How To Pick The Right Girl

The Right Girl?

We’ve taught you what it takes to pickup girls, respond to her texts, and do all the necessary things to at least get her into your bed. But, the question we’ve yet to answer, a question that we get a lot is:

“How do I know if she’s the girl for me?

You’ll meet so many girls throughout your time in pickup that you can get numb to a girl’s personality. You might even get to a point where you realize that too many girls act the same, not all are prude little saints, and that looks don’t always determine how dumb or smart they may act.

So, in the sea of all these girls, which one fits you? Which girl is the one who you can call, girlfriend, a title that shouldn’t be used lightly.

Yes, I’m assuming that the guys who are concerned and interested in this article are the ones who are looking for that “perfect” girl. Well, I’m going to stop you right there and tell you firsthand that there is no such thing as the “perfect” girl. I’m not telling you to settle, I just want to make it clear that you’re not going to find a girl who will consistently suck you off, make you laugh, and give you all the love you think you deserve.

It will take work, but more often, the perfect girl is someone who meshes so well with you that there is no desire for you to look for another girl. It’s like one of those fucking sayings where “you can’t live without her.”

How To Find The Right Girl For You

1. Date Like Crazy

Basically, you need to approach a lot of girls, make out with a few, sleep with many, and put yourself in as many appropriate sexual situations as you can. It’s in this time of exploration and experimentation that your experience will put you in a position where you’re more than likely bump into that girl.


You’re not going to find her sitting at home and you’re not going to woo her over by the lack of charm you have now. It’s like a final exam, you’re not going to get an A+ if you don’t practice your problem sets a week before.

In addition, when you’re out there in the dating field, you’ll soon realize what you like, what you don’t like, and what you want to see more of when it comes to girls. Therefore, you’re more likely to meet the right girl because when you bump into her, you’ll know that she possess all the factors you have in your criteria when it comes to the “right” girl.

It’s the difference between idealism and realism. And, the only way you’ll know if the girl you’ll bump into is “right” for you is through a realistic lens, which only comes from experience.

2. Sleep With Her First

Before you make a decision, you should have sex with her first. Most guys think she’s the perfect girl for her, when in reality they’re just blinded by lust. If you sleep with her multiple times and she still gives a feeling of bliss (after you cum), then she’s more likely to be the right girl for you.

Too many times we have guys who fuck the girl and realize, “Oh shit, I don’t have any feelings for her.”

This is why it’s always good to be honest with a girl when you first meet so that way she doesn’t get the impression that just because you both had sex means you’re boyfriend / girlfriend.

Wait. Don’t make a decision yet. Sleep with her and then after a while ask yourself, Does she make me happy?” If the answer is yes, then you’re getting closer.

3. Don’t Settle

Just because she matches all the criteria and she makes you happy after you cum, that doesn’t necessarily mean that she’s the right girl for you. There is other criteria you need to ask yourself, “How fast am I going with this when it comes to our relationship status?” The idea is you can rush sexually, but you shouldn’t rush emotionally.

I’m not saying “love” is a logical move, I’m just saying that you should NOT BE BLINDED BY YOUR EMOTIONS. This is a concept most guys forget because they get too deep into this mindset that they’re in love when in reality, it’s short bliss, lust, or some other emotional feeling floating in the air.

Do not settle. Do not fucking settle. If she doesn’t make you happy, that cannot be reversed. Don’t settle, move on, and find someone better. Or, just be honest with her that you want to start slow and go out and still approach other girls.

4. Be Faithful

If you find a girl who matches your criteria, makes you happy after you cum, and overall is doing things that say that she cares about you and she’s making your life better, then keep her and be faithful. Yes, be fucking faithful. She likes you because of the things you possess (game), so don’t lose your game and just don’t cheat on her.

If she’s the one, why cheat?

I think this is the biggest fucking mistake guys make when they find the right girl.

5. Learn To Trust

It might be hard to trust a girl after you’ve been heavily experience in the game. You might have done some things or put yourself in a position that totally gave you a different perspective on girls. It happens.

I’m not saying that the so-called “right” girl won’t do anything horrible in your life. Just know that if you learn to trust, you’ll be better off.

This is how you find the right girl, it might take a few months or a few years before you find her. Just know that you’re sure before you get into anything serious.

In a relationship? Check out our relationship article.

196 Responses to How To Pick The Right Girl

  1. Jacob June 27, 2013 at 6:32 pm #

    Do you get aids by having sex from a dog?

    • JesseKongJason June 27, 2013 at 6:36 pm #

      Stop having sex with your dog Jacob.

    • QuickerPickerUpper July 16, 2013 at 3:18 am #

      Umm, no. AIDS is a full-blown for of HIV, human immunodeficiency virus. Dogs aren't humans They'd have something called CIV, canine immunodeficiency virus. And I'm pretty sure you can't catch that from doggy-style sex.

    • Victor September 9, 2013 at 1:06 am #

      i dont know, check out having sex with monkey and tell me then.

    • weeeee November 9, 2013 at 5:00 pm #

      It makes YOu a PU, then U will PUUU None stop.

  2. kain June 27, 2013 at 6:33 pm #

    I've been into this girl in school for a long time but i do not know how to deal with it. I feel like i can not make a move in school because everyone is watching and she will not want to admit that she likes me (I think). Should i wait for the next party to make a move? and how can i make my intentions clear to her on a daily basis?

    • JesseKongJason June 27, 2013 at 6:37 pm #

      How about the next time you see her? I ask you to not wait for the party. Approach her today and tell her how you feel. Be confident, be stern, and see what happens. Read our "get out of the friendzone" article.

      • kain June 27, 2013 at 6:59 pm #

        By the Way, her birthday is next week and she invited me to her party. Any suggestions on gifts?

        • Casey June 27, 2013 at 8:44 pm #

          Find out what she likes or what she's into. Don't spend more than $20. It's about showing her that you know who she is as a person. Don't give her anything relationshippy if you aren't in a relationship.

          I have a spreadsheet for xmas gifts that I start in January. As I come across items where I say, "ohh, this is totally a great gift for person X", I record it in my google spreadsheet along with the price and where to buy it. In November, I buy all my shit for everyone, and they all think I'm the greatest shopper in the world, even though I only spent $10 on their present. It's not the amount you spend that matters, it what you get them.

        • Sean August 16, 2013 at 4:18 pm #

          Give her the D

    • CROman June 27, 2013 at 6:39 pm #

      Just talk to her and say what you feel I had the same problem was into her long time but then I found out we werent meant to be so I started dating other girls DON'T get friendzoned talk to her

  3. Blacky June 27, 2013 at 6:34 pm #

    How do you pickup girls in your own college? Because you have to see them almost every day after that

    • JesseKongJason June 27, 2013 at 6:35 pm #

      Just do it because even though you'll see them every day, it shouldn't bother you. When I was in college all I did was pickup girls / approach them. As long as I didn't make it awkward when I saw it again, then it was all good.

