How To Get Along With Your Girlfriend’s Family

This post is specifically for those men out there who want to impress their girlfriend’s family. In most cases, having great rapport and a relationship with your girlfriend’s parents are good things. Usually it means you’ll be together longer and the relationship will be stronger because it creates less stress for her to keep you around her world.

This is not for men who want to keep the girl as a fuck buddy because meeting a girl’s parents means you want to get serious. Be wise and honest with your choices.

However, this does not mean you should become buddies with the family members. There is this big misconception that you need to be FRIENDS or even father / son type with the parents. In reality, if you’re too close to her family, you’re going to be pushing your girlfriend away.

Why So?

You are the one who makes her happy, sexual, and relaxed as she is able to take a break from her own life, especially emotionally. This is why she’s with you in the first place and it’s why girls don’t date their cousins; she wants someone unique, fun, and different from what she knows.

So, if you’re too close to the family and you become really good friends with her sisters, brothers, cousins, and even buddies with the parents you can get sucked into her mind and you have completely immersed yourself in her own life.

Where’s the escape? Where’s the divide from her life and yours?

This is something you have to think about and be careful of when it comes to getting along with your girlfriend’s family.

Getting Along With Your Girlfriend’s Family

Prepare

Before you even step inside her house, make sure you know what you’re getting yourself into. You want to know her family member names, ages, occupations, and most importantly, traditions: do they hug? Handshake? Are you able to speak to her grandparents? What is respectful?

You might think this is too much, but honestly, if you have a rundown of what you’re going to get yourself into, you’ll have a better way of interacting and leaving a great first impression with them.

Remember, first impressions last forever.

Be Yourself With Her Siblings, Cousins, and Friends

Your girlfriend is with you because of your personality, so why not show it off to her siblings, cousins, and friends? There is no need to fake or tone down your personality. Of course, tone down the sexual interactions with her in front of them. The idea is to make them feel as happy as you make your girlfriend.

You don’t have to try hard, you just have to be yourself, and it’s this polarizing true self that they’ll appreciate.

Dealing With Her Parents

I’ve learned that her parents can be taken aback if you come off too strong. Her parents usually want the best for their daughter and they don’t want some guy hurting her in anyway. Therefore, you have to show that you’re a nice guy by well, opening up your personality… slowly.

The idea is to calibrate yourself until they’re ready to open up to you. Once the parents become comfortable and begin opening up to you, you’ll be able to start showing more of your personality.

In the end, you do want her parents to like you and you do want to be able to have a casual conversation with them. But, for right now, you have to be patient until they open up to you.

I remember making the grave mistake of going in for a hug when I first met one of my girlfriend’s parents. It’s my personality to go for hugs and they were taken aback. This is what I mean when it comes to prepping and slowly showing your personality.

They didn’t start giving me hugs until I was at their house for a couple more times and we could carry a fun conversation. So, be patient.

Don’t Go To Them When You’re Fighting

If you and your girlfriend are fighting, don’t be a dumbass and go to her family. More so than not, they will be watching out and will be on her side when it comes to almost anything between you and her. Therefore, just back off.

Be Yourself

At the end of the day you can only do so much to get along with her family. It’s not a make or break situation if her parent’s don’t like you. It’s usually a breaking point, though, if you can’t get along with them. Remember, they don’t necessarily have to like you, but you need to get along with them. Respect, cordiality, and the ability to cohabitate with her family will make both your lives easier when it comes to dating.

You don’t want to seem like a threat. Rather, you want to be a guy they know will take care of their cousin, sister, grandchild, friend, or daughter.

- Jason


96 Responses to How To Get Along With Your Girlfriend’s Family

  1. Alex August 20, 2013 at 7:31 pm #

    So here's the story: I've been on a mountain trip alongside a few people I know, one of which is my current girlfriend, back then we were friends and she got "drunk" ( so she says, she only drank 2 shots and a bit of whisky ) and we hooked up, few days after I told her that I liked her and she refused me because "she wouldn't feel comfortable in a relationship", few weeks afters after going on 1 week abroad I come back and all of a sudden we're in a relationship after pretending to do not really care. Now that we're in a relationship I feel like I am the only one that is taking initiative all the time and am afraid that it won't last that long.

