Last Time…
We talked about the logistical steps you should take before arriving at the club. We’re not going to go over it like this is some academic essay, or even redefine the acronyms we use. So know that if you don’t want to get lost, read part one: [Click Here For Part 1]
The main concept I’m going to go over is approaching the girl at the club.
Approaching
Approach Her In A Low-Sounding Area
This is Kong’s favorite approach. Usually he’ll go to the patio or the bar of the club so the girl can hear his voice. Because you should be in the FFM, Kong always makes sure to tell her why he called her over. For example:
Kong: Oi. Oi. You.
Her: What? Yes?
Kong: You’re cute. I’m Kong. We’re going to talk and make out in 10 minutes.
Her: What?
Kong: You’re right. 10 minutes is too long.
The idea is that in low-sounding environments you can approach a girl as if you met her on the street. However, because it’s a club you must ALWAYS be in FFM so you have to tell her what you want to do as soon as you can. Kong tends to tell the girl his intentions faster than the two of us.
Approaching. Then Leaving. Then Meeting Up Later
This is one of Jason’s favorite methods: in most crowded clubs there should be a multitude of cute girls walking around; and Jason doesn’t like ruining his opportunities of meeting these other girls in the club.
What he does is he approaches, gets the number, and if he finds himself not doing anything sexual with her… he tells the girl he is going to leave & that they’ll bump into each other throughout the night. This does two things:
1. Gives you ample time to approach other girls.
2. You don’t bore the original girl: she becomes anxious and intrigued to when you’ll bump into each other later in the night.
It’s a good tactic, of course it can increase your chances of being alone at the end of the night. But, it can also mean that you’re later walking out with a cute girl of your choice, and you also have other girls lined up in your phone.
Approaching a Girl in a Loud Setting
Now what I’m about to tell you is pretty strong. It’s something I learned while experimenting with whistles when I was younger. It’s a tactic that involves your thumb, your index finger, and your mouth.
No, the sexual thing you’re thinking of should be done in private…
You approach the hot girl and begin talking. She’ll automatically stare at you because she’ll have no idea what the hell you’re talking about: the music is too loud.
So what you do is take your index finger against the outside of her ear, and then cover her earhole with your thumb.
Once your index finger and thumb is placed softly on her ear, you put your mouth about a few centimeters away from your thumb and begin talking.
You don’t have to scream or yell, just talk normally.
What happens?
She’ll be able to hear you with clarity. Basically, she’ll hear your voice and nothing else. I have no idea why this works; what matters is she is able to listen to your remarks and be amazed about your technical move.
I’ve provided a picture to help:
You have no idea how many girls have looked at me with wide-open eyes. There have been girls who have told me that they’ve continued the interaction because of my move. It makes me seem different, innovative, and confident: all qualities girls find very attractive.
Things To Keep In Mind
Regardless the tactic you use, because you’re in a club it is always best to be in the FFM.
What I’m Not Saying
It’s not a bad thing if you’re not doing anything sexual right away. Many girls have their own threshold and it is crucial to be aware how comfortable she is with your moves. Don’t expect to stick your tongue out with the intention that she’ll lick it that second.
If she’s smiling, keep going
Be aware, be confident, be persistent, and use the tips that work for you.
Next time, we’ll talk about dancing…
Tell us any tips or methods that have worked for you in a club. And, ask us questions as we’ll answer a few in our next project go Q&A video.
I swear to God that the "If she's smiling, keep going" sentence is one of the best statements ever.
Awesome article!
Also, that thumb to ear thing works because of your bones. The bones in your thumb vibrate and work as a conductor for sound to the ear.
after opening, where do you go from there? any cool tips on making convo and stuff?
wait what..you walk up to a randomer and then shove your thumb *in* the earhole?
Video or gif for fingerplacement?? i still don't get it..
Wow. This is almost step for step exactly what I do in the club. You thus nailed it with this post. For those of you wondering you put your thumb over the lobe in front of the earhole and gently push down
What about picking up girls at parties???
So what do I do if the girl tells me to fuck off when I put my thumb on her ear?