      • Felix June 29, 2013 at 10:11 pm #

        I agree, some people will hate you (everything you do in life, people will hate you), but the amount of haters is so little compared to the numbers of allies you will make. I was really surprised, my first times picking up girls at school, how much they actually gave a positive reaction.

  4. JJHicks June 27, 2013 at 6:34 pm #

    What are your chances to get girls if you have braces? btw. You should make a video where you kiss them with braces,it would be cool

    • JesseKongJason June 27, 2013 at 6:38 pm #

      That'd be cool. Braces shouldn't matter much. It can also be a good thing because they rarely make you go down on them when you have braces.

      • Micke July 12, 2013 at 11:20 am #

        I have braces and they are no problem at all, TRUST ME. Braces is just a BS excuse man.

  5. neil June 27, 2013 at 6:34 pm #

    did you guys use any dating products before starting out???

  6. Blackstar June 27, 2013 at 6:34 pm #

    what if all of you three got married. Would there be a replacement? ;)

    • JesseKongJason June 27, 2013 at 6:38 pm #

      We're not getting married anytime soon.

    • Johnie Cage September 22, 2013 at 9:40 am #

      I will fill in i m 14 ;)

      • Peter February 2, 2014 at 3:39 pm #

        Oh, so there actually ARE ppl my age who try their tips!

  7. Best Kennen EU June 27, 2013 at 6:34 pm #


    • JesseKongJason June 27, 2013 at 6:38 pm #

      *What's up?

      • Best Kennen EU June 27, 2013 at 7:15 pm #

        waddup neffew

  8. milo June 27, 2013 at 6:34 pm #

    does your friend group matter?

    • JesseKongJason June 27, 2013 at 6:39 pm #

      Yes. If they're fucking losers, ditch them. Find people who are ambitious, smart, and that will push you to become something.

      • jake August 4, 2013 at 7:25 pm #

        And how do you find those people starting out from nothing?

  9. DoubleG June 27, 2013 at 6:35 pm #

    How do you know if a girl has STD / how do you prevent it? Do you always asjavascript: postComment(0);k?

    • JesseKongJason June 27, 2013 at 6:40 pm #

      Wear a condom, always. It's when you're in a relationship and you know the girl is just fucking you, is when you do a test and find out before you go unprotected.

      • AFCGUY June 27, 2013 at 7:26 pm #

        do you wear a condom for blowjobs with girls you aren't exclusive with?

        • Taz June 27, 2013 at 8:10 pm #

          now, why the fuck would you wear a condom for blowjob?

          • king June 27, 2013 at 10:11 pm #

            Mouth herpes, but other than that I agree with you.

          • merica January 13, 2014 at 4:31 am #

            Agree. Unless she has sores on her mouth and you are too drunk to notice, you are very unlikely to catch anything. Believe both types of oral sex are very low risk for both participants unless there are cuts/sores.

        • Warren June 27, 2013 at 8:12 pm #

          I'd actually love to hear the answer to this question guys.

  10. David June 27, 2013 at 6:35 pm #

    Hi, long time reader and watcher of the videos, i dont know what to do i know you guys say man up and just go out and talk to girls and what not but i dont do it and i get nevous and scared and i dont know how to get over it manning up just isnt working for me but im lonely and fat and need motivation. any other ways to get out of this other than just man up and do it
    ? like i even have a hard time calling my mom because i get uncomfertable talking on the phone to women or anyone in general

    • JesseKongJason June 27, 2013 at 6:42 pm #

      It's all inner game on this end. We made a podcast about this in our last Project GO podcast episode. I think you should listen to it because there are more details that are impertinent for your success.

      • David June 27, 2013 at 6:56 pm #

        Dont you have to pay to listen to those? i would gladly subsicribe but im not working at the moment so i cannot. as much as i would like ot

        • the boiiiiz July 4, 2013 at 4:46 am #

          try doing some physical activities and to get in shape. I assure you that it will give you a big confidence boost. Like, set some small goals(running 1 mile under x minutes, doing 20 push ups,etc) and try to build up from there, it will really help you have a better self-esteem. Also, going to the gym and/or getting more often out of your house will help you meet new people. Good luck!!

          • bill October 1, 2013 at 7:04 pm #

            I have second what boiiiiz said . also go on a low carb diet. check out the 12 day diet. you can eat a lot and lose a lot of weight. about 10-14 pounds in your first 12 days. after you lose the weight then start eating right and stay fit. I am a fat man and I am not attracted to fat women. when I was 50 lbs lighter I had a lot more confidence. women are attracted to confidence not fat men. In this case size does matter wink wink

    • Jack November 11, 2013 at 7:41 pm #

      I agree with the inner game thing . . . you sound like you're making unstressful shit stressful for yourself. I think about it like this: You can't control every situation in life, but you can decide if you want to be calm or not calm. Choose to be calm, it's in your head, dude. You may get nervous initially bc it's natural, but then take a couple deep breaths and take control of yourself. Haha good luck.

  11. Rafael June 27, 2013 at 6:36 pm #

    How direct should you go when in an environment where most people know you? Any tips?
    I find it way easier to hit on women in areas where most people dont know me.

    • JesseKongJason June 27, 2013 at 6:43 pm #

      It's okay to be more flirtatious where most people know you. Being direct "like we should go out" is inferred in your flirtatious directness. But, it doesn't really matter unless you approach all your girl-friends all at once.

  12. Ricardo June 27, 2013 at 6:37 pm #

    Hey there
    I've approached several girls at a bar with a highly energetic ambiance a few days ago. I had four rejections, three of which were not done by the girl I was speaking to. Rather, I was talking to the girl of interest, and her friend nearby would either (1) grab the girl of interest by her hand, walk away and tell me to fuck off, or (2) yell at me to just leave and not even try. Granted, these girls were rather drunk so perhaps they just had their shields up for one another.

    Any effective way of avoiding this?

    • JesseKongJason June 27, 2013 at 6:46 pm #

      Grab her friends hand (nicely), bring her close and say in her ear or in front of her face, "Listen, I know that you want me to fuck off, but all I ask is 30 seconds. I'm looking to see on her decision and we can start there." The idea is to basically be stern but polite enough to tell the target's friend that your target is a grown ass girl who can make her own decisions.

    • Emmit October 17, 2013 at 11:24 pm #

      Hit on sober girls. Alternately, you could give drunk girls your number so that their "shields" don't think that you are trying to take advantage of their drunkness. I would be vary weary of grabbing anyone's hand as that could easily be seen as aggressive and or crossing a line.

  13. raghav June 27, 2013 at 6:37 pm #

    how should i overcome approach anxiety?
    pls, give some elaborate ans.

    • JesseKongJason June 27, 2013 at 6:47 pm #

      Bitch Butterflies? I think we made a YouTube about this. In addition, you can find more on Project GO. Most of is inner game, which we just covered in our latest podcast.

  14. mcstyl3 June 27, 2013 at 6:37 pm #

    how to handle silent and shy girls in sets really strugling over these and what kinda places do u advice as sexual locations

    • JesseKongJason June 27, 2013 at 6:51 pm #

      In Project GO we have two episodes that should help in this topic: Shy Girls & Conservative Girls. Those episodes should help because there are many steps when it comes to these girls.

