After teaching many of you guys how to pickup girls, we’ve received a ton of questions on how to make their relationship last. We’ve been in relationships before: Jason had a girlfriend for two years. And, we continue to coach our former bootcamp students how to make their relationship thrive.
I want to preface this article by mentioning that each relationship is different, one thing might work with one couple whereas it won’t with another couple. To go even further, some men will never be or ever be in a relationship.
However, with that said, there are a set of insights I’ll share that will greatly improve your chances of keeping your relationship last over time.
Making Your Relationship Last
Stay The Man You Were
She fell for you due to certain traits: the confident charisma you carried, the care you had for little kids, the way you cried when watching a Pixar animation movie, etc. You have to focus on these personality traits; make them better and stronger than they were before.
Build on your strengths…
If you stray away from your original traits, the more likelihood she’ll see you as different and you’ll get the typical response: “things weren’t the way they were before.”
I’m not saying you can’t change your goals, make new friends, or try new hobbies. I’m saying is if you were a charismatic talkative man when she met you, always cared to dress nice, then whatever you do, don’t lose the personality traits you had when you first met.
Imagine if your girlfriend stopped laughing the way she did or didn’t bother to dress well in public or stopped her philosophical mindset that working out is a lifestyle she must keep… how would you feel? Would you stay attracted to her? Exactly.
Have Your Own Life
Do you remember how new and exciting everything was when you first met? You had your own life, she had hers, and it was fun meeting your friends as well as hers. Too many guys intertwine their life with the girl’s life a little too much and pretty soon everyone she knows, you know. Everyone she hangs out with, you hang out with as well.
I’m not saying you can’t hang out with her friends; just remember that at the end of the day you must keep her friends separate from your life. She acts a certain away around her friends while you do the same. Let her have her space AWAY from you because: i) you cannot receive 100% happiness just from one person and ii) you can share more with each other when you guys reunite.
Sometimes you need your space…
You won’t learn anything new or exciting if you guys share every experience, friend, and activity with each other. This is how a relationship gets boring, pretty soon you’ll come home and the only thing you’ll say to each other is: “how was your day?” then… silence.
Be Sexually Adventurous
It’s common advice to be adventurous and try new things with each other. But, to be more specific it’s beneficial to your relationship to be active and adventurous in bed. Or, wherever you decide to have sex.
If you’re compatible with your girlfriend, as in she screams and orgasms when you touch her body, then there is a higher chance she’ll stay by you. For most girls, sex is a very emotional activity and her emotional attachment towards you increases when you make her cum.
They say it’s what you do while having and right after sex that shows your true personality. If you make her cum, it means you’re not entirely selfish. If you cuddle, it shows you care for her beyond the penetration. If you can hold your load for a while, it shows that you can be in the moment and elicits you can be a patient man.
Also, transitioning from good to GREAT sex requires active communication, teamwork, and an intuition that can only happen by being attentive to her body.
You don’t have to have threesomes, take part in S&M, toss the salad, or even try anal… you just need to work together to make each other’s sex life REALLY REALLY pleasurably satisfying.
Ending Notes
Almost every guy we’ve taught, helped, or who have sent us feedback regarding our videos, have pushed the idea of finding and being with “the one.” And once they find “the one” they get to a point where they have no idea how to make it last.
It can be difficult but just like when you started pick up, it takes time and it takes practice. One thing we’ve learned from ourselves and other students is this: a relationship thrives through trust, patience, understanding, and being calm.
And, the more you go out there and meet girls or begin a new relationship, you’ll see that these four primary traits will help your relationship thrive.
Alright, for the guys who have yet to find “the one,” go out and approach as many hot girls as you can. There so many girls you can find to sleep with, so don’t rush, you’ll find the one for you.
How do I beat bane in a fight he's really strong
I think the best way to beat in a fight is to stop masturbating and work out.
Okay, I shall do it!
How do you get over jealousy/trust issues? I have had them in the past..
This is a hard question to answer because it's an internal thing to go through. The thing that works the best is to do a few things that has helped me: i) surround yourself with hot girls who also find you attractive, this will help your insecurity. ii) when you're in a relationship don't think about cheating or going out with other girls. When you do this you will also think this way. iii) read as many self-improvement books to help you become a little more confident.