Do I just tell her oh sorry I just wanted to tell you that there's a lot of wax in your ear
alot of women i approach wont let me get close enough to them let alone touch their ear
My angus is peppered..
Wow that technique seems awesome! too bad I didnt get it, can someone explain and show us the path to the pussies?
Try it the next time when you're on a crowded dancefloor. She'll have no choice but to stick close to ya.
Wow! I'm so gonna try the thumb and index finger technique. I'm always getting sores from my throat from all those shouting on the dancefloor.
What about peacocking? lol
What I do is I Walk to a group of girls and I ask them this question "I wanna ask you girls a question. Who flirts the most girls or boys?" Doesnt matter what they answer i always say the oppsite when you have done this quite a few times you learn from all your conversations. Before i walk to group I look for the hottest girl I want to bang. Instead off flirting with the hottest girl I will flirt with the secound hottest to make the hottest jeouls. So after my question I like to play a game with the secound hottest girl. First I will ask her if she is confedent in her self and then I ask her ey do u wanna play a fun game and ofc she say yes girls loves games. Then I say okey here is the rules You are going to lie 5 times to me and I will ask u 5 questions and if u fail you sill have to give me a kiss and if u win I will buy you a drink sounds good? Yes and then we start. Whats your name? Secound q?third question? Is this the fifth question? They either say yes which they should to win but if they say no you get a kiss. Lets say they would say yes and then you say "lol this wasnt fun you have heard this one before" and then they say no i havent i swear. Then you just have to laugh and say haha i got you on the fifth question.
This really works would love if you simplepick up triee this gamw and showed ppl that this actually works:) all u nneed isconfidence and a big smile:) when u learn to love failing u will become awesome instead because u learn from your mistakes.
Love you Simple pickups:)
Tell her to fuck off back and find a different hot girl that will let you finger her…ear
I've noticed how good it is to have your own apartment. usually I can never get laid with the girl you met that night because you live with your parents and she the same. it is a problem for me every time.
Peacocking works as long as you feel comfortable and confident with your peacocking tool, whatewer this tool is.
can you show us the thumb and ear technique in a video. and maybe when to use it and when not to use it.
Wow thanks man ^
That opener, the 5 question game, and ignoring the initial target.
Like did you just read the game?
how to be confident around other guys? same tips apply? (eye contact, vocal projection, dominant & assertive)
make a short video about how to do the thumb technique and some words you can say using it pls
awesome thnx bro
thumb ear technique in video
Soo this whole article was about what I've already heard on the podcast? Okay, I guess I should stop paying for project go since y'all outsource everything to youtube and front page articles anyway…..
Hey guys, can you show us the thumb and index finger technique through a video?
Usually those kind of street pick-ups work on ppl that are @ the age of 20 what would u do at an earlier age like lets say 15-16>
Play house with them
Yeah make a vid of that shit bro
Fuck her in an alley behind a dumpster. She's not the little princess you think she is.
Why do you have to be an asshole about it! I'm sure you've received information worth your money already. There just trying to help out as many people as possible.
can you make a video about the ear thing cause i dont want to go in there looking like im digging for ear wax or something
I think you should be feeling grateful that they even bother putting up worthy articles like this. As for project GO, they have very detailed breakdowns for each of their full interactions which I believe is the biggest education in pickup.
Hi guys! I'm a huge fan from Brazil. I don't know if you guys have ever came here, but in Rio de janeiro, where I live, this FFM mentality is what I do to get the girls here.. Brazilians girls are really used to that, but I noticed that they respond really well when the aproach is made with confidence.. I usually go like Kong and tell the girls straight away my intentions, I think it is more effective here, but they always want to "get know us" a little more before making out.. most of the times.. My question is the follow, Why girls from America, or Canada don't use tongue when they kiss? I've made out with a few girls from this countries and in the first time, they don't use tongue, and here in Brazil this is so normal.. I confess that I found this a little unusual for my culture.. do you understand? Cheers!
Thiago!
I watched all of your video's i love em actoully i'm gonna try it myself i'm a huge fan !
Hey kong, can you make a short video of that ear move? I don't get it yet. Seems like a great move. But isn't it awkward to touch the girls ear when you just met?
