm then your good.
Hello guys please make a video on how to get a girl who already has a boyfriend i love her and im his best friend but i really dont know what to do
How do I pick up chicks that aren't the same langunage as I am?
In referencing the old school pickup style, Mystery Method. It talks about jealousy plotlines, for example, opening a set then using her to open another, subconsciously setting a competition between both girls. Basically using jealousy to your advantage. Do you guys use this method or similar tactics? and can you make a video to explore it in depth?
How do you approach a cute girl when you are on a bus or a train/ or you are in a closed quiet place in general where people can hear your conversation? Does my pick up look awkward in those situations?
No it doesn't. Just go up to her and say hi do you mind if I sit next to you? 90# of the time shes going to say yeah sure. So right when you sit down you introduce yourself and begin the conversation however you like.
How should I greet a girl on the second date if we kissed in the first one?
HEY!
I have a really important question for you guys; I've asked all my friends what they think I should do and none of them seems to know the answer. Hope you guys can help me out
I've been seeing this girl for 4 weeks now; I've made out with her. During the first week we hung out we use to talk all the time, then her phone broke and after that she stopped talking to me on Facebook but I would drop by occasionally to say hi. She would tell me she likes me when I see her but when we're not together she doesn't make the effort to come see me or talk to me. I feel like I have to put in all the effort and she's told me she'll try to talk to me but she never does. She also tells her best friend that she really likes me so I'm really confused. My main question is…How do you deal with a girl who is giving you mixed signals????
Hey guys, since I started going out and talk to girls, I have a really huge problem. It seems that I can't build the attraction. I have plenty of interesting stuff to talk about. I always have the best conversation but I absolutely CAN'T build that sexual feeling. Hope you guys can help me!
Hey Simple Pickup, I have a question.. What do you do if a girl gets physical on you? I mean, hitting you and stuff. You hit her back or what?
No you don't. That's your cue to start getting sexual with her.
Hey guys, just a question on how to pick up girls on the bus. I understand at every situation we should be talking to cute girls but if she rejects you and other girls can see and overhear your pickup because of the close proximity to everyone, do you suggest just moving on to the next one?
NO.(FUCK IT DO IT).
how to pick a girl up at the gym
This is my question: You guys say that don't believe in baby steps. It makes sense for me in theory, but in practice so far I have not being able to just approach a girl and be direct. I can kick my ass to go and open her with some indirect bullshit, but when I want to do some direct I just don't do it. So my question would be: How do you get in this 'mood' to just do it?
I know how you feel you just have to do it on the first girl. It doesn't matter if she is fat, ugly whatever just hit on her and you'll start to get in the mood. I always remind myself that looks aren't all that important if she acts like a bitch so just hit on all the girls you can. Good luck
My question: I realize that when alone with a girl, or any other person really, conversation invariably has its up and downs, from very talkative to very quiet. I know that it's not supposed to be awkward, but every time I'm alone with a girl, I feel the awkwardness building. It's as if with every passing moment of silence, my attractiveness plummets. I can play it off like I'm not affected by it, but how can I truly not be affected by conversational silence?
Remember its only awkward if you think its awkward. Your letting your emotions cloud your logic and that will never work. If she doesn't feel awkward and you do for no reason except your own inner insecurities then your letting her dominate the interaction and she will lose interest fast. To release some of the tension you could call yourself out on it. For example you could say wow I just forgot what I was gonna say give me a second to think. If she says no or gives you a shit test while your thinking like come on I don't have all day. You could either ignore it and say your topic once you thought it up or challenge it by saying well I mean it is only 12 oclock. To truly not be affected you have to endure it. If you want to take it a step further don't talk at all and just stay in until she either leaves or says something. It may be uncomfortable at first but that's how you can control the interaction.
I got a quick story to show you what I mean. After watching these videos I tried making things awkward and it made me laugh so much. I went to target with my best friend and we were buying condoms. Im 18 but I look like im around 16 or so and we were in the aisle choosing condoms. EVERYONE was staring I kid you not but we were so loud about it I was getting in god mode. I was like hey these magnums look good. Friend: but those are xxl. Me: Exactly. Let me see these look like they'll be perfect for you. "Picks up xxs condoms". Were laughing our asses off. We go through the checkout and I put condoms down along with everything else. The cashier grabbed the condoms and just starred at me. I starred back and said yeah were about to get laid tonight and everyone was dying of laughter. The cashier was said I remember buying my first condoms and the awkwardness was gone. Its all about your perception dude. Control your mind don't let it control you.