Lastly, understand that this internal conflict stems from insecurity. I ask that you know that you shouldn't be jealous because you are "THE MAN" once you get that in your head… you'll be better. However, when it comes to "trust issues" please know that people will break your trust and some won't. The ones who do break your trust should be punished (pushed away from your life forever). The ones who don't should be rewarded.
How to make her trust you even more?
The way you make her trust you is by BEING there when she needs you. By providing her the CARE without a reminder. By allowing her to go out WITHOUT you and being totally fine with it. By being PATIENT enough to allow her to do her own thing. Lastly, trusting yourself to make the right decisions, hold your ground, and be a man.
To make her trust you, you have to stray away from being controlling and needy.
How do I approach a girl that is working at a store.. Just like you guys do in public?
In our first Project Go video we go over approaching a girl who is working at a store. The common thing to remember is to always be mindful of the customers that walk in and you can't be too forward for the number because most girl's can get fired if they give their number out while working.
Bro you just gotta dive in with both feet so to say. Who cares what the girl thinks or anyone around give it a shot if it doesn't work move on to the next store/counter in that store.
I have been subscribed to the simple pickup Project Go for over 7 months now but I still have my first approach anxiety. I have a case of massive bitch butterfly and I still dont understand how to get over it.
I know you want an answer from them…but I think you should just go for it anyway. The more you try the less worry. It's simple the worst thing that can happen is rejection..
In every podcast, live show, Q&A, and uncut video we explain to you that you have to just go out there. I understand it can be hard. One word of advice is to join a community service or group activity. It is in these groups that people tend to come together and introduce themselves. This should get you to start getting comfortable interacting with people.
Once you get comfortable, you'll be able to have more confidence to actually approach.
Keep at it.
I was same way. I would watch the best tips videos a few moments before I would approach. It made me feel like Kong, Jesse and Jason were at the mall with me telling me tips, right before I did it.
You're not alone
I Live in Santa Clarita, male. straight. 22 yrs. isolated. going to vegas feb 14th weekend for friends party. Would you guys wanna goo?! or just kickk it sometime, or play any kind of call of duty??
If we're in the area you might spot us. We have many things planned, but we're always down if people are in the area. Right now we're in Asia and we've met a couple of you guys out here. Also, we don't play video games, our schedule and the girls we're with limits our ability to play video games. Anyways, meeting you guys has been fun!
What the best way to go about picking up chicks at work without possibly getting in trouble for it.
We wrote a response down below that can help you: remember to be mindful of customers & don't be too forward in getting the number (make her write it down on a receipt).
Why there's no black guy in your group? Can I join your group( I'm not black)
We might hold auditions? Who knows, it's the way it is right now.
Do you guys think long-distance relationships will work?
Yes & No. If you can structure a mutual understanding of how it can work, then it can work. Again, not every close-distance relationship works and not every long-distance relationship fails. Communicate, plan, and maybe see each other often so you can have sex…
Proper technique to being a good kisser?
Make a soft fist with your hand. Start kissing the top portion of your index finger and thumb (where that little hole is). You'll get a good sense of saliva to tongue ratio. Or makeout with an orange. Or just makeout with a hot girl and ask her what's working / what's not. PRACTICE.
how can one get over a relationship that should've lasted, but didn't? Because no matter how long after the break-up it still hurts like hell..
It's always going to hurt. It's cliche, but time heals. Also what heals is going out and picking up as many girls as you can. She's will always be in your mind, but there might be a few girls out there who can fill that void / distract you for a while until you get over her…
thanks for the reply guys, I understand and appreciate it
keep up the awesome work, you're not some lame as guys who do'nt interact with their audience, true heroes
Serious Question guys, how many different girl have you had sex with? Estimation??
Serious answer: enough. A true player doesn't brag about how many girls they've slept with, instead, it's already known by the way you carry yourself.
How to get from dating to a serious relationship?
If you like the girl, ask her if she wants to be exclusive and tell her the reasons why.
YES. This is boss right here^ Everyday you guys raise the bar.
step 1 in over coming being a bitch?
Stop complaining and giving yourself excuses when you make mistakes: Learn to DGAF (don't give a fuck).
how much pussy have u gotten picking up chicks for simple pickup? loooooool
Serious answer: enough. A true player doesn’t brag about how many girls they’ve slept with, instead, it’s already known by the way you carry yourself.