  15. penisquestion June 27, 2013 at 6:38 pm #

    How comfortable are you all with the size of your phallus(es?)?

    • JesseKongJason June 27, 2013 at 6:51 pm #

      Comfortable enough.

  16. Brandon June 27, 2013 at 6:38 pm #

    How long did it take for you guys to get make outs, when you first started pickup?

    • JesseKongJason June 27, 2013 at 6:52 pm #

      It took 3 months, another two weeks, and another took 6 months.

    • Vish June 28, 2013 at 8:53 am #

      That doesn’t really matter in terms of your own success. You should be trying to enjoy the process

  17. James June 27, 2013 at 6:38 pm #

    Example of indirect flirting?

  18. Dickjoke June 27, 2013 at 6:40 pm #

    Who has the biggest moobs out of all 3 of u guys ?

  19. Kevin June 27, 2013 at 6:40 pm #

    Do you guys ask the girls for permission or make them sign a consent form before using the footage for youtube videos? Thanks!

  20. teghi June 27, 2013 at 6:40 pm #

    How do you guys prevent awkward moments when talking to girls specially hot ones?

  21. yeas June 27, 2013 at 6:41 pm #

    what is avarege time of sex start till erction

  22. Justin June 27, 2013 at 6:42 pm #

    Right now I am trying this, but I am only being successful with the barely “mediocre” girl, to find the girl I want, I want her to be a lot better looking than what I am getting now. What should I do to start being able to filter through these better looking girls (average to pretty hot girls, I don’t mean super models).

  23. henry23 June 27, 2013 at 6:42 pm #

    You all have such white teeth. Do you bleech them and if so how??

    Can you give me tips/exercices to get a better voice ( not monotone etc.)
    i read Kong had some speech lessons :)

    cheers guys

    • henry23 June 27, 2013 at 6:51 pm #

      sry for bad english. it's not my native :) basically i just wanted to know how i can improve my boring voice.
      and the thing bout your white theeth

      • henry23 June 28, 2013 at 8:20 pm #

        and i don't mean up-/downtalk.. already got that :)

    • Vish July 1, 2013 at 10:55 pm #

      For the teeth they use crest whitening stripes. And give a better description than a "better" voice

  24. Fer June 27, 2013 at 6:43 pm #

    Guys, you know those girls who you can obviously see they are interested in you because of those glances or because they start talking to their friend obviously about you, but when you approach them they just try to avoid you saying "huh no no, I'm not interested" "You're wrong, I wasn't looking at you". What do you guys do to make her accept the truth or give in?

  25. Kevin June 27, 2013 at 6:43 pm #

    Dudes big fan and like most of the guys up here you changed my life as well, and i greatly appreciate that. But there is this one girl that i have been caught up on and she keeps rejecting me you know, but for some reason i like it and i just keep wanting more and more of her attention. I just want to know why do you think she ignores me/ hates me even though i haven't done anything bad to her. She basically won't give me a chance. And i know you guys will probably say that my best way to get over this girl is to move on, but could there be some other way that i could get her? Guys this is my DREAM GIRL lol I've been able to get soooooo many girls because of you guys, but if you guys could just please help me with this girl i would be sooooo grateful.

  26. sean June 27, 2013 at 6:45 pm #

    How do you deal with the really shitty days, where it seems like every girl has a bf?

    • Vish June 30, 2013 at 6:57 am #

      Push through and approach as much as you can

  27. Inquisitor June 27, 2013 at 6:46 pm #

    What do you do when your girlfriend doesn't message you or call you in a week? She hasn't replied to any of my texts.

  28. MASTERZERG June 27, 2013 at 6:47 pm #

    there is this bitch i like slightly, we've known eachother through most our lives, but we've moved to different places. Now we're in the same place, and she asked me if i wanted to watch a movie with her. We won't stay i the same city for more than a month. But should i try to stick it, or is the chance of ruing a friendship not worth is?

  29. sandjoe33 June 27, 2013 at 6:49 pm #

    What are good ideas for a first date that will leave a lasting impression

  30. yuri June 27, 2013 at 6:50 pm #

    How do you hit on girls that already have their mind up about you i.e. think you’re a loser

    • yuri June 27, 2013 at 6:53 pm #


  31. Martijn June 27, 2013 at 6:50 pm #

    How do guys come up with all the stuff to say in the beginning of an approach? After 2 minutes I just run out of things to say and find it difficult to keep the conversation fun for the girl

  32. Alex June 27, 2013 at 6:52 pm #

    So I met a girl trough a few friends, we talked a lot, went out I went for it and got rejected. How do I keep friends with the girl?

  33. Petey June 27, 2013 at 6:54 pm #

    What do you do when you prematurely ejaculate with a girl? so embarrasing!

    • Nawalta June 27, 2013 at 8:53 pm #

      I know it's a well known issue, but I have never quite understood why you guys cannot pull out for a second and cool down when you feel you are getting too excited. That's what I do all the time.

  34. Cucho June 27, 2013 at 6:58 pm #

    What about negging or like jesse called "the opposite of a compliment"??

  35. Zack June 27, 2013 at 7:02 pm #

    How many girls have you guys been with?

  36. Colombian June 27, 2013 at 7:14 pm #

    Hey guys!
    this question is maybe not related to the current article but I didn´t know where else could I ask it and have the chance to get an answer if it wasn´t in the newest post.
    So, I´m not a beginner when it comes about girls although I just started to apply this "go- pick up style" a few days ago after seeing your videos, the thing is, so far It goes well at the moment of the approach BUT, also all of the girls i have approached (as I said, i just started a few days ago so not that many actually) seem to be nice and to be interested just during the interaction, when it comes to the texting part and setting up the next meeting they all have came out with excuses and so on…
    I already read that article where you say it might be a lack at the moment of leaving the interaction and tried to change this but still no change so far, what do you guys say? is it normal, like there are also girls who are not serious at all or should I try to be more clear at the moment of setting the next meeting during the first impression?
    thanks forehand!
    greets from a Colombian

  37. marshallaw4 June 27, 2013 at 7:14 pm #

    Hey guys, since you're really good with picking up girls, you are psychologically strong and should be good at this too. Well what about you when you fall in love? I have been "strengthening" myself psychologically about those feelings and falling in love. When I started I was like some teen who's really vulnerable to this. But after my training I was able to fall in love and delete that feeling in 24 hours, cuz that girl rejected me in the past already lol and not much deal. So what are your experiences with that?

  38. OfficialIke June 27, 2013 at 7:16 pm #

    Hey how do you pick up women when there are children presents for example: The other day I was walking my dog and I saw this hottie who was obviously checking me out and I wanted to approach her but she had what seem to be her baby brother and sister hovering around her. Also women with children too I want to get some MILFS

  39. Rob June 27, 2013 at 7:18 pm #

    Have you guys ever date a celebrity? I’m trying to hook up with Taylor Swift, can you give any tips?