My question: I realize that when alone with a girl, or any other person really, conversation invariably has its up and downs, from very talkative to very quiet. I know that it’s not supposed to be awkward, but every time I’m alone with a girl, I feel the awkwardness building. It’s as if with every passing moment of silence, my attractiveness plummets. I can play it off like I’m not affected by it, but how can I truly not be affected by conversational silence?
How do you talk to girls if they are with friends or parents? Because I was at the mall and a lot of the cute ones were with friends or their mom or what not. So if you had any tips on how to talk to girls when they are in the company of a few friends or family THAT WOULD BE GREAT!
i going to a all girl school this saturday and hoping to pick up chicks , i set up the " go " game with my friend but i dont think its enough , any advice i could get
What is a good way to approach a cute girl in your college dorm or what's the best way to try to hit it off with your TA?
THIS MIGHT BE USEFUL FOR SOME PEOPLE. I like women, I actually love many things about women, but when I go out there and pick up women I don't do it because what I like about them, I pick up women because I feel the necessity to prove myself and the rest of the society that I have a ability that is considered valuable. In this way, why are we really looking up for ways to become better at this?
How to get regressive girls? The girls who just won't talk at the first approach but might be a good friend/sex partner later coz some girls just don't like to get approached how to deal with these girls?
in the meeting girls at school/college podcast, you guys mentioned you would do a podcast on meeting girls at work. Is that coming anytime soon?
Also, how do you guys deal with boners in various situation with girls? Talking to girls, dancing with girls; pretty much anytime the moment is not blatantly sexual, but your dick doesn't know any better.
What first steps did you guys take. To become the best?
We have all seen your stories how yous all were big pussies and now you own the pussies.
What motivated you guys to get all the way to the top?
how do you get her attention when she keeps on moving?
how could you talk to her when she is busy or with her friends?
how do you talk to her when you ar in a party and all of you are sitting and playing at the same table?
the awkward moment when everybody stops and look at you.. smiling and winking.
Last, how do you remove the bitch butterfly effectively except doing excersice?
cuz sometimes when i get rejected my BB is killing me off. i do push up in the middle of the mall and sometimes its still there..
How do know when a girl is interested in you?
How do you know when a girl is interested in you?
thanks guys but what about a real conservative girl who's in band and doesn't even hug dudes. I've been trying to work my magic like you guys said but its real hard to get close and touchy without her stepping back. and says she's not like this with other dudes. Thanks, advise has really helped me and my fellow scrub friends.
How to make your conversation with a girl not boring (and even interesting!) ?
so heres the deal , im a random dude avg looking communicative ,no defects(at least not my apearance ) and i have a problem even i dont know how to call it … when im working i can always talk to women no matter how they look react or no mater what theyr personality is they always react to me with a smile , but when i go out , in a club for example my mind is playing tricks on me and i cant do anyything , and by anything i mean i cant get any women to be interested in me at any level , friendzone is a gold metal if i achive one .. so the bootom line question is what the hell iswrong with me , whats the diffrence betwen me in the club or me at work … being drunk or normal its always the same i dont know what to change .. is it my approach thats screwed or what … if this continues im gona be left dry dicked for the rest of my life so please give me an advice and save my "johonson" from ethernal hell.. thx!
Heres a question that a lot of guys will want answering, you guys have a big crowd of people watching your videos, most of them in high school or aged around 17+. The main problem for us is, hitting on older women, and i don't mean that much older maybe 21 – 25, they don't seem to react well when you tell them your ages e.g 17 or 18. Its as if we are a bit too young. So what do we do to get around this obstacle apart from lie cause, A ive been caught out, and B i don't look old enough. So be awesome if you could help all the younger players wanting to hit on older girls.
P.S
you guys are fucking awesome, keep up the good work and inspiring everyone to get off there ass and do something with there life.