How do I let a girl know, who I've hooked up with, that I'm interested in something more?
You talk to her and tell her you're interested in starting something more. See what she says and see how fast she wants to take it.
Ways to make her chase/be interested in you
We wrote an article on this:  ;http://www.simplepickup.com/how-to/how-to-stay-mysterious-make-her-crave-you/
Thanks guys.
I'm really gonna try this out cause this is always my problem with women.
How do you not care about the social reputation you can get from hitting on girls in your town?
It takes time but do crazy shit and just keep saying this to yourself: DGAF, DGAF, DGAF, DGAF (don't give a fuck)… the more you say it, the likelihood you'll not only believe it, but the more you'll act on this philosophical internal idea.
How to make my relationship last while I am watching you guys and trying to do as you . Haha . My girlfriend wouldn`t like knowing that i`m hitting always on other girls . So i guess days of single male are expecting me again
There is nothing wrong in approaching and flirting with other girls. The question is, how far do you want to go? If you really like or love your girlfriend, you should stop with the interaction at some point.
How should I go about getting a girl I'm going to prom with in bed (I'm of legal age in my state, so don't worry about that bit, Kong/Jesse/Jason.
Makeout. Turn her on. Go somewhere exclusive. Whip it out. Pull out a condom. Touch Her. Continue…
Okay, maybe I jumped the gun. Not necessarily in bed, but I want to be in a relationship with her. Yes, those who hesitate will masturbate, but I'm a hopeless romantic, and I don't mind that (for now). Any tips (from you or other users) on how to make something special happen without being too…forward?
How can the drive to pick up girls become easily attained?
Stop masturbating. Stop watching porn. You'll soon be really horny to pick up girls.
Can long distance relationships work?
Yes & No. If you can structure a mutual understanding of how it can work, then it can work. Again, not every close-distance relationship works and not every long-distance relationship fails. Communicate, plan, and maybe see each other often so you can have sex…
I have a question related to pickup rather than making a relationship last. Where I come from (Turkey), people are less socially open compared to americans and some others in Europe and latin america as well. Since that's the case with the culture, the language represents the culture where people are almost never openly flirtatious and pickup is a very rare thing. I can pull of perfect pickups on foreign girls because I seem to be good with english but I am not as successful with my own language, although I seem to be able to do attraction and rapport pretty well. (seduction is near impossible with turkish). And I know that presenting yourself as a foreigner to someone with the same nationality will make it almost impossible to get into relationships because you lied. Do you guys recommend that I try to find more foreign girls, or just practice more often with my own language?
Do what works for you. However, if you can multitask and practice on your own language, you'll be able to diversify yourself to a wide range of girls you can communicate with. For example, Kong knows vietnamese so he's able to not only attract American girls but also Viet girls.
Hi guys, big fan. So do I let her know that I'm realy into her or this is gonna make her go away?
You should read this article. Kind of the same concept (to help answer your question):  ;http://www.simplepickup.com/how-to/how-to-turn-a-friend-into-a-lover/
I'm brazilian man. I dont read articles.
How old were you guys when you lost your virginities?
Older than 17
How often do you pick up girls?
Every Single Day.
Will being caring as in ''needy'' drive her away? even though it doesnt make sense?
Caring vs Needy: Caring is being there WHEN she needs you and taking the initiative to help her life get better. Needy is begging, pleading, following her everywhere, not being your own man, being a pussy…
Caring is good. Needy is bad.
Also, talk to her and see if you're too forward, too needy, if you're really unsure.
how do I stop a girl asking me the same question over and over again. like if she would look better or find her more attractive if she lost weight.
What we say to girls like this: "Listen, you're attractive and see you as attractive. However, if you feel otherwise we should workout together because I want you to feel hot. I know you're hot but if you don't feel like it then it just turns me off. So let's either workout together or stop it."
What do you do when you have so many chicks and dudes who want to hang with you because you're in godmode all the time. Thanks to you guys I've gotten so far it's amazing; the only issue for me now, is sometimes it works so well random people just become infatuated with me. Is there any way you guys found to get rid of clingy new people?
That's good that you're always in godmode. The thing is, if someone is bothering you than stay your distance (as in don't be too available). Don't be rude, just stay your distance. If someone is really bothering you, sit them down, and tell them your concerns. Life is about communicating your needs / wants. Communicate.