YEap, the ear move is not understandable. Other than that :
Imma dancer, got many girls experiences. Still, I dont know if it has something to do with the country or the luck of girls you meet up cause over here in Europe White girls tend to like dark guys or white guys who are hella tall. Something in between doesnt stand a chance.
I get prettie much attention easily via my dancing moves or outward apperance – via a good and individual look .
The approach sucks sometimes as the girls are so stuck with their friends, so there are always a bunch of guys as wingmans needed to distract those companions.
I found that wearing earplugs in a club works the same way, you can hear the other person perfectly when they yell in your ear and also you can hear your own voice as you speak. If you can get over looking like a loser with earplugs in a club that is..
Anyways my question is if you approach a group of girls by yourself or with a wing man and you get rejected by the one you're after, how do you save it and try to hit on the second hottest girl in the group? I've tried a few times and it's never worked, usually the friends are watching your moves on the first girl in the background..
Hey guys, just wanted to say thx for the tips and things you post they are really helpfull. Yesterday I went to several clubs with some friends and I talked to completely random girls the first 2 rejected me but the 3rd one was obviosly more interested and we hoocked up. And if it wasn't for the tips and beeing more confident I was gonna sit arround and do nothing or bitch about how I haven't hoooked up with someone in a month. So thx and keep it up.
PS: To the first 2 girls I went straight to them and asked for a dance and they sayd NO, but to the 3d one I started with hey beutiful what's your name? and kept on the conversation leaving clear that I liked her You think the first 2 rejected me cause of that?
Hey! I love you guys, I'm a girl and I am fascinated by your videos, aside from finding them hilarious. Whenever you guys make blanket statements about girls, I always think "Does this apply to me/girls I know?" For the most part, it's shocking how spot on you are! I just kind of want to offer my opinion on Jason's method of approaching, leaving, and meeting up later. I think most girls see this as what it is– the guy is bored and or thinks he can find someone hotter. No girl wants to feel like she's the back up, so for your male fans looking for tips– if you're interested, don't use his method! I've noticed when I go out, if a guy ever walks away from me or one of my friends, they're kind of out of the picture for good. I guess it must work for Jason, but in general, when I watch your guys' videos, I sometimes think Jason gets away with a lot more than the truly "average looking guy" can, because he's so good looking.
Here's one you can try at a club. I've used this one in Vegas at club LAX at…i forgot where it was. Anyway, I used this tactic on a girl and we ended up making out at the bar and the rest of the night. I didn't have the skills back then to take the party elsewhere, but nonetheless, I was able to make out with her pretty good.
Guy: Hey wanna play a game?
Hot Girl: ok.
Guy: I tell you my name and you tell me your name. Then we part ways and if we meet again and you forgot my name, you buy me a drink. If I forget your name, I buy you a drink.
Hot Girl: Alright.
exchange names
I ran into that girl so many times that night and she always called out my name and I of course, called hers. Before the end of the night, we were at the bar making out and my hands were all over that booty. I saw her after the club and we made out some more. I got her number and we texted a couple times after, but we never met again.
Next time i go out, I'm gonna replace "buy me a drink" with "I make out with you" if you forget my name and "you make out with me" if I forget your name. Then you say, let's rehearse and go in for the makeout.
Please, what if is a group of girls, how do i approach ? I have do ignore the chick's friends ?
haha yeah. Ernad93 just listed the same techniques Neil Strauss wrote in the game.
Nothing wrong with sharing it but give credit where its due.
Go up to them and ask, "who's the leader?" It works like magic lol. Trust me, all the girls (in the group) do 180 and are instantly hooked on you
What you do is engage the group first. If you just talk to the girl alone straight away, unless you're really attractive she will leave with her friends that keep calling her. So win over the group first then say to the girl you like. You're going to be my girlfriend for the next 5 mins and link arms and ask the group for their permission to flirt with her. do you care about their permission? no. Does it make it easier for you to take her aside with no cock blocks? yes. so then you'll have her alone and the rest is up to you.
need more help tried this 2 days in a row…
If it's a group of girls the best approach I've found is to approach them as a group. Some groups of girls are more lenient in letting a guy come in, but most groups are really cautious and won't let any guy take away their friend. The best move is to earn each one's trust so you get everyone's approval. I usually just talk to everyone at the same time if possible, if not I'll literally talk to each person. I leave the girl I'm going for last and by then the other friends will like you as person and let you go for her or be less guarded. It sucks cause it takes more time but if the girl is worth it, it's worth the time. Another method I use, which might sound a little more sketchy is to wait until the girl you want is by herself. So catch her when she's going to the bar.