    • JesseKongJason August 20, 2013 at 7:33 pm #

      @Alex

      If you feel like it's not going to last long, then it won't. Your state of mind is very important because negative thoughts will become a "self-fulfilling prophecy." We have many articles on this site to help you with your relationship issues. The idea is to always keep it exciting. But, I think one of the best ways to get her to take initiative is to flat out sit down with her and communicate both your needs: "Tell me what you want to do… surprise me this time."

      • Alex August 20, 2013 at 7:37 pm #

        thanks! :D

      • John August 25, 2013 at 4:04 am #

        I’ve talked to this girl every once in a while last year
        And just got her number yesterday. I called her and
        We talked and laughed the whole time and after we hung up
        We texted each other about a date. I called her this
        Morning and she said she was eating so I said call me
        When you’re done. She hasent called me since and it
        Was getting dark outside so I Texted her saing “hey”
        She hasent responded yet but was instagram liking
        Her friends pictures 30 mins later. What do I do? Or what
        Is she doing?

        • Ryan December 21, 2013 at 7:45 am #

          If she's dodging you're text's/calls and you just met her yesterday, it's probably to fast for her.
          You should probably wait 2 or 3 days and then call to ask if she wants to get coffee or drinks some time. If she doesn't answer, you should text asking the same thing.
          Don't give her two missed calls, if she wants to meet up, she'll reply back to you.
          If not, move on

    • Alex August 20, 2013 at 7:35 pm #

      Sorry for my grammar, not really paying attention…will try to rephrase it shortly. We spent the night together ( no sex ) in a trip, told her I like her, she refused me, I go in Greece, I come back, we get together and have a relationship and now I don't feel like she likes me the way I like her and the relationship is more of a guilt/pity thing from her. She doesn't really take initiative and I don't feel like it's going all that well. What should I do, will it get better?

      • JesseKongJason August 20, 2013 at 7:44 pm #

        @Alex

        Read our relationship articles. It's your state of mind. Communicate your needs to her: seriously, sit down and have a one on one talk about your relationship. The idea is to see where is coming from and how she views a relationship. Though you might not end up together, at least you'll know what each other wants. Also, take it easy and stop worrying: enjoy the ride.

  2. Steve August 20, 2013 at 7:33 pm #

    Do u have any tips or suggestions for a new pick up channel in germany? Me and my homie are planning something like this for the past months..Thanks for any advice.

    • JesseKongJason August 20, 2013 at 7:45 pm #

      @Steve

      Start one and see what happens. In addition, you can contact us once your channel gets bigger.

  3. Zacoo August 20, 2013 at 7:33 pm #

    What if they catch u kissing her?

    • JesseKongJason August 20, 2013 at 7:36 pm #

      @Zacoo

      As long as it isn't sex or a hardcore making out. However, have common sense and make sure that when you do anything sexual that the coast is clear: don't whip out your dick if her mother is in the room. More so than none, just stop kissing and move on with what you're going to do.

      • Daniel August 30, 2013 at 12:06 am #

        guys i have somethings i wanna ask u about, so i met this solid fucking ten, shes beautiful, i approached her we spoke and stuff like that, she said in the middle of the convo '' but im impressed your confidence is refreshing usually i have to tell other guys off because they come off kinda creepy''..we spoke some more, i asked for her digits and she said add me on facebook,what did i do wrong?

  4. paul August 20, 2013 at 7:33 pm #

    Is it possible to create sexual tension for daygame? If so how?

    • JesseKongJason August 20, 2013 at 7:36 pm #

      @Paul

      We can answer this question in detail on Project GO. It's too in depth to go over via this comment section.

  5. Amine August 20, 2013 at 7:33 pm #

    Does Love Exist ?

    • JesseKongJason August 20, 2013 at 7:37 pm #

      @Anime

      Love isn't Santa Clause or the Tooth Fairy. It's a feeling. Feelings exist.

  6. Garrett August 20, 2013 at 7:34 pm #

    What are the 3 best ways to enter GODMODE ?

