We talked about the logistical steps you should take before arriving at the club. We’re not going to go over it like this is some academic essay, or even redefine the acronyms we use. So know that if you don’t want to get lost, read part one: [Click Here For Part 1]
The main concept I’m going to go over is approaching the girl at the club.
Approach Her In A Low-Sounding Area
This is Kong’s favorite approach. Usually he’ll go to the patio or the bar of the club so the girl can hear his voice. Because you should be in the FFM, Kong always makes sure to tell her why he called her over. For example:
Kong: Oi. Oi. You.
Her: What? Yes?
Kong: You’re cute. I’m Kong. We’re going to talk and make out in 10 minutes.
Kong: You’re right. 10 minutes is too long.
The idea is that in low-sounding environments you can approach a girl as if you met her on the street. However, because it’s a club you must ALWAYS be in FFM so you have to tell her what you want to do as soon as you can. Kong tends to tell the girl his intentions faster than the two of us.
Approaching. Then Leaving. Then Meeting Up Later
This is one of Jason’s favorite methods: in most crowded clubs there should be a multitude of cute girls walking around; and Jason doesn’t like ruining his opportunities of meeting these other girls in the club.
What he does is he approaches, gets the number, and if he finds himself not doing anything sexual with her… he tells the girl he is going to leave & that they’ll bump into each other throughout the night. This does two things:
1. Gives you ample time to approach other girls.
2. You don’t bore the original girl: she becomes anxious and intrigued to when you’ll bump into each other later in the night.
It’s a good tactic, of course it can increase your chances of being alone at the end of the night. But, it can also mean that you’re later walking out with a cute girl of your choice, and you also have other girls lined up in your phone.
Approaching a Girl in a Loud Setting
Now what I’m about to tell you is pretty strong. It’s something I learned while experimenting with whistles when I was younger. It’s a tactic that involves your thumb, your index finger, and your mouth.
No, the sexual thing you’re thinking of should be done in private…
You approach the hot girl and begin talking. She’ll automatically stare at you because she’ll have no idea what the hell you’re talking about: the music is too loud.
So what you do is take your index finger against the outside of her ear, and then cover her earhole with your thumb.
Once your index finger and thumb is placed softly on her ear, you put your mouth about a few centimeters away from your thumb and begin talking.
You don’t have to scream or yell, just talk normally.
She’ll be able to hear you with clarity. Basically, she’ll hear your voice and nothing else. I have no idea why this works; what matters is she is able to listen to your remarks and be amazed about your technical move.
I’ve provided a picture to help:
You have no idea how many girls have looked at me with wide-open eyes. There have been girls who have told me that they’ve continued the interaction because of my move. It makes me seem different, innovative, and confident: all qualities girls find very attractive.
Things To Keep In Mind
Regardless the tactic you use, because you’re in a club it is always best to be in the FFM.
What I’m Not Saying
It’s not a bad thing if you’re not doing anything sexual right away. Many girls have their own threshold and it is crucial to be aware how comfortable she is with your moves. Don’t expect to stick your tongue out with the intention that she’ll lick it that second.
If she’s smiling, keep going
Be aware, be confident, be persistent, and use the tips that work for you.
Next time, we’ll talk about dancing…
Tell us any tips or methods that have worked for you in a club. And, ask us questions as we’ll answer a few in our next project go Q&A video.