If you're always in Godmode then you shouldn't have any issue just talking about your concerns to the people giving you the issues you're dealing with.
Is it normal to get bored in your relationship? The idea of loving a person, but also wanting to keep on meeting new women and having' fun' but still having that spot for that one girl,
Of course. Stay faithful and try to find things to get your relationship going again: make her meet the new friends you've made, go traveling, find a new routine…
What are some fun thing to do without breaking the bank?
Go on long walks through the park and go for ice cream at the end. Pretty cheap, and the sweet treat at the end leaves the mind craving for more.
You can always search on google and find places that you can go that are free. There a lot of museums out there that are free on some days. Hikes are pretty good as well. Sport games like tennis, football, go running… make homemade lunch.
Go to the beach, swimming, surprise her with a flower from random places. Write her a card. So many possibilities.
How
can I get my ex-girlfriend back? Last time we hanged out, I asked her,
who's currently dating someone else, if there's any chance for us to get
together again and she said yes. She said that she's still in love with
me and still love me and still care
for me but she don't feel like being with me. Later that night I tried
to kiss her on the lips and she didn't resisted. When I went for the
tongue though, I got slapped. How can I over come the obstacle of being
the ex and her having someone else?
If she's seeing someone else, it's best to stay away due to the drama that might occur. If she wasn't seeing someone else, then I would suggest in talking out. If that still doesn't work then go out and find yourself, go see new people (try to), and go from there.
It's going to take time, it always does. Just know you'll be okay. You'll be okay. It's going to take time, a lot of time, but just know you'll be okay: of course some guys deal with it differently.
Talk it out: "I can't see you if you're seeing someone else. But just know I'm the guy for you" Honestly though, stay away for now (she's seeing someone else for god sakes).
some times i do not talks to some girls il my university not that im afraid but i want that girls talk to me first cuz i dont like getting rejected ..
man up
How do you pickup girls without a phone!
You can always use e-mail. We kinda wrote an article that goes even further than that (getting her number without saying a word): http://www.simplepickup.com/how-to/getting-her-nu… of a phone number, again email. Or morse code.
hey SP guys!! i have a few questions!!
1.how to get the "bitchy girls" (you know that thay dont give a fuck about and stuff..)2.what is Jason's height ?
3.what if i get to pick up a girl and she kinda rejects me (she say :"i dont think so "when you state your intentions)but she stay in place and not going away ?
Should I pick up girls at school even tough my reputation might be harmed by rejection or gossip?
Those who hesitate, masturbate.
I like your blog and videos, anyways I'm in my forties and do you think a guy should modify any of your approches to get the older woman? Thanks Players
This might sound really douchey but…
How do you let her know you're not looking for a relationship?
I feel like 80% of all the girls I met last year felt like I led them on when I didn't intend to.
I would assume going for make outs on the first date would help but it doesn't always work.
Should I just be direct and say it, after getting to know them for a while?
Be direct right away: "we're going to have tons of fun… but that's it for now. Take it or leave it."
words cannot express…
thank you!
How do you deal with male cock blocks? particularly if the asshole gets physical. I spent a lot of time thinking about it. When the guy is just saying shit to embarrass you to tip you off your balance, if you don't have a decent come back that doesn't make you look like some defensive beta male, I found completely ignoring their presence to be pretty effective as it shows you have higher value than his wanna-be alpha insecure ass. But really, what do you do if he gets physical like touches your head or something that tries to put you in this submissive role?
DGAF. Role with and focus on the girl. Once you focus on the guy you'll lose her.
How to pick up a girl in a gym, ie without a phone or a pen and paper. Not to mention ull be sweaty as may she, any tips?
How do you deal with male cock blocks? particularly if the asshole gets physical. I spent a lot of time thinking about it. When the guy is just saying shit to embarrass you to tip you off your balance, if you don't have a decent come back that doesn't make you look like some defensive beta male, I found completely ignoring their presence to be pretty effective as it shows you have higher value than his wanna-be alpha insecure ass. But really, what do you do if he gets physical like touches your head or something that tries to put you in this submissive role?
DGAF. Role with and focus on the girl. Once you focus on the guy you’ll lose her.
if he touches your head, grab the girls hand and get her outta there.
