Most guys think that being ‘mysterious’ means acting like a lame Edward from those Twilight movies. Hiding away in the shadows of the night and being a whiny- invisible douche isn’t being mysterious. When you do this you’re setting your image up as a weak wimpy chump who will only get laid through something called ‘pity sex.’ Pathetic.
I’ve never seen or read any of the Twilight series, but I can only imagine that my penis would get sucked into my stomach if we promoted those movies.
Being mysterious means that she is constantly thinking about you in a way that makes her crave your presence. Think about it this way, you know when you meet a really cool hot girl, get her phone number, and she disappears from every line of communication; then, without hesitation, you find yourself checking her facebook, dreaming about her, even staring at her phone number; wondering where she is at the moment because you just want to see and talk to her again?
Holy shit balls, what a long sentence.
Yeah, it’s like that. Sounds creepy, but you know it’s true. Well, we call this the ‘Intrigue Hole.’
Simply, the Intrigue Hole is when you crave to know what you’re missing, have a huge assumption that what you’re missing out on is a good thing, and you’re wondering how you can see or view this good thing again.
Hot girls push us into this hole all the time, it’s now time to switch it on them.
Stay Mysterious
The easiest way to stay mysterious is by crafting your hobbies, work, and anything which you think defines you. This also includes your family and friends in your life. By having a strong sense of identity and passiones you’ll leave the girl wondering and wanting to know more about you. People crave information and the more you know and have, the more she’ll want to be a part of your world.
Take for example George Clooney. He is not only an actor but also a business man who has friends all over the world, villas, and other hidden talents. Don’t you want to know where these villas are located? Who he knows? And the secret talents he has?
You may not be as talented or as rich as George Clooney (who cares), but you sure have a ton of things in your life that are special to you and if any girl learns about it she’ll fall straight into your arms.
I’m not saying this means that when you meet the girl you blurt out that you miss your grandfather, your idol, who died three years ago. Sentimental and inspiring yes, but the timing could creep her out. Ease her way to your life… slowly.
A way of doing this is by giving her clues to who you are during the conversation, clues to the information that she’ll hear soon only if she stays with you for a little while longer.
Scene #1
Her: Why do you like my shoes?
You: It’s something my sister wears and she’s right about the people who wear them…
Her: What does she say about them?
You: Well, my awesome 10 year old sister always tell me that those shoes are…
Scene #2
Her: Wait, where are you going?
You: I’ll tell you on the way as I walk to the coffee shop…
Her: *She Follows as you tell her a little more about your life*
Do you see what’s happening here? These clues create a sense of expectations that she’ll soon figure out your identity, who you are, and what you’re all about if she hangs out with you more.
People may think this is called “stringing them along,* but it’s not. You’re only stringing her along if you DO NOT tell her the information you promised her. And, you should have a shitload of information about yourself if your hobbies, work, friends, and any other passions you have are kept up to date.
Guys who don’t have their own identity or have a world that she wants to know about is going to be left out. You may be fun and make her laugh, but in the end she won’t crave you. You’ll just be another guy who doesn’t offer any intrigue, any mystery.
In one of our next articles we’ll talk about how to control this intrigue and keep her wanting to hang out with you more… but that’s for a later time.
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Could I use this idea also on FB?
try it and tell us
I think to have read something very valuable. Yet, I'd like to hear some more examples of this, I have trouble understanding the concept and would love to read a clarification:
- With your examples that reveal something about "herself" or "where you are going" I cannot understand how it shall describe your (!) identity.
- So just to make sure I got it right: In general, does being mysterious mean make her work/"invest" for discovering more about you? Doesn't this only work if she is interested in you or can we apply it somehow to girls we've just met since you said "it's time to switch it on them (hot girls that are not answering)". Thus, if they are not answering it means they are not really interested, so why would she invest? However, if they ARE interested why would she even play games with you?
-The hot girls that cut off communication: Is it a non-verbal way of saying: "I am only going to spend more time with you if invest more in me/ contact me/ call me, etc?" It's obviously toying with a guy, so how do you tackle it then if a girl stops responding?
Cheers
Girls play games for the same reason that anyone plays games: because it's fun.
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the average guy can relate to you, keep it up!
thanks. see amu3in's comment below
gotta work on that, I think. Thanks
good to know that you think. but keep at it player.
that was awesome!
this was awesome!
What
if she said yes and you suggested a date but she said she didn't have
time there and was going to tell you when she was available… and now
one week later you didn't hear from her. What do? Just move on?
you should've texted/called her earlier
Well looks like I'm screwed then?
when somebody says they'll give you a million dollars and then will tell you later when you can get that money, what do you do?
Never have that mentality. Maybe you lost your chance with this girl, but you're not 'screwed'. You made a mistake. Move on from it to get an even better girl.
how can i approach a hot girl on campus?
watch all of their get her number videos, they are mostly on college campuses.
say hi my name is bobby baker and i bake some bombass bananas
Very interesting SimplePick,I never would've thought about this.This is true but can't wait for the next article.
thanks
genius!
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good work niggas and the two chinese boys that was good.
cannot wait for next articles
Keep these articles coming! Thanks guys!
This is actually true, I got this impression from a girl just because she saw my inner circle hanging out
Thumbs up!