  40. Simon June 27, 2013 at 7:23 pm #

    Greetings from Singapore. How do you get girls into bed while making it clear that you will still date other women? This is the only thing I found on this article that I couldn't find an answer. I mean like, what do you say and stuffs, because girls here are very Asian (like Koreans and Chinese)

  41. Ilikepowder June 27, 2013 at 7:59 pm #

    Is it OK to put babypowder on your dick?

    • Vish June 30, 2013 at 6:57 am #


      • Vish July 1, 2013 at 10:56 pm #

        jk don't do that

  42. trayan June 27, 2013 at 8:03 pm #

    I'm 16. This doesn't work.

    • George June 27, 2013 at 9:38 pm #

      Yes it does, I'm 17 and I do it. Just think positive, whats the worst that can happen?
      Also i tend to approach older girls (18+), because they're more used to the dating game.
      Additionally, I was really bad at talking to girls about a month ago, then after 2 months of exams, I asked when am I gonna start getting laid, and just drew up the courage to pickup, and the first girl I approached gave me her number. And i'm not the most attractive bloc ever aswell

      • trayan June 28, 2013 at 3:28 pm #

        yes, but every time I try to pick up an older girl she's like "you're so young, blah blah"

        • Vish June 30, 2013 at 6:56 am #

          So stop giving fuck dude. Don't make excuses, if you want to get laid go do it. You can

          • Micke July 12, 2013 at 11:30 am #

            I'm 16 and it works. It's not exactly the same compared to when older guys do it. Young girl's are so stupid/braindead so it's a bit harder to make a connection and also talk to them. Everytime I talk to someone older I just think to myself "How can I get better? How can I make myself better at this? Train on the older, exam on the younger if you see what i mean

            you'll accustom to younger chicks eventually.

        • christopher September 29, 2013 at 6:53 pm #

          you may be too young for her thats not a big deal go talk to another one. 16 is too young for an 18 yearold anyway thats just bunch of bs I wouldn't want to deal with as an 18 yearold hit on girls near your age even though 18 is near your age there is a law factor! just keep trying and do not give up

      • Trem September 11, 2013 at 3:57 am #

        Dude, you should email me. Just so I can ask you a couple questions. Or I email you first? I'm 16.

  43. Alex June 27, 2013 at 8:15 pm #

    what if a girl i know use some of the advice simple pikcup has teached us like strong eye contact, being unreactive, calling instead of texting and stuff.
    how can i handle her? if i use this advice too, she may think i´m trying to be like her, doesn't she? or may not have the same effect.

  44. nukeydukey June 27, 2013 at 8:26 pm #

    You guys went to Hong Kong. I was just wondering what you thought of the girls there? Was it easier or harder to pick them up… was there anything that worked better?

    I am from there, and was interested in your opinion – I am mainly asking Jesse, because i'm an indian too.

  45. Bob June 27, 2013 at 8:28 pm #

    Wanting to be a natural, I try not to use canned material, time constraints or whatever. I believe that talking to girls and finding ones whose interests match yours is the right way to pick up girls. Yet i still find it hard to start talking about something. Will this improve by talking to as many girls as you can, or is there another method i can try? Also, to prevent flakes, u need emotional investment. Is there any way to achieve this emotional investment, or is this just based on how this girl matches you? I think i still dont understand the phase that comes after the opener, after the ‘hello, my name is …, i think you’re cute’

  46. David June 27, 2013 at 8:30 pm #

    how can i start to talk and flirt with a friend i haven't seen in a long time?, i can pickup and get sexual with random girls that i have just met, it's much easier for me starting from nothing.

    but…. how can i get a girl i already kow? , i don't know, i'm not that funny and i become boring, i don't know how to give her the "i'm a cool guy that wants to flirt with you" impression because she already kind of knows how i am.

    hope your reply, i'd really help. ( sorry for the bad spelling, i'm from spain)

  47. Andrew June 27, 2013 at 9:55 pm #

    I just wanted to know, how do u get a girl that’s older than u? I’m in my last year of high school, and this girl is in her second year of college. Just wanted, to know if u had any advice.

    • Lon June 28, 2013 at 1:17 am #

      Im currently 18, my gf is turning 20- honestly if you think about it , age is one element within a relationship, however if you have so much more elements to show her and she notices that out weigh the ‘age factor’ then she’ll be interestes. One thing i’ve found really important when going for a older girl is the ‘level of maturity’ guys have.
      They dont want a kid that doesnt no shit, show her qualities that outweigh age and be mature and straight up, no playin around.
      Hope this helps

    • Vish June 30, 2013 at 7:07 am #

      I'm not 100% sure on this but based off of their advice, getting a girl older than you doesn't make that much of a difference. Just make sure you aren't nervous. Just be confident and yourself

  48. Viktor June 27, 2013 at 10:29 pm #

    Hey, so my biggest problem my age. I am 16. Most girls i run into look over 18. My question is do I still approach the girls that are over 18?

  49. Abhishek June 27, 2013 at 10:47 pm #

    Ssup guys!!! Just wanted to let u know that whatever U guys are doing is incredible. Really appreciate the commitment, because generally in today's dating and pickup world everything that has been known to us is all falsified material just to make some money without results. U guys have proved otherwise and backed it up with results. True fan. Hope to meet u fellas sin some time of my life when I come across Cali. Cheers!

  50. Nick June 27, 2013 at 11:34 pm #

    How do you guys recommend balancing gaming and going out to meet people? I am a gamer and I'd like to continue this habit, but I also want to meet girls. Any tips?

  51. Hector June 27, 2013 at 11:44 pm #

    Hey guys!..
    I'm a bit curious.. If you have approached and dated all these many many girls [more than most men will in their entire life], how come you guys haven't found a "very very right" (as in "you can't live without her") girl for you?.. I mean, is there even a chance we (people who don't date 20 girls a month) will ever do? :O

    • Max July 1, 2013 at 1:50 am #

      There is no "The One" so throw that notion aside. When the 3 decide to end pickup then they will settle down with a single woman of their choosing.

  52. AdDragonswed June 28, 2013 at 2:18 am #

    When do you guys think the maintenance for project go and simple 30 will be over?

  53. loka June 28, 2013 at 2:57 am #

    Hey guys I have looser friends who don't wanna go out, and I've tried to join in with some of the "cooler" people I know but it doesn't work. I think it is probably because they think I'm one of them too, and I apreciatte if you have some advice to deal with this situation.

  54. carlos June 28, 2013 at 3:08 am #

    it is a problem if i am 17 and i want to date a girl who is is 4 or 5 years older than me?

    • yeas June 28, 2013 at 3:56 am #

      Man that not a problem l am 18 and l am into milfs. Remember no excuses.