I think you got it under control with the ignoring thing. Unless the guy is drunk or a gang banging piece of shit I wouldn't worry about it. Wanting to fight shows a lack of education, insecurity and all around douchieness. If he get physical just remember you are better. If it comes to a fight be prepared but don't play into his game he wants you to react so it looks like he is justified in hitting you.
Please record young students picking up girls in high school!!!!!!
Hi guys, I know I'm seventy comments late, but I'm hoping you're still here. Here's a brief cap on why I can't figure out relationships. Hard life, dysfunctional family, mental breakdowns, blah, been through the worst. I never REALLY had a connection with a girl for longer than a few moments. Maybe hours at a party at the most. But thanks to your videos, the dynamics of my interactions have changed COMPLETELY. Girls want to be around me more often, they want to text me more often, they just want more of me. But when I try and text them or talk with them, I don't know exactly what I should be caring about? My friend says its because I have problems with girls "wanting" me. I have problems being "wanted." Honestly, I think I'm just nervous to give to much of myself to the girls. I feel like if I let down my emotional wall, and let them inside my circle, that they'll chew me up, even if the girl would never do that. So how do I -BE- a boyfriend? What does a girl want her boyfriend to care about? I've seen relationships of all kinds and even the worst of the worst manage to do better than I think i can. Don't really know what I'm asking you guys, but how do I START a relationship? What are the ways to move past the pickup, the call, the first date, the first sex, when does it become we instead of me?
You know, I had the same concern a while ago. I had a girl once, which I used to hang out with from time to time, like "First date", "Second Date"…"seventeenth date"… "2 months hanging out together"… and for her, we were boyfriend and girldfriend already, but for me it was only "that girl"…
What I mean is, I concluded that if you want to be a boyfriend, you should (and will) feel it, and that´s when you know that she is "The One". But if you don´t feel it, Its probably because you don´t fuckin care that much about her… leave her and move on to the next one, continue having sex with her for sometime while looking for other girls… I don´t care. Do as you please, player. But move on.
Yes! I see it now! Yes!
what is the best way to keep yourself motivated to pickup girls, other than No fap and things like that?
How do i tell a really good friend i like her more than just a friend? i can flirt and hit up other girls but when it comes to her i get the bitch butterflies.
Just say it. Find a moment when you'll be just two of us and tell her you love her. It is probably the best way. But try to tell her in way like it is no big deal to do not scare her
I invited a girl to go out ( first date ) , she accepted, but then, her mom doesnt let her go out. Since half of december I am trying to go out with her. I was in doubt if she really wanna go out with me or not, so I asked her if she was serious about hang out or not. She said : Yes.
I am 16 and her 15 also :/ . I am from Brazil, sorry if my english isnt good.
It looks like an excuse and she doesn't want to. Maybe she is just insecure, in 15 I experienced something similar. I asked her out, she brought her friend. I thought ok, she just feels better with her friend. then when I asked her to go out second time she started to make excuses and I thought she just doesnt like me. A year ago I find out, she was in love with me. Woman logic, especially in 15 is really hard to understand.
how can i get the "Hard to Get Girls" ? and what is jason's height ?
Great article guys, keep writing them. I read them as if they're books
YES!
Guys. I'm in a relationship for 2 months, and I woul like some advices to take my girl to bed. We're slowlly making progress, but she is a virgin and asked for some time.. How to make her trust me and finally have sex? Love your work! Hugs from Brazil! =]
just wait , the girls i know they had a relationship for like 3 months before thier first time. some girls are like first week , some like 3 months, if you are like 16-17 years old and 4 months passed by and still no sex you probeb;y have to wait a lot longer. so if you have a relationship for sex i say break up after 3-4 months(after just asking her of course)
Hi guys,
I love all your work and admire your Bossness! Thanks to you, I now have a girlfriend for almost one month. But lately, I'm starting to be very nervous around her. I just want to do the best I can, and make sure she likes me. Alas, it puts a lot of pressure on me. How can I be more confident about who I am and what she likes, around her?
Hey guys. I love these PUA articles. I love reading these articles. I live in Arlington,VA and there are a lot of hot white girls, but a lot of them are stuck up. I want to break these girls down and fuck them badly. If I sensed that a girl was a little stuck up, I told them that they needed to be finger blasted by me. They said that it was really inappropriate, but I said it was very appropriate. Then, it got quiet and awkward, but they didn't leave.