  7. Jurica Kovacevic August 20, 2013 at 7:34 pm #

    Hey guys, huge fan, been watching you and have been subbed for quite a while, helped me a ton. I'm just often times having trouble getting my ass off the PC and going out to meet girls, what do you guys do to get yourself out there? What did you do when you first started? I'm unable to use the no fap method as I'm 14 and no girls want to have sex that early.. I'm also annoyed with girls that find the way I speak to them (which is open, honest, sexual ect.) repulsive and they thing that I'm a nymphomaniac, pretty much they act like sex is a tabu topic which it is but they blow it way out of proportion. Been trying to pick up 16+ year old girls (because I feel that mentally they're closer to my level) but they find me too young for them, out of 20 I approach, about 17 say that I'm too young (which they only find out when I tell them, otherwise they think I'm much older) which is killing me. I'm 6 foot 5 and very mature for my age hince 16+..

    • JesseKongJason August 20, 2013 at 7:40 pm #

      Hey Jurica,

      First, watch this video to get inspired: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h64TFQpX5cM Second, don't take baby steps to get off your ass, instead just fucking do it. It's all in your state of mind when it comes to your vision of girls; your state of mind is what dictates your confidence levels. You got this player.

  8. Uncle August 20, 2013 at 7:35 pm #

    Waddup neffew?

    • JesseKongJason August 20, 2013 at 7:40 pm #

      @Uncle

      Stop touching your nephews.

  9. Chill dude August 20, 2013 at 7:36 pm #

    If your in a foreign country and you want to pick up a girl, how do you get around the language barrier or is it impossible ? (Assuming the girl knows some English of course)

    • JesseKongJason August 20, 2013 at 7:42 pm #

      @Chill dude

      In Project GO we have an episode called "Picking Up Foreign Girls." But, to get the nutshell version, what matters is your body language: is it stern, confident, and are you able to calibrate to her movements? This is key.

  10. Jurica Kovacevic August 20, 2013 at 7:36 pm #

    Oh, also, is there any trick to recognize women that are 16+? I keep mixing them up with 20+ women because they all in a way look the same.. Thanks!

    • JesseKongJason August 20, 2013 at 7:42 pm #

      @Jurica

      Ask their age when you meet them.

  11. Mergy August 20, 2013 at 7:37 pm #

    Do you guys find that when you get into the “dont give a fuck” mentality, it makes it harder to “give a fuck” about the girl your talking to?

    • JesseKongJason August 20, 2013 at 7:51 pm #

      @Mergy

      Not necessarily. If she really is intriguing she'll garner your attention. You should give at least somewhat of a fuck about the girls you hook up…

  12. BigD August 20, 2013 at 7:37 pm #

    What about trying to pick up a girl that's WITH a parent? How would you approach her?

    • JesseKongJason August 20, 2013 at 7:42 pm #

      @BidD

      We actually have a Project GO episode dedicated to this topic: you're going to basically pick her up the same way as you would if she was alone, but more so on that "safe side"

  13. Alexander August 20, 2013 at 7:38 pm #

    kelis claims that her milkshake brings all the boys to the yard. do you believe this to be true? (completely relevant) yes oer no? also, you guys should do picking up girls while not looking at them, or picking up girls while doing "ooh kill em" off the vine trend.

    • JesseKongJason August 20, 2013 at 7:46 pm #

      @Alexander

      What are you talking about? Yes. Okay.

  14. The bloody doctor August 20, 2013 at 7:38 pm #

    How do you get out of the awkward situation when she tells you she has a boyfriend?

    • JesseKongJason August 20, 2013 at 7:47 pm #

      @The Bloody Doctor

      Ask if she has any cool hot friends. It's not awkward unless you think it's awkward. And, move on if you don't want to try anymore: unless you think you're good enough for her to cheat on her boyfriend (which we don't condone).

    • Kain August 20, 2013 at 8:14 pm #

      You tell her that she could use two boyfriends

  15. Alex August 20, 2013 at 7:44 pm #

    Some tips for someone about to start college in terms of social life?

    • JesseKongJason August 20, 2013 at 7:48 pm #

      @Alex

      Check our How To Get Girls in College articles. In addition, we have many podcasts on Project GO detailing you how to get girls in college and in class.

  16. Mexican Dave August 20, 2013 at 7:44 pm #

    Subjects to talk about with her dad?