This advice sucks. Calling bullshit.
Yes, but he asked for your number so doesn't that indicate that he IS interested in you? Also, if he calls or texts you or seeks you out in the club later that night, wouldn't that make you feel much more wanted?
This trick with fingers is amazing, can you describe it better? some photo will be great. It worked for me but i think i didn't do it in right way. THx guys.
sooo… does the thumb go into the ear???
I'd also like a picture about the 'ear thumb' move. I can't imagine it.
re-explain that ear trick !!
Really happy I read the finger to ear technique, thanks guys!
Make a video explaining this technique, like, do it on kong. It'll be good to show us and maybe he can fell in love with u .-.
good
My prefered method is simple. See a girl in club, approach her (with no drink in my hand, you dont want to be holding a drink because you look like a drunk), and then I do;
Introduction – say who i am
Short Story – Say why im here tonight (usually having fun with friends on a night off work)
Get to know her – a few quick questions (and her replies im never like, "Gosh thats super interesting lets talk about that for 10 minutes)… if a topic goes on for more then a minute in this phase i just cut her off and say "Dont be silly,…"and move on to the next phase. I NEVER talk about myself. If she asks what i do for work or whatever i just say "its pretty complex"or "I just dont want to bore you, but you are a [blahblah]"
Fun facts – i normally memorize 2 of the most rediculous things i can find in the news. I bust these out if i hit more then 2 seconds of silence
Close – either get her number and say " ive got to catch upwith my friends, but ill catch you later tonight"
or – "its really loud here, how about we go get some drinks and find a quiter spot?", if she comes with you, shes keen and you just find a spot for the two of each other to get to know each other better.
Whole process to close… under 5 minutes. If its taking more then 5 minutes, shut your mouth and get to the close
Im not the best, but im not the worst
Does this work in highschool dances?? Please respond
Part 3 next time plz
try it and see
Do I lick my thumb first?
Hey I couldn't find a way of writing down my own comment, so I chose this guys! Kong, Jesse and Jason I wanted to tell you guys I live in london and you probably don't give a shit but the nights out at club's here in london are different, I mean I see some videos of just girls walking around smiling in LA or wherever they are filmed, but the atmosphere when your walking around west end in london during night is different, should I move to America or just make the best of it here?
, guys do you think its pretty cool that I became a little pua at this age?
+ I'm very confident and I have been going out to london and I got a confession to make I'm only 17, and I just got into the Game because its fun and opens new doors in life, and if you want to know how I get into clubs I use fake I'd obviously, girls think I'm 22 most of the time and I'm pretty tall I'm 6ft2, and btw I am half russian and half kazakhstan, so I look Asian like kong
If you don't get this post ill post it at several pages. Btw I'm using a phone atm.
Instead of the thumb can i use my penis?
you guys are fucking epic and you inspire me
Sort of funny how we're expected to take advice from a small built asian guy named "Kong" who apparently is some pick up guru ?….
Stfu bitch
This guys is full of insecurities. Go back to your mama's womb bro
I will try that technique keep it up guys
True
Dont go seeking approval, comes off needy. You're the man, you know it and everyone else should too.
Could you guys make a short youtube video explaining Jesse's ear technique? Thanks a lot guys, you three are an inspiration.
l know one more tactic about talking with ladies in clubs? what you should do is to say to her something which sounds unclear, 'n than she'll ask u of what ur saying, and than what you have to do is to get closer to her ear while talking,, but touching her ear with your lips.. l have tried this many times before, and lt really worked out.. l guess they got more comfort & ready to do any question..
I tried the thumb technique…in her butthole…
Go for it if you're that "bendy"…but just realize, your penis will just be right in your face as you're talking in her ear…
so are you dark or really tall