      • Aman December 18, 2013 at 12:58 am #

        yeaa broo on that shit hahha

  55. Sammy June 28, 2013 at 3:21 am #

    Kong, Jesse, Jason. There's this girl that I've been dating for nearly a month. Just recently (few days ago) she told me she wanted to be in a relationship and that she trusts me and is ready for commitment. Now she is telling me that she is hesitant and scared of being in a relationship and that her mom thinks I'm trouble for her. She's super cute and has never been in a real relationship. Like what do I do in a situation like this? NEED SOME GENERIC ADVICE

  56. Ryan June 28, 2013 at 3:44 am #

    Hey guys, I've been watching your videos for a long time now and after watching Kong's video on bitch butterflies for the 15th time I finally got the the balls to start going out and just start doing approaches (only at about 1-3 girls a day), but I find that when I do an approach after the first 30 seconds I just get creepy and start feeling awkward, and the rest of the interaction just falls off. I know rejections are common but is there any way to loosen up and just feel more natural during these pick ups? Cheers!

    • Vish June 30, 2013 at 7:05 am #

      It's gonna feel weird when you're first starting. After a while it'll become normal, make sure you keep going. Most importantly you should be trying to have fun talking to people.

  57. shadowlee June 28, 2013 at 5:07 am #

    how do you get over a girl ? (new tips , not the old posts) please ?

  58. Mike June 28, 2013 at 5:15 am #

    Hey guys, I've been approaching girls and getting numbers, but then a lot of the times, the conversation via text is really dead. Any tips?

  59. simple pick up brooooo is best June 28, 2013 at 5:43 am #

    What would be the best thing to know it pickup and what is the best thing in pickup?

  60. Simonas June 28, 2013 at 6:57 am #

    Hey, unrelated question here. I just can't make myself dance in parties or clubs. Once there's a dancefloor I become rigid and stop enjoying it in that particular environment. So instead of being normal, I try to find a group of people to stick to so I don't 'look as akward', which I'm aware makes me look more akward. I like dancing okay, but I freeze in that particular environment. Once I take a girl outside for a walk or something of that nature, I can hold a conversation and am decently charismatic, though. What gives? Why is that like it, possible fixes?

  61. Vish June 28, 2013 at 8:54 am #

    When’re u gonna upload something on mindblowingjobs kong?

  62. random guy June 28, 2013 at 9:05 am #

    I was feeling it yesterday to approach this girl in my college class and I totally bitched out. Now I can’t stop thinking about her. I was a little bitch. I realized after watching your videos I get really pumped so I guess I’ll watch your videos before I see her

  63. david June 28, 2013 at 10:39 am #

    how to face your fear if you pick up girls?

  64. Brent June 28, 2013 at 11:39 am #

    guys, i was going out with this chick who's really awesome.. we've been on 3 dates and everytime we ended up kissing. Well now she texted me she doesn't want a boyfriend atm because she doesn't have any time during the holidays (2 months) and she doesn't know what's gonna happen on her vacation… (sigh) so my question now is. Should i just leave her (while i actually love her) or should i just keep texting her, meeting up with her (without kissing, that's what she said) or what should i do to make her feel the way she wants a boyfriend? (me) I'm in some deep shit man, it really hurts reading that text so can you PLEASE help me out? :(

  65. Will June 28, 2013 at 3:20 pm #

    Ok, so There's this girl that I really like, and she has told me that she really likes me as well. We got off at a party 3 months ago and then started going outish but yeah we didn't really click so broke up. Now, after spending more time with her, I feel know her a lot better and when I asked her out she said something like 'What took you so long?' and seemed pretty eager, then due to complications that never actually started. She says that she really likes me and gets annoyed if I'm flirting with other girls, but then most of the time that I'm with her she's sarcastic as fuck and can act like a total bitch to me. A few weeks ago at an other party she apparently wanted to do something again but didn't really show me and I was under the impression she had pretty much moved on. Now I don't really know how to play this… any advice? Btw we're both going to a party at the end of the week so that could be a good time to make a move

  66. Steve June 28, 2013 at 9:39 pm #

    Yo what would you do if your friend was being corn ball at music frestivals with many girl around that he tell me he wants feeling what type friend you called that

  67. Steve nguyen June 28, 2013 at 9:46 pm #

    Yo what would you do if your friend is being corn ball at music frestivals with many girl around that he tell he wasn't feeling it what type friend you called please reply

  68. getlucky June 28, 2013 at 10:36 pm #

    :) Thank you

  69. Jack June 29, 2013 at 7:29 pm #

    Weird knowing that players who have multiple sex partners are teaching guys that they should be faithful.

  70. DMAL July 1, 2013 at 7:59 pm #

    i like this girl, we had something in the past, but then she got a boyfriend. They recently broke up, and another one of my friends (another ex), wants something with her. What can I do ?

  71. maarten July 2, 2013 at 12:07 am #

    yo jesse kong at jason

    everybody from holland say weeeeyoooo,

    back to the point
    so i'm texting a girl that i know for a while now but lost contact for a few years
    now we text a lot and see each other more often and i'm really start to like her
    but don't know ive she likes me in the same way
    so i went to the we're we would meet up to ask her ive she liked me in the same way
    but i got hit car so now i am home all f*cking day and texting the whole damn day
    and still didnt asked the damn question so now i am here to ask you guys
    what should i do ask it in a text or wait till i can walk properly
    and ask it when i meet up again

    big thank you ive you read and reply

    p.s. sorry for the bad spelling and english

  72. Iasonas July 2, 2013 at 2:19 pm #

    So there is this kick ass pool party next week, but i have no idea how i shoud play our game there. Any advice ?

  73. Robert July 3, 2013 at 3:39 am #

    I have a question, when should people start pickup? Because I’m 14 and it’s really easy now, because girls are basically impressed by anything. Should I wait?

    • Anono July 23, 2013 at 11:09 pm #

      Nope. I've start dong it and i'm 16. I wish I knew about SimplePickup earlier.

  74. Kong like King Kong July 3, 2013 at 4:46 pm #

    hi guys! I don't think i have a social anxiety but if i'm with someone who don't really know, i don't what to do with my hands. Especially in public. How can i fix that?

  75. Random guy July 3, 2013 at 6:29 pm #

    I love this shit! I was feeling it yesterday to approach this girl in my college class and I totally bitched out. Now I can't stop thinking about her.

  76. Jay July 3, 2013 at 10:06 pm #

    I met this amazing girl yesterday, we had a long fun and playful conversation and we both seemed really attracted to each other. So she gave me her Facebook, but still hasn't accepted my friend request, although i left her a quick message too. WTF GUYS IS THERE ANY CHANCE SHE IS INTO ME OR SHOULD I JUST MOVE ON AGAIN ? :(

  77. David Nguyen July 5, 2013 at 9:50 pm #

    You probably get a lot of this but.. any advice on what I should do?
    So I am a soon to be Junior in highschool. At the beginning of my sophomore year, there's this really pretty girl that would always smile at me whenever she passes me in the hallways. I didn't think of it as anything, because I didn't believe it was anything. I mean I smile at people all the time right?

    That kept going on throughout the year until homecoming. During homecoming night, well after the dance was over, she approached me and said something along this line "Hey! I always see you around school and never actually gotten to know your name.. What is your name?" Well, I answered and told her my name. She introduced herself back and then proceeded to ask me what grade I was in. I replied I'm a sophomore and she said she was a senior. We chit chated for like 30 seconds after until her and I had to leave because both of our groups were leaving.