    • JesseKongJason August 20, 2013 at 7:49 pm #

      @Mexican Dave

      Fist start with the environment. Talk to him like you would with anyone new you meet. He'll open up eventually and ask you questions: you should do the same and be cordial with him as well. But, don't expect him to like you, just get along with him. It's a bonus though if you two hit it off together.

  17. ray August 20, 2013 at 7:45 pm #

    How did you get over the fear of going on dates with hot girls. Like when you could get girls to say yes but you were too much of a pussy too go through with it?

    • JesseKongJason August 20, 2013 at 7:52 pm #

      @Ray

      Read our "First Dates" article. In addition, SHE SAID YES? THIS MEANS SHE LIKES YOU. WTF. Your work is almost done. Go out.

  18. Zack August 20, 2013 at 7:46 pm #

    What is the best recovery technique you guys use if a text message line bombs? For example, this girl and I were having fun guessing things about each other (rather than go in interview mode), and after a round or two I say

    “You lose points for leaving out how devilishly handsome I am.”

    Any feedback is appreciated.

    -Zack

    • JesseKongJason August 20, 2013 at 7:58 pm #

      @Zack

      We have an article on texting. There comes a time that you just have to stop texting the girl flirtatiously: you just need to go meet her up and go on a date already. But read the texting article, this should help. And, if a text message line bombs? I think that's cue to realize that text lines are mainly really stupid. Stop thinking about lines, just go with it. But, if you really think you bombed -> Don't apologize. Let it go. Send her another text later on.

  19. Dexter August 20, 2013 at 7:46 pm #

    What if shes always so busy? With work and school (Highschool)

    • JesseKongJason August 20, 2013 at 7:53 pm #

      @Dexter

      Find a girl who isn't busy. Or, be very specific with the girl and tell her a time to meet you (no ands, ifs, or buts).

  20. m. tr August 20, 2013 at 7:46 pm #

    How do l improve my self when l have girlfriend , cause l dont want to cheat her .. l know its kind of stupid qesten

    • JesseKongJason August 20, 2013 at 7:55 pm #

      @m. tr

      Your girlfriend likes you because of the abilities and game you have. Therefore, keep on gaming but if you truly love/like your girlfriend you won't go past the "number" part. I suggest not making out or texting the girls back. Discipline. Lastly, be honest with your girlfriend (if it really bothers you about cheating) what you're doing… tell her the reason. This is a brave thing to do but many of our bootcamps do it without any issues.

      • m. tr August 20, 2013 at 8:12 pm #

        Thx this realy helped me , bro

  21. Astranoth August 20, 2013 at 7:47 pm #

    How do you handle really shy girls?
    Like, they are too shy to confess, that they like someone.
    Or if they are too shy to dare a relationship.

    • JesseKongJason August 20, 2013 at 7:55 pm #

      @Astranoth

      We answer this question in detailed in our Shy Girls Project GO episode. To make a little rundown of what to do: tone yourself down when you pick her up.

    • Jurica Kovacevic August 20, 2013 at 7:58 pm #

      I was picking up a girl and she told me she doesn't feel ready for a relationship. I have her on fb so I told her that in case she changes her mind and wants to go for coffee with me that she has me on facebook and to simply contact me. Haven't spoken to her since. She's not the only girl on the planet.

  22. sandjoe August 20, 2013 at 7:49 pm #

    What’s the best way to approach a girl when she’s working and not give off an annoying vibe.
    Like waitress or something

    • JesseKongJason August 20, 2013 at 7:59 pm #

      @sandjoe

      We have to episodes on Project GO that goes over "picking up girls who are working." i) Be aware of the people she's helping ii) be fast iii) understand what is acceptable when it comes to asking for the number (will she get in trouble).

  23. Geroge Ford August 20, 2013 at 7:49 pm #

    Do you guys think that giving a girl a compliment like that her eyes are beautiful that they have an energy, depth to them that you find really attractive, not just "Hey, you're beautiful, had to come meet you" but a specific compliment that applies to her is a turn off or not? I know you guys compliment girls but never seen you compliment one in such way..

    • JesseKongJason August 20, 2013 at 8:00 pm #

      @George

      There is nothing wrong with what you just said you like to do. Compliments are different all around, to each their own.

  24. Arom August 20, 2013 at 7:52 pm #

    How do you escalate physhically while at a cinema hall watching a movie with a girl?

