It’s a fact that hot girls are usually surrounded by guys that are publicly or secretly fawning over them. So, in all actuality, it’s going to be pretty common that the girl you’re with will a) have a lot of guy friends, b) be approached by other guys, and c) be given things most girls don’t receive (gifts, access to free shit, etc).
So, how do you make sure your girl stays faithful amongst all these forces trying to pull her away from you?
Let’s face it: 90% of her guys friends would fuck her if they had the chance (but this discussion is for another time)…
Before we get into the structure of how to keep her faithful, I want to tell you the number one thing you have to grasp before we get into anything: keeping her faithful all starts internally.
This means that you have to create a mindset that your girl will stay faithful. If you think otherwise (in your head), it will transgress and influence your body language and your behavior around her – you will act needy, talk needy, and generally be needy. And, remember, neediness is the #1 thing that detracts any (if not all) attraction that your girl has for you.
Anyway, the primary thing to keep in mind is you cannot worry if she’s going to cheat or not, because the more you worry about it the more likely hood that she will cheat on you.
How To Keep Her Faithful
The best way to do this is to make her understand that you are the only man in her life, the guy that makes her feel the happiest, and that you’re also too great of a guy to cheat on. Yes, there are other men out there who give her things and make her laugh, but at the end of the day, she only wants to be with you. So, fuck those other guys.
How do you keep her happy and make it known you’re too great of a guy to cheat on?
By being the guy she first met (that’s why she’s with you… right?). So, keep being yourself. Understand that doubting your girl’s faithfulness stems from insecurity. You need not be jealous or wary because you are “THE MAN.” Once you get that in your head, the situation will be better. However, “trust issues” are sometimes normal and can be remedied by following three guidelines.
1) Give her the time she deserves (you’re together… aren’t you?) 2) Make it extremely clear to her that if she does cheat that you will no longer be with her 3) You both should have open communicate to express how your relationship works
Number II is very important because most guys have struggles leaving a girl they really, really like if she cheats on them. But, you have to make it very important to push through if she does.
In addition, here are some other tips to remind your girl that you’re too good of a guy to cheat on:
i) Keep surrounding yourself with hot girls who find you attractive. The idea is that you are a “wanted” man. Because other girls want you, she’ll want you even more (keep you/doesn’t want to let you go).
ii) Continue doing the things you’ve done over your past interactions with her because, again, she’s with you for you. And, if you change this in anyway then you’ll lose her.
iii) Give her space! Every girl needs space and if you’re too clingy, she has more of a reason to want to break free from your grip and fall into another guy’s arms (behind your back). Give her space and make her miss you. However, if you’re too distant, you’ll push her into another guys arms. Remedy this by giving her the space she needs, but letting her know that you’re there for her when she wants or needs you, which ties into the next tip…
iv) Communicate. This can’t be stressed enough. If you both can communicate your needs and wants, then she’ll get a better understanding of who you are and what your guidelines are when it comes to relationships.
v) Stay faithful yourself. If you don’t want her to cheat on you, then don’t cheat on her. It’s really that simple.
I’m not going to lie and say that if you follow my advice, your girl won’t cheat. All I know is that doing the aforementioned suggestions above will make it less likely she will even want to cheat. Some girls are just cheaters and there is rarely something (if anything) you can do to keep them faithful. But, if she is a cheater, you need to stay strong and force yourself to get out of the situation and dump her right away.
There are no if’s, and’s, or but’s about it, and you should always be making this very clear when talking to her.
You don’t deserve some fucking cheater. You deserve better.