    I didn't think of this as being anything still because "she just wanted to know my name, makes sense right?" Plus I think she had a boyfriend at that time. I think, although a month or so later I was sure she had a boyfriend.

    Then it was back to waves and smiles plus except she would ask me how am I doing in the hallways.

    Then a couple months later, I signed up to volunteer at a basketball game to monitor the entrance so people don't sneak in without paying and she was coincidentally volunteering there and at the same entrance too. So we just talked for the next 2 or 3 hours. Lol. I don't really remember what we talked about but it was something about prom? Some part of the conversation was about are you going to prom and me saying no I don't know any senior girls and she said, this I remember "Well, you can probably seduce a senior girl to take you to prom". I remember her playing with her hair whenever we talked also.

    After the game was over, she asked me how I was getting home. I said I was most likely going to walk home and that its fine because I walk home all the time. I only live ~3-4 miles away from my school. She said she is going to give me a ride home and during the ride home, she said that whenever I need her (I assumed she ment whenever I needed a ride), don't hesitate to call her. I didn't ask her for her number..

    I still didn't make a move after that because I was unsure of what she was thinking. She had a boyfriend that goes to another high school in the same district and I just thought I better not get myself in trouble.

    "Then it was back to…."

    Then on annual day (yearbooks signing), she came up and said hi. Asked me if I was going to prom. I said no. She replied I didn't seduce a /cute/ girl to go to prom? Then we talked for 10 minutes or so after that. I don't think she went to prom with anybody so I guess she broke up with her boyfriend?

    After that, she had to leave to get some assignment for her teacher. Gave me a huge and left.

    I got her number the next week and asked her if she wanted to hang out this summer and she said "Yeah! Defiantly!" Because it was finals, I didn't want to have anything in my mind other than schoolwork so I didn't call her until the last day of school.

    When I called her, it said that the person I am trying to reach is unavailable or has gone into an area with no service. I suddenly remembered her saying something about going to Guatemala so I was like, "Well, fuckkk" Shes on facebook at times, but ehh, fuck facebook.

    What do I do? Does asking her to hang out technically mean that I asked her on a date? I really have no idea what I'm doing as I've never bothered going for anybody except this one girl who friendzoned me and when I attempted to get out of it, she said "You are one of my best friend and I don't want to change that".

    If you actually read this, I am so sorry for making you read this.

    • Vish July 6, 2013 at 7:55 am #

      Well I read this and what i can say is that if you liked this girl you should've told her that from the start. You waited and waited for the right moment and now she's gone. If you thought that she was really pretty then you should've told her that. She literally asked you if you're going with anyone to prom. Stop looking for what the meaning of her words are. If you like a girl tell her that. And as for the boyfriend thing you could've asked her if she was single or not. Honestly it looks to me like you are trying to protect your ego from getting hurt. It also kinda looks to me like you acted like a total vag. Read their article on how to get out of the friendzone.

      • David Nguyen July 6, 2013 at 8:21 am #

        Well thing is, I don't like her. I mean, I think shes cute/pretty/hot whatever you wanted to call it but I didn't actually like her. But I guess you are right, I should have told her that she is pretty.

        I just didn't go for her because I was preoccupied with that girl that friendzoned me but that doesn't matter now as I've moved on.

        I'm not in the friendzoned this this girl. I'm sure of it. We barely know each other since we don't talk on a regular basis at all.

        Your words are true though, I am a vagina, that's how that girl that I was preoccupied with friendzoned me. I didn't make a move fast enough so I got friendzoned. This time, I am determined to not make that same mistake of being a total vagina.

        I guess I should have added this few needed but (what seems to me, irrelevant) information.

        As much as I hate facebook, I messaged her on facebook telling her that I tried calling her and she said she will be back soon so I don't think shes gone yet.

  78. Vish July 7, 2013 at 7:37 am #

    I see, when she gets back ask her out on a date or something. All the best

  79. Dan July 8, 2013 at 6:56 pm #

    Nice technique for the average Jo not for everybody.
    Would like you to see you teach an overweight guy a real one not a 230 lbs… a 350 and see how it work…

    People judge you on the first eye contact in less than 5 seconds and this yes/no in there head will affect the response of the women on what you will say.

    I will say for 2/3 girls you are a possible one night stand in the first 5 sec… So after the Hi with a smile you have to make her laugh and feel comfortable. Don't do creepy stuff like the kiss… it's just don't work.

    The good point on your technique is to tell the average Jo don't be afraid to be rejected because for sure you will be… it's part of the game.

    You know one thing in my life a notice about the better player. It's not rare to see total reject from high school be the best player. And the only response I found it's they are so used to be rejected that one more time will not kill them… And more and more one night they get more and more confident they are and the less they are afraid about rejection.

  80. Ruper July 9, 2013 at 11:27 am #

    I know this is pretty late but I'm hoping anyone with experience can answer me.

    When I go out and approach, I always push the interaction as much as I can, so usually if she's meeting some friends or something like that I have to let it slide and get her number. But after that, I keep approaching and it's happened to me a few times that, right when I'm approaching or talking to another girl, the girl whose number I got previously may walk past me or something and see me with someone else.

    I tend to be very immersed in the interaction so I've never noticed it myself, my wingmen have pointed it out for me. So far I think I've played it cool, no damage done apparently… but next time it may not work out very well. I mean, what if I make out with girl #2 and girl #1 sees me? What to do in these situations? Ignore it completely? What if the first girl asks me about it? I don't want to lie to them, but I'm afraid I'll lose them if I just tell them something along the lines of "yeah, I'm just trying to get it in".

  81. YP July 10, 2013 at 4:42 am #

    Dear Simple Pickup,

    There is this girl I really like and who really likes me back…however we are both only 17 and her parents will not let her date…should I just tap that ass and move on or should I wait until something better happens (idk when)?


    • Vish July 11, 2013 at 5:32 am #

      Well why not hit on other girls while this girl makes up her mind? You don't have to wait for her. Just go out and find new girls and come back later and see if she's down.

  82. Ayush Jain July 12, 2013 at 2:09 pm #

    Hey Guys!

    suggest me! I'm in love with my good friend & she knows about it, but she want any popular stud.
    last week! i hugged her tightly and so she didn't pick my calls. now she text me, "I made her uncomfortable".
    what would i do?

  83. John July 12, 2013 at 5:36 pm #

    Guys i love your stuff, i really think your confidence advice has been an amazing help. Now i have a problem, a girl and i both really like eachother, shes turning 18 in a few months im still 16 and she feels weird dating someone younger than her cause shes never done it. She has had dating experience, in fact a 2 year relationship just ended, im just going to be the first younger guy ever. Shes sort of on the edge of getting with me although how do i convince her to try forsure, or to go on a date with me. If the girl is a bit nervous like this, where do i take her.