    • JesseKongJason August 20, 2013 at 9:22 pm #

      @Arom

      See if you can play with her first. If she obliges, then let her do the same to you. If you're looking to kiss, remember that it's quite hard due to the side by side chair (you kiss face to face). Personally, a cinema hall can be a little much, but all it takes is a little bit of an urge and a completion.

  25. Jun August 20, 2013 at 7:52 pm #

    Hey guys, my girlfriend's parents are both lawyers and I'm so intimidated by them. How can I overcome this feeling and have the confidence when they're around.

    • JesseKongJason August 20, 2013 at 8:01 pm #

      @Jun

      I) Stop being intimidated by them by just being yourself. Ask yourself, why are you intimidated? Is it because you think they're really cool and amazing? If so, tell them.

  26. kcl August 20, 2013 at 7:57 pm #

    i go out and pick up girl all time in the past three weeks, got hand full of numbers. However, when i text them, they dont text back or they seems like dont want to talk to me and keep it super simple. Most of the time, im trying to be playful and they respond back very normally. I just got out of a long relationship, and trying to get over her. When i tried to get laid and got nothing back, it made me miss her more. And what should i do, i just want to get laid and get over her.

    • JesseKongJason August 20, 2013 at 9:24 pm #

      @kcl

      1. Read: "How To Get Over Her" 2. Read: "Text Messages" on this site. It's going to be a little rough, but overtime you'll get over her. Life is a little bit crazy, but one day you'll see how everything works out for the better.

  27. Ryan August 20, 2013 at 8:07 pm #

    when i go out to bars and clubs and hit on girls, some mofo always come over and hit on them and step on me. It happens couple of times. I just dont know how to stop them to cockblcoking me. Helppppppp

    • JesseKongJason August 20, 2013 at 9:23 pm #

      @Ryan

      We have articles on how to deal with dudes. We have a few videos on YouTube that teach you how to get rid of cockblocks. And, most importantly we have Project GO videos that fully outline how to deal with guys who are hitting on your girl.

  28. Kakarot August 20, 2013 at 8:11 pm #

    What do I do if my Mongolian girlfriend's mom doesn't wan't her daughter to be with me? Her mom has never met me and has no idea of what kind of person I am. Her mom also demands that she call it off with me… At this point we decided to keep it a secret which will probably work temporarily. But it's the only choice we have at this point. Advice?

    • JesseKongJason August 20, 2013 at 9:14 pm #

      @Kakarot

      This is more of a cultural issue than anything. I've dealt with issues when I dated a Vietnamese girl: they only wanted her to date a white guy. It happens. But do as you both wish and keep it a secret. Just know, one day, you'll have to meet her family. When that time comes make sure YOU KNOW ALL THE CUSTOMS or your presence will be remembered as shameful. I would suggest, if you're going out with your girlfriend for more than two years… then you should at least meet her mom. She doesn't have to like you, but she at least as to know you exist.

  29. roland portocarrero August 20, 2013 at 9:24 pm #

    you guys are the best, you really have inspired me and my friends. I've improved alot with girls, thank you Simple Pickup

  30. david August 20, 2013 at 9:41 pm #

    if looks don't matter, why girls care about their looks?

    • Vish October 3, 2013 at 11:08 pm #

      Because society has dictated for centuries that girls should try to look hot. And that, that is the way to attract a man. Look at movies, porn, and all that shit. Believe it or not girls want guys to like them and their looks it what makes it happen.

  31. duclieu August 20, 2013 at 9:46 pm #

    highschool game work the same?

    • Vish October 3, 2013 at 11:09 pm #

      All game works the same. Although i don't think you should be trying to meet her parents when your in highschool.

  32. Sohail August 20, 2013 at 9:51 pm #

    How do you deal with racist parent(s). I dated an Asian girl whose mother was reproachful and unfriendly because I was brown. Conversely, she kissed the ass of any Asian or white boyfriend daughter she would bring home.

    • Sohail August 20, 2013 at 9:55 pm #

      *her daughter would bring home

  33. Coolmand August 20, 2013 at 9:59 pm #

    Hey Guys Love you´re work by the way. but how about making a article about how to tell you´re own parents about a girl? if you don´t have the balls just to tell em? like how to handle you´re own parents with the new girl :)

    Love from Denmark :)

    • Vish October 3, 2013 at 11:10 pm #

      JUST fucking tell them

  34. Lon August 20, 2013 at 11:20 pm #

    What about language differences between you and her parents.