Any suggestions for breaking down stuck up white hot girls, so you can fuck them. You would probably find these girls at USC.
good question, I have the same problem, too. But not just in white girls, Asian girls, too. They were laughing and shit, but they still said that kind of talk was inappropriate. My response to them was, "Well, I don't just talk, I actually do it. Are you down or what?"
  ;https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zvw_ezHPGfk hey everyone I want to look at my vid tell my what i should do really? jason jessie and kong you have give me the strength i need. You will see what i am talking about this video. Thanks guys really…
What to do when you have found the one but still want to fuck all those other hot girls? Any tips? Or should I just kick myself in the balls for being such a bastard boyfriend?
Check out YouTube and look for James Marshall multiple relationships. That will help you loads!
How do you switch girls all the time?
I need to use this comment form for my English essay! asd;lfkjasd;lfkjasdf
Wish I had this a week ago!
How to deal with dudes who try to hit on your girlfriend? I am 6 ft tall, but sometimes there are dudes who are taller and bigger, and they want to hit on my girlfriend. If I take that offensively, it might lead to fight. But if I didn't do anything, they will think that i am afraid, also my girlfriend will feel that I am insecure about myself
This is a good topic to write about.
If relationship George walks through that door, he will kill independent george
I can go to a girl and talk to her,but the problem is that i don't know what to say…So there's just silents…I wanna learn what conversations i should talk to them about…Can't you make a video there you say what a guy should talk to a girl about…Sry about my english,it's kinda bad
If you're thinking about what to say you are already in the wrong mindset.
Me and this girl were getting on really well, having a good relationship that lasted a few of months or so, went on proper dates, sex happened. But recently we slowed talking to the point where I hadn't seen or spoken to her in 2 weeks
, not even a small conversation. I couldn't be arsed with the whole "on and off" stage thing, so I just flat out told her I wanted to talk about it and that I still liked her, she told me that she didn't "like me in that way" any more, and she "wasn't my type of girl", but wouldn't say why. Genuinely don't know what I did wrong, help me out guys?
you were too nice
There is only one Man who Will make you completely fulfilled, and that Man is Jesus. I promise that if you seek him and let him into your heart you will experience rest and Everlasting Joy. I pray that you will take this message to heart and experience TRUE Happiness in Jesus. God Bless. ps. Pray to Jesus about all of your problems so that he will help you like he has helped me always.
but is Jesus a hot girl sucking my dick…no
I'm good. Not really into 30 year old men, but whatever floats your boat and gets you off.
There is only one Man who Will make you completely fulfilled, and that Man is Jesus. I promise that if you seek him and let him into your heart you will experience rest and Everlasting Joy. I pray that you will take this message to heart and experience TRUE Happiness in Jesus. God Bless. ps. Pray to Jesus about all of your problems so that he will help you like he has helped me always.
I shust got my first girlfriend and i honestly dont know about relationships. Can you guys help me out with this because i really like this girl and i really want this relationship to last. Im not shue if you guys can help me but if you can, please email me!!
Should I be concerned at all that before our relationship started and when we first started to date, she dated other and kissed other men and possibly other things, even though she said wouldn't and only cares about me? I'm just a little wary since we are in a long distance relationship and I know that I should trust her but I don't want to get heartbroken.
cool
I need a big help. This girl i know she wants me and i want her too. But she said she can't see my efforts. how do i show effort for her……??
by buying her thing and show her your love
growing a pair.
Hey guys, I find it that when I'm approaching new girls, I'm more confident and assertive however, when I meet the same girl in more awkward situations (a.k.a with many people around) Im more shy and conservative. This happens a lot for me and I couldn't shake this feeling away yet . When my friends are around or if people are watching me pickup, I know I shouldn't care but I have this subconscious feeling that someone is judging me, which really damages my game. So essentially, how can I get this feeling to go away?
How do you get a girl to like/love you even more so you know you will last longer then you tgought you weould before,and what do you do when a girl you are going out with is really fridget.Help…
I just want to say thanks you Kong,Jesse and jason for the awesome tips you have been giving i was the most unpopular guy in collage everyone thought i was no body until i found your wewbsite and asked out the hottest girl in collage out and she said yes i kept coming back here for more advice and she actually realy started to like me and now i have been going out with her for 2 years thank you guys so much:)keep it up