    If you guys can help me over the line with this ill love you forever <3 im really hoping you reply

    Thanks guys (i posted this on a different article too cause i wasnt sure if you only answered questions on most recent article)

  84. Yan July 14, 2013 at 4:05 am #

    Hei guys, i’m too picky about looks of women. Should i watch out for hot girls or just approach women that don’t look good enough from my point of view? I do sometimes approach those “bad” looking women because i’m desperate but it feels wrong and then i try to get into the friend zone or i just ignore them. I don’t want to do this anymore for me and for them. Pls help me :(
    Ps.: thank you for your videos. They gave me bigger balls ;)
    Greetings from yan

    • Vish July 22, 2013 at 5:09 am #

      So long as you think you can get a boner with her naked in your bed, go for it. If you're just starting out then yeah it's gonna feel weird at first but after a while you'll get over it. Also make sure that you're trying to have fun out there, don't treat it like a chore.

  85. Jonah July 15, 2013 at 7:36 pm #

    You guys should do a video on how to be clever. Another idea I had was Wolfman Jason! I hope to see another funny pickup video soon.

  86. daboss July 16, 2013 at 4:18 pm #

    help guys each time i wanna approach girl I go to her n then i freeze n cant breath. I have projectgo account n simple 30
    so I might unsubscribe cuz I cant even approach. can someone plz help me

    • Aman December 18, 2013 at 1:10 am #

      i feel the same bro but guess what these guys have made something no1 knew about and guess what theyre famous as fuck idk why they dont post vids as much as they use too :( but back to the point imagine if ur an old man that is going to die… god forbid… u think about ur mistakes and u said if i only were confindent i might of got an advantage for e.g getting laid and sukkin dem nipples but dont forget ur old u cant do that shit no more, ur penis expired hah so plz think bout it… talk to ur self on the mirror now n then… try to be confindent cuz belive me if ur old and u were about to die and thought about this…. life would be so sad… so just u know be brave and get a wingman to help u or fap infront ur phone like a loser… take it easy n breath btw ur username dont describe u :) i laid 5 girls in a month i find that the biggest achievement…

  87. Jason July 19, 2013 at 9:02 pm #

    After 6 months of approaches, I found my perfect 10. We both agreed that there was a lot of chemistry between us on our first date so we should see where things go. The very next day she told me she doesn't want a relationship right now because she just got out of a 2 year relationship and then a 3 year relationship before that. I really don't know what I should do because I don't have the desire to approach other girls after meeting her. HELP.

    • Vish July 22, 2013 at 5:14 am #

      There is no one that can make you get over this. I think in one of their project go podcasts they mention that when you meet that ten for the first time you're probably not gonna know how to handle it. Trust me dude you're gonna meet tons of girls out there, some better some worse. So just try to enjoy the experience and stop being a little bitch

  88. Harris July 22, 2013 at 8:19 pm #

    how did you guys change your lives?

  89. Mike July 26, 2013 at 3:16 pm #

    Something missing in the article – how do you keep your "game" up, the reason she likes you in the first place, and still be faithful to her? Even if you don't do anything other than talk to girls, she's not going to like that you're approaching girls.. either in front of her or behind her back.

  90. Jesus July 29, 2013 at 8:37 pm #

    After you introduce yourself to a girl, what do you say?

    • Aman December 18, 2013 at 1:13 am #

      u say amen

  91. jjjj August 7, 2013 at 2:51 am #

    Seek Jesus and HE will solve all of your problems, nothing else will. God Bless.

    • Bobman19 September 7, 2013 at 5:48 am #


  92. Vinc August 10, 2013 at 9:09 pm #

    How do you show a girl what you want and don't look "needy" or horny.

  93. Jason August 11, 2013 at 5:34 pm #

    Hey guys,
    So here is my problem. I like this girl a lot and i am deeply in the friend zone right now, like she fucking asks me for advice on who to date. I know we have basically everything in common and the problem with me is that i am really shy and unconfident, i know the advice u guys gave for being confident, etc. Well now she is dating someone who is a complete dipshit and apparently she likes him a lot, what should i do?

    • Christoher September 29, 2013 at 7:00 pm #

      I am a Marine and in the Marine Corps we go through Boot Camp in Boot Camp we have confidence building events, I suggest you do that. Go out and start to weight lift of course like anything else learn how to do it properly a good reference, or do one of these mud runs, or skydive do something your uncomfortable, basicly do something that takes work that you can't feel like you could do ( you can do alot more than you think you can) this builds confidence work on that first you'll be good

  94. Steve Frank August 12, 2013 at 11:11 pm #

    How do you pick up someone with a higher profile? For example, somebody famous like a TV presenter or Radio host. Also how about someone like an air hostess? They seem difficult to pick up too.

  95. Jay August 13, 2013 at 4:27 pm #

    Nice piece..

  96. Alberto August 17, 2013 at 5:12 am #

    I've Read The Article on how to pick up girls in class with the note, I've seen part one and two over and over but how do you pick up a girl in class that you don't sit next too or near ? ( I'm In High School ) P.s The Hallways and stares are so packed i can't find a way to even say "hi" Thanks :)

  97. Tiak August 17, 2013 at 7:17 pm #

    Hey guys, I'd like to ask u one question:

    My ex girlfriend used to ask me a lot of questions on my past and in consequence our relationship suffered great damage. Though she was a smart and very confident person – a 10, both physically and mentally – she couldn't deal with all the information on my exes, ons, fuck-buddies etc. I was in a dilemma: Neither did I want her to know all that stuff nor did I want to be dishonest. So I gave her answers on every question truthfully.

    The outcome was that whenever Uni, work, or simply misunderstandings strained our relationship she lost trust in me. Whenever I had to handle business and didnt have time for her, she assumed me to be unfaithful.

    Now I am dating a new girl, who has girlfriend-potential and is as least as nice as my ex was and I wonder: How should I deal with questions on my past?

    I think u should make a video on that question. Or at least give a short reply in your Q&A vids.

  98. Mitkosa August 18, 2013 at 10:24 am #

    I know im kinda late for the show but something happened and i need some help.
    Ok so i called a girl (when we met i told her "im going to call u tomorow") and she didnt answer her phone. Later that night i received and SMS from her saying (sry i put my phone on "no sound"). It was late so thats why she didnt call me (at least i think so).
    So my question is should i call her the next day

  99. Warizzle August 20, 2013 at 9:04 am #

    Hey Jesse Kong and Jason, Thanks so much for your simple 30 exclusive podcast. To be honest, I'm a broke student and I do not have a whole lot of cash to pay for. However, it was really because of this very podcast that I decided to actually take action and now I'm doing pickup at my campus in Vancouver and the experience has been life-changing!

    Right now all I'm doing is building pickup as a part of my habit. Being good at game is temporary and if I stop doing it I will suck despite all past successes and numbers that I've got.

    Again thanks so much for doing this for us all


  100. bigman August 26, 2013 at 2:38 am #

    ONE QUESTIONNN !!! PLEASE FUCKING ANSWER. How do i approach TWiNS by myself????? There are these bomb twins that i catch checking me out regularly but i don't know how to approach them. Like which one do i talk to?? which ones number do i get lol??? So many fucking questions about this. And its just me by myself, i don't wanna go in with any friends.