  35. Eric August 21, 2013 at 1:44 am #

    How do you calibrate to super outgoing girls? These girls could be crazy partiers, and have loud and fun personalities. What if you are less outgoing than she is?

  36. Ozymandias August 21, 2013 at 11:13 am #

    Hey SP, first of all keep the relationship stuff coming its great! I've fairly recently got into my current relationship and I am increasingly finding it difficult to balance what I've learnt to pick up girls (being polarising, DGAF, being dominant) with being in a relationship where more care is needed and inevitably neediness rears its ugly head. I've caught myself being increasingly needy towards my girlfriend; recently as we have been arguing quite a lot as we have both moved home and don't get to see each-other as much, and I can tell that its turning her off. But then whenever be more dominant with push/pull etc she gets upset and says I'm mean and uncaring? Any advice you can give me to help me with this!?

  37. Tiak August 21, 2013 at 7:44 pm #

    Guys,

    you tought us how to get numbers,
    then you explained to us how to text and call properly,
    then how to date and how to lay girls.

    You told us not to settle down, and indeed, I agree with you.

    But how do I tell the girl after sex, that it was just sex, when the first thing I told her when we met, was 'I think you're adoreable'.

    Thanks buddies.

    PS: Your blogs and videos really helped me through a very tough time. Me & My Ex broke up. And I literally cried every day for 8 months. Every day. I thought she was the one and it killed me inside that we were not compatible.
    However, after starting picking up numbers, dating and laying girls I finally began to see: There are SO MANY adorable women outside.
    Thanks for curing me from Onegina.

    • Vish October 3, 2013 at 11:11 pm #

      Honesty is the best policy. Just tell them you're not looking for anything serious

  38. Tom Hill August 22, 2013 at 10:17 am #

    Hey Simple Pickup, Firstly i'm a big fan but can you do a video/an article on how to approach girls in a group because i'm not sure how to be flirty or create the us mentality if she has 3 friends around her. Thanks a lot :)

    • Vish October 3, 2013 at 11:16 pm #

      They have one on Project GO. Basically when you approach make sure you tell the girl you want that you think she looks hot. Then try to single her out by saying that you're going to pull her over to the side to get to know her a little more. The friends will probably cockblock but keep persisting but dont keep asking if you get a serious no. Keep trying and failing until you learn how to properly do this

  39. zac August 25, 2013 at 1:34 pm #

    I’d just like to say thanks to you guys. I’ve been watching and reading all your stuff for a year now and before I was getting nowhere with girls in high school (I’m a senior) but the other night I finally lost my v card to my girlfriend of two months and I guarantee I wouldn’t have had the confidence to do everything I did without you guys giving me the attitude I needed to have. So thank you, you’ve changed my life and made it so much better.

  40. Johhny August 28, 2013 at 1:19 pm #

    What if you guys have fallen for a friend that you have known for some time? (in school specifically) By not hitting on her for the past few months does it mean you have gone into the friendzone? How will you guys get together with this friend you have known for a while but only just recently starting liking her?

  41. S.T. August 29, 2013 at 11:53 am #

    Hey guys, I watched Jesse's video on hygiene and how using dryer sheets can be better than applying cologne, but I was wondering what brand/type of dryer sheets you use. College starts soon, so I wanna smell good as a confidence booster. (If you're wondering why I don't go and try them out myself, I live in Japan where dryer sheets aren't really a thing, but I'm going to be a UCLA freshman in September so I want to get them as soon as I get to the States.) Thanks, guys.

  42. FusionGtr September 4, 2013 at 7:46 pm #

    Here is my simple concept/dilemma,not close enough to the topic's subject but here it is. Forgive me anyways.
    "I live with my mother(single parent family). My girlfriend leaves alone but in a couple of weeks her brother moves to her house. Until today ,our "personal meetings" were obviously in her house. Where are they going to take place from now on ?In my home: my mother. In her home:her brother." That's my dilemma..Ackward situations for both of us.
    (ok I have a car,but it's not the same thing.)
    Thanks in advance

  43. Jacob Naidu September 9, 2013 at 7:06 am #

    What is the most important thing in simplepickup?