But what are the best ways to easy into it without showing off ?
think about when your parents asks you questions about technology, or the internet and you answer, and they ask more questions
i like this article keep them coming!!
nice article players. keep it up!
anyways, totally unrelated to this topic.. why dont u guys get a random fella and "train" him to pickup girls for your new vid? that'll be interesting.
good idea
idk if you guys really read ALL of the comments but these articles definately help me out a lot. I think i speak for the majority of your fans when I say KEEP THE ARTICLES COMING PLEASE.
yes we do read all the comments
I've heard that girls don't care about what you say, they just want to be the attention point. So instead of talking, you should ask them questions. Is that correct?
replace the word girls in that sentence with dogs, cats, aliens, or my mother
Fuck now I have to wait a week to find out how to actualy use this.Wait. Did you just put me in the
Intrigue Hole? Well played SP.:D
thanks. playing is our speciality
Great article! Actually at this moment a girl is keeping me in a "intrigue hole", too bad you didn't elaborate on getting out of it! Do you or somebody maybe have any tips? (great to read it by the way, I was already kind of suspected it, but I thought maybe I was over thinking it :p) I was thinking about doing something totally random/funny to shatter her pattern?!?
Awesome… now about that article with the control of the intrigue and have her to hang out with me more
next week okay O:) ?!
I am in this "intrigue role" and I want to dream about something else XD too much for 1 night of dreams
Very good articles!
I really like the sentence or action examples you describe. They're very useful in situations where you don't know what to say or to do. You could make some kind of "Emergency Tool Box" with it (at least, I did)
I hate these articles and I didn't like fucking myself either
fun stuff
perfecto!
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Kong I really think you are a prophet.
Dammit your stringing me along right there…..I.sure hop u keep up your part of the bargain about the new video thing and nit play me :'(….;D
this kinda helps = load more vids w/e happened to new vid once a week? pickup artist?? more like bullshit artist..
we post up a video once a week.
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Love the article guys! I always thought I should try and be open with everyone (more specifically girls) if I wanted them to like me, but it turns out that its even better to be a little discreet with it too. This has been great guys! Keep it up!!!
nice, but im very bad at making people laugh any advice?
Making people laugh is simple; you say what you find funny, and they will find it funny only because you said it with passion.
Think about everytime you laughed at someones joke, why is it funny? It's mainly because they found it funny and you believed them.
Show them your penis…
Elaborate soon on being mysterious please, I think that this is what I'm missing.
When your being mysterious, it means your hinting the girl about your personality. You don't go and tell her everything about yourself. She's the detective and all your doing is being opinionated, and not answering everyone of her questions as a complete thought/ answer
Sow I hit on this girle on a festival. I can't remember how I did it. But she left here friend( that didn't dared to sleep alone) and slept whit me in my tent. The next night she invited me in here tent to sleep over there, sow I went. but she wasn't tired and whent to sit whit some friends, I stayed. Then came the worst cockblock ever, and I'm 100% sure that it was the worst. Sow I slepde in my owne tent. But the next day she texted me to say sorry for the cockblockers. And we texted some more. But I don't know what I should do now. do you guys have some tips ore advice fore me please.
Listen, guys, Ive got many good friends, which are vags! Im so mad at them for being such pus**es and i want to change them. I want to prove that they are as good as anyone else and to show them that girls are going to like them just as they are!!! I tried giving them social acceptance by being rejected myself MANY times in front of their eyes, I tried being a BEST WINGMAN in the world and doing most of the work myself, BUT STILL NOTHING!!!
PLEASE HELP!!! I HATE PUS**ES!!!
can any ugly guy get hot girls?
As they said in one of the YouTube videos girls don't care about looks as much as guys do
so true! confidence + personality > looks.
I see what you did at the end, you bastard!
Great Article Kong.
I wanted to ask everyone of you guys, what are your majors? I'm assuming Jesse is Psychology and yours is Business related?. Also I'd love for you guys to make an article in how to make a cold approach "sexy" and very "touchy", because most of the problems us guys have after we passed the BB's when approaching is how to turn the situation more intimate.
Thanks.
Chris JR
but that’s for a later time……lol you goddamn shitheads, and yes u may have 5 more dollars
This is definitely an intermediate topic. I hope in the immediate future, you guys will go over how to remain mysterious/intriguing.
When you are nervous yourself, you radiate this to the other person; making the situation awkward. This is normal to most, but I'm putting it out anyways.
One thing I find extremely important that I didn't see mentioned or maybe missed is: EYE CONTACT. When you are not comfortable, notice you avoid looking in peoples eyes, for it reveals your feelings, so in this case, your anxiety our the fact you are nervous. By keeping constant yet comfortable eye contact, you will come out as confident, which in consequence should make the girl feel the same (if shes not really shy herself). It is also a seduction technique and will facilitate your physical approach.
One thing I find extremely important that I didn’t see mentioned or maybe missed is: EYE CONTACT. When you are not comfortable, notice you avoid looking in peoples eyes, for it reveals your feelings, so in this case, your anxiety our the fact you are nervous. By keeping constant yet comfortable eye contact, you will come out as confident, which in consequence should make the girl feel the same (if shes not really shy herself). It is also a seduction technique and will facilitate your physical approach.
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