    • bigman August 26, 2013 at 2:39 am #

      and they are always together both of them

    • bill October 1, 2013 at 6:38 pm #

      Look if they are for sure checking you out, just pick one and say I like you best but I want to be fair and give you both a chance. And if I like you equally then that will be twice the fun.

      • bill October 1, 2013 at 6:41 pm #

        and chances are they are roommates with the same number. Or when you get the one number tell to be a sweetie and get there other number for you.

    • bill October 1, 2013 at 6:52 pm #

      Another approach would be … do the Eenie Meenie Miney Moe thing stopping on moe then say "I am thinking that you have the inside track with your sister. Could you be a dear and get her number for me?" Then say the same thing to the other one. initially it does not matter which one you ask for .

  101. shine83 September 5, 2013 at 4:52 pm #

    is there anytime near future you guys are coming to the UK?

  102. Boban19 September 7, 2013 at 5:46 am #

    What if you are Christian (Protestant), which means we believe in "Not having sex before you are married." So what is my situation there?

    • Christopher September 29, 2013 at 6:45 pm #

      well I would look at the facts of your belief. There is no proof that their is a god or a heaven or hell other than a book written a very long time ago. I think the bible is the equivalent of a Harry Potter book just written a long time ago. Who knows maybe in the next 3000 years people will be worshiping Harry Potter and waiting to have sex before marriage in order to to get in the magic land of Hogwarts or whatever the hell. Point is. Your situation is brought on by yourself and only you can figure out what to do as far as pickup, My advice, Stop believing in fairy tales and go meet some girls

    • NastyJ December 23, 2013 at 4:25 am #

      Simple. Go down on them, make them go down on you. Blowjobs, Handjobs, Titjobs, Assjobs. Anal too.

  103. GFR September 7, 2013 at 11:58 am #

    Awesome article you guys, keep rocking!

  104. basem September 19, 2013 at 3:29 pm #

    i have lean some thanks guyts

  105. Christopher September 29, 2013 at 6:40 pm #

    I consiter myself a swinger and I have had a girlfriend before that also consitered herself a swinger. We did the usual swinging couple things but ultimatily it fell through. I have read Dr. Kinsies research ( he did a ton of research about human sexuallity that nearly all humans are not completely straight or completely gay, that they have a varrious amount of both. ) And by that research I know that many of these girls have had some thoughts of sex with another girl, which is what I am looking for. So the point. I understand that I have to just go out and meet a bunch of girls to see, but in your adventures Jesse ,Jason, and Kong how often have you come along bi girls or "swinger type" girls. I ask just to get an idea. Also I live in Chicago and I wish I lived out in California like you guys very jellious, I am going to have to make that happen. But I digress so thank you guys.

  106. bill October 1, 2013 at 6:31 pm #

    I found you because has a petition to get you off youtube. the few clips I have seen are bodacious but nothing I would want to shut down. I did get a laff and would never try these things. I would like to say thanks to for informing me of this site. too bad there is no way to contact them and tell them. stupid petition. Free speech they can always walk away as long as you dont persist then it is not harassment.

  107. Ronit October 13, 2013 at 9:04 am #

    What does SWAG mean?

  108. parash October 16, 2013 at 8:52 am #

    there a girl who talks to me alot when im in facebook and she's from my school but when i see her in person she doesnt talk ,she only smiles at me and walks on;what does that mean??

  109. Miguel October 28, 2013 at 3:43 am #

    Hi… how do you confess to a girl that you have a crush on her while she has a boyfriend… PS. they are on a somewhat long-distance relationship… they only see each other in college

  110. michael November 2, 2013 at 1:32 am #

    If im not speak english very well i have an accent and live in kansas city Missouri im in high school and i wanna pick up what should i do ?

  111. Booger jones November 2, 2013 at 9:51 pm #

    DONT SETTLE!!!! I agree with this 10000%

    I made the mistake of settling for a girl that I married and even though her looks improved slightly during the 9yrs I was with her. I always longed for a more attractive, more athletic, more adventurous girl AND THAT FEELING NEVER WENT AWAY!. I did ironically grow to love her very much (in an endearing way).

    Here's the ironic thing.. I settled for her because I was playing it safe… meaning I new I outranked her on the attraction scale. So I assumed this would guarantee stability in our relationship (because I would never have to worry about her cheating on me and hurting me). I would even use my leaving her as a threat when we got into fights, etc.. I assumed it was unlikely that she would ever be able to do better than me. Well let me tell you something guys… I was WRONG!

    Turns out, after nine years together… She had an affair with an older, ugly, man she met at the gym and now we're going through a divorce! Completely blew my mind and blindsided me! I never thought she would do it. It just goes to show… when you settle on a girl. Your not the only one who knows your settling and over time, the fact that you settled for her becomes more and more evident to both of you until one of you can't stand it anymore. So DONT SETTLE!!

  112. Aiman November 13, 2013 at 6:18 pm #

    How do I ask for Prom? Please reply asap

  113. Andrew November 14, 2013 at 1:11 am #

    Have you guys ever heard if Your information is a lot like his but I personally like your guys posts better because they are strait forward and make perfect sense. Keep up the good work.

  114. Aiman November 15, 2013 at 10:44 am #

    How do I ask her to prom?

  115. Tom November 18, 2013 at 7:15 pm #

    to be honest i never realy approach girls in public, i chat al the time on dating sites and i did meet some girsl i even had a girlfriend for a month it din't work out,
    so the thing is you guys say you need to have sex many times, bud i keep telling myself if im dating 1 girl i cant do stuff with other girls cus it feels like im toying with them
    i dont want to become the ashole player that uses girls bud i do want to have fun like a player and it kinde making me crazy you guys have any ideas to remove this way of thinking

    ps sry for the crappy english i hope you get what i try to say

  116. Nikko December 2, 2013 at 2:41 pm #

    Hey guys, here s my question:
    this girl came to visit me and stay at my place for 3 days made out, fucked and all. Now she left and she s living 2 hours distance from my place. I really like her.
    I am not sure if she would like to continue to meet up with me and i dunno how to ask her about it, i wouldn t like to look like a looser and get rejected.
    What should i do??
    Answer please

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  118. Aman December 18, 2013 at 1:16 am #

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  119. Danny B January 12, 2014 at 10:40 am #

    fondle my flapjacks and call me Amy

  120. dcdvdc January 22, 2014 at 4:08 pm #

    fuck off bitch indiann race you probably must die fuck you i'll kille you some day be warned soit prudent

  121. Scomi January 28, 2014 at 10:50 pm #

    Hello guys. I want to ask you for advice, as this is a specific situation. Classmate with his twin sister this weekend was celebrating a birthday at a disco. That's where I've been and I've met a blonde that I liked. Basically, I was drunk and I tried to kiss her, but she opposed laughing. I can't contact her by phone because they do not have a number, and I can't contact her on facebook either. So what's your suggestion, what should I do? Should I try to go on a date with her?

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