  44. fartguy September 12, 2013 at 1:31 am #

    I dated this girl for a while before she shatters my heart like a bag of marbles! And now im starting to notice her best friend. I m afraid to go for it because it may seem like im trying to make her jealous and if she rejects my advances im gonna feel like shit because i know they will talk about it.

  45. Wass September 14, 2013 at 10:10 pm #

    Hi, I’ve been taking your advice about getting off your asses and going out and just talk to girls, and I’ve been doing really well, the only problem is I to with my friend, he is my wingman, but his problem is he is absouloutly awful at being a wingman and at talking to girls, he is very shy and lacks in experience with girls, I don’t want to just get a new wingman, I wanna to help him and try to get him to be better with girls. I try and help him but I think he needs a bit more than just help lol

  46. RAGING FAN!!! September 27, 2013 at 2:33 am #

    Hey Simple Pickup,
    I met this girl the other day who was really cool and got her number. Later when I texted her to hang out she tried to avoid but I was persistent and got her to fix a date. Then, when I tried to text her back the next day, she did not reply. I'm being true to the rule that I shouldn't text again until she texts back but it's been three days and I'm not sure what to make of it.

    PS.: This is sort of similar John's questions and So I'll really appreciate it if you guys'll take just a couple minutes to answer both our questions.
    Thanks
    :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :)

  47. Steve October 23, 2013 at 10:09 am #

    QUESTION!

    Alright, so this is kinda messed up. There is this girl i've been friends with for a very long time. So we were at my place watching a movie etc, next thing i know, i'm out of friends-zone cause her lips are around my Johnson. A couple of days later we meet up and hook up again, and and then again after that i invite her back to my place and she stays the night.
    Alright, here is the fucked up part. After this, every time i try to contact her and ask her to hang out, she allegedly is "busy". It's been like this for months, but she keeps contact and talks to me regularly, but she does not want to meet it seems… It has gotten to the point where i'm getting pissed off, but i can't really call her bluff. What to do here? I really like here so it's hard to just cut her off…

    thanks!

  48. Arix November 4, 2013 at 6:15 pm #

    Hey simple pickup your videos are awesome and they really helped me. Last year I began following all the advice and videos and saw huge improvement and had a blast and ended up landing myself a girlfriend because of the stuff i was doing following your videos. However recently I broke up with my girlfriend and I have noticed that much of the improvement that I made over the year is now gone and I am having trouble getting my game back. Any Advice?

  49. wdw November 10, 2013 at 1:14 pm #

    hey guys! So there is this girl i met at school the other day, we had a quite succesful interaction and both agreed to go out on Saturday night (she also gave me her facebook). On Saturday mornig though i sent her a message about the time and place we would meet and turned me down without giving me a reason . A female friend of mine also told me that she had seen us talking the other day though and that the girl seemed to be quite interested . So do i talk to her again or not ?!

  50. swagmaster November 26, 2013 at 3:41 am #

    Hey guys, I was just wondering how I could improve my game and become a better flirter.

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  51. Chazz January 12, 2014 at 5:34 am #

    Hey guys, I just learned about SimplePickup, and heard postive reviews, so i was wondering if you guys could work your magic with me with this girl that goes to my school. I see her around school, but i don't know anything about her. We don't have any classes together. No one seems to know anything about her, but she seems to have a few guy friends. I want her to notice me so i can talk to her, So should i just walk up to her and introduce myself? I don't want to blow this. So any help will be appreciated.*

    *She has a twin sister, but she is off the radar, I'm just focused on the one.

  52. Bobby January 20, 2014 at 2:54 am #

    Hey guys. First off I wanna say thanks for your advice and it has really helped a lot. However, I have a question about picking up girls in high school. Can I just approach random ass girls in the hallways? I feel like that would be weird and I'm worried that if I get rejected everybody will know and I will get made fun of. I have a feeling it's fine and it's all in my head, but I want somebody else's opinion. I have only approached girls at parties, social events, and in my classes. But I need to meet more women and I'm not necessarily the biggest partier in school. I don't necessarily know the best places to meet girls my age. Can I approach random girls at high school that are not in my classes? Thanks!

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