Hey guys, Im a 16 (nearly 17) year old Junior in high school, and i like this girl who is two grades below me (Freshman). In my school there is this thing where its seen as being weird if you date anyone in the grades below you, and because of this i haven't made any direct moves or shown my feelings at all, but we talk and we are on the swim team together. I don't really know what to do about it, so any advice would be greatly appreciated,
Thanks guys
PS We have a big swim meet where we go away for a long weekend and i was thinking about doing something then.
Like in the Article just Don't give a fuck for this "don't date girls in grades below you". My girlfriend is over 2 years younger then me and my "friends" try to make funny comments about her being young and stuff but i don't give a fuck and I am happy with it! It doesn't matter from where she is or how old she is, it's just important to have the right feeling.
You should totally talk to her on this trip and try to show her your interesst! Go for it Bro!!
Thanks for the advice, but i'm also kinda nervous that she will think i'm weird, or that we shouldn't date or something because of the age gap and the "social status" thing, but then again, i guess i'll never know if i don't get over my bitch butterflies, so yeah, thanks for the advice and i think im gna go for it
Thanks
How do you pick up girls when your 21, and you have a chi.ld how do you bring it up or should you not say anything can you please make a video on how to pick up girls with letting them know you have a child.
what do you do if you flirt with a girl you get her number but the next day you hear from your friends that she thinks your creppy?This has never happened to me before?
Guys I started playing video games since i was 13 to 15 and when I started doing simple tips from simple pick up I realized that I don't know what to ask, how to continue or how to change to the next subject and still escalate the relationship between the girl I just met and I want to bang. Please Please Someone reply because I'm only 15 years old and I don't have a credit card My parents wont let me and It gets awkward if I tell them the reason why I would want to have an account of simple pick up. Please anyone?
What if she isn't smiling? What if she's just flaking on texts and invitation to go out? Also she's a classmate. Am I suppose to persist and how?
There's this girl that I have known for almost 2 years now. Of course we started off as friends and are relationship started to build up each day. In the summer of 2011(when I met her) we would text everyday and hangout once in a while. When I left for 2 months to go on a vacation our friendship started escalating into a more serious relationship I guess you can say. When I came back we started hangout more and I started going to her house and stuff. We cuddle but I really didn't want to rush into things at the time because she was going through a rough time. I felt that I miss some opportunities because there was times she would get really close to me and started rubbing her body against etc. As time went buy I was going to ask her out but she said that she needed more time. So after I heard that I knew I fucked up. But we were still cool but our relationship started drifting once school has started. By the way she was a Jr and I was senior at this time.
We still hung out but not as much as before. We still cared for each other because we would help each other out. She knew I really liked her but I wasn't sure if she still liked me. I talked to her and she basically put me in the friend zone and acted like we didn't have anything. She basically turned into something else. But I stilled talked to her but it wasn't the same. Her birthday came up and I had bought her flowers and made her a CD of the songs she liked. I've never done this for a girl before, so that tells you something. Turns out she got mad for some reason. I got annoyed and basically told her I couldn't be friends with her, she got mad at me and so we stopped talking for 2 months. Later on she ends up going out with my best friend.
I then graduated in 2012 and we still didn't talk. I ended up moving to another state after graduation. Two weeks after I left, she then writes me a letter on FB saying how she misses me and how she made a mistake and shit like that. I ended up forgiving her. We are still talking now. She still has everything I gave her, such as the CD I made her. The way I look at this is that why would she talk me right after I moved to another state? She could of moved on and do something else, but I don't know. What do you think?
Dude(s), how to make girls attracts and dying to know me in less than 1 hour ?
Hi guys,
I met this girl a while ago. We had a solid chat and I found I really liked her. I've only seen her twice since. Both times I've choked up, despite having no problem talking to her the first time. I still managed to get her number and I plan on taking her out.
What should I do about this problem? When we are out, I don't want to be gagging on John Thomas all night. I really like this girl, I want it to work, but I don't want to screw up.
hey guys, me and a few of my mates are having a similar problem. not sure if its our area or something we're doing. ALOT of the time when we get a girls number and get talking to her, things seem to be going well, we might even meet them out at a club or something once or twice. but when we set dates to catch up with them we seem to have really really high bail rates. thoughts on what we could do about this or why it might be happening?