We started with the logistical steps of how to get prepped up and then devled into approaching methods in a club. If you missed any of those past articles you can check them out here: [Part 1] [Part 2]
In this article we’re going to go over:
Dancing
Be wary because this isn’t for everybody. There is no need for you to go to the dance floor if you’re uncomfortable and believe your pickup is better served next to the bar or in quieter areas.
However, with that said there are going to be moments where: i) you’ll see a hot girl on the dance floor and you’re just propelled to dance with her, ii) the girl you’re talking to hears her SONG and brings you to the dance floor, and iii) the only perfect transition you can think of during your pickup is to LEAD her to the dance floor.
So for the guys out there who will experience the above situations, this is for you.
The Entrance
Heading to the dance floor is like approaching a girl, you CANNOT HESITATE one bit. As soon as I approach the dance floor I start dancing right away. I throw my hands in the air, move my legs, and get it going. The reason for this is because the more you hesitate the less likely you’ll start dancing.
NOT DANCING on the dance floor is the worst thing you can do: you don’t want to be those guys who are on the dance flooring not doing shit because they end up looking like creepers. You’re not a creeper, instead you are a dance machine.
Because you’re dancing RIGHT AWAY it should be easy for you to break into any social dance circle or approach the girl on the dance floor… again, it shows that you’re confident and ready for a good time.
Regardless of how you show it, girls are attracted to confidence
Foreplay
It’s a common belief that dancing replicates sex. This means that you have to treat it like sex, and like with every sexual interaction it is always wise to start with foreplay first: who wants to stick their penis into a dry vagina? OUCH.
So, it is best advised not to start with grinding. Now, I’m not saying “grinding” on the girl is a bad thing, I’m just saying that too many guys start off like that and it doesn’t really do anything for the girl. Yes, she might have fun, however there is no challenge for her and at the end of the day (most of the time) you just walk away with blue balls.
Also, what sucks about grinding is that 90% of the time she is grinding from her backside: the less likely you’ll be able to makeout with her when her body is facing away from you.
What Is Dance Floor Foreplay?
1. Dancing around her body while smiling and making great playful facial expressions
Since you can’t talk on the dance floor, animated facial expressions will pull the girl into your bubble.
2. Spin her around.
Go on the internet and learn tango, ballroom, waltz dance moves… It is very rare for a guy to spin the girl around to house or rap music. DO IT because it’s not only different, but many times she’ll see you as “cute.”
3. Pull her in, then push her away.
Once you get a good rhythm of being animated, spinning her around – start pulling her body into yours where you’re about to grind (or grinding for a few seconds) and then push her away. You want her to WANT to grind with you.
A Tip About Approaching A Girl On The Dance Floor
It’s good to dance with her friends or around her first before attacking her straight away. Think of it like any other approach: be forward yet mindful of the people around her.
Grinding
If you did everything right above, then you should begin grinding. Remember that foreplay can range from 1 minute all the way to an hour. It’s all about feeling, but once you get a sign that she’s ready to grind… starting grinding.
Again, most guys let the girl grind while her face is pointed away from yours: this is bad. Instead, because she is HOT for you (foreplay), make sure you’re grinding face to face. You want every opportunity for her mouth to interlock with your mouth.
Even if you don’t makeout, the close interaction between you and her is a very intense experience that there is a very likely probability that she will do “something” with you later on. Albeit it getting your number, seeing you later that night, making out… this intensity is a good thing.
I’m not saying this is a full proof plan, but it comes close to one.
Just Dance
Believe it, many girls go to the club just to dance. They’re not looking to hook up with a guy, get a drink, or find their soulmate… they just want to dance. So, why not do the same?
There is no shame of having of the mentality: I JUST WANT TO DANCE.
I’ve found that when I go to a club for the sole purpose of dancing, I have so much fun: doesn’t matter if I pickup a girl or not, I’m having a blast. Personally, I think this is the main takeaway you should have when it comes to dancing in a club – who gives a shit and dance.
If you’re looking around to see if any girl is looking at you or you’re craving to be center stage, trust me, girls will see this and actually be turned off. It’s when you get lost in your own world that girls will just end up dancing with you because they don’t mind joining your world of fun.
Ending Notes
I don’t care if you’re a bboy dancer or you have two left feet… Just dance, it’ll be okay.
Can u pls shows us how to pick up girls on facebook?
We will soon, however, the only issue we're facing is the legal issues behind this endeavor. You have to understand that we want to show you a vast amount of game across all outlets (be it malls, facebook, etc.,). It's just there are always legal issues to go through.
How are you doing?
We're great. But getting into interview with us will not make us want to sleep with you.
nothing to talk about?!! and dont say , ''well talk about carrots''
its too awkward
What are you talking about? Yes, on the dance floor it's easier to be animated with your face then saying "carrots." Besides the music is usually really loud where she'll be unable to hear you anyways.
Also sry for being off topic, most of the guys i know when picking up girls they insist on buying the girl a drink and they say it is easy deal after that. Is this a good practice
In one of our podcasts we go over this and how to deal with this situation. But, to put shorten this version: it's okay to buy her a drink as long as you control the situation so she doesn't leave.
Hey! Made it on time this time! ha. Anyway, guys i'm 6' 5" and mostly legs. My waist sits on girls backs. Do I just not care about how much taller I am? Dance with tall girls?
Who care how tall you are, if you foreplay first and you then become face to face… well if she's like 5ft – her face will be on your ****. But in all seriousness, who cares how tall you are because you'll have an array of options. Personally, if she's really short, I would lift her up when you get to the grinding part.
Legit advice. Thanks guys.
Lift her up though? the fuck niggas, how am i supposed to hold her in the air to grind my leg lol.
Im having the same problem, lifting her up? What I can't imagine how you would dance without her touching the ground? The picture in my mind is way too off to be a thing that I could imagine any1 do
Please explain
Why do you guys want to help people as much as you do?
Why not? The more you give the more you get back. It just feels good to help others.
how can I steal a girl from somebody who already start to acting in a club party for example?
Well you have to be careful with this one because many times these girls are dancing with their boyfriends. However, you can always try dancing AROUND both of them and then whispering in the girl's ear "turn around an let's dance."
One thing I like to do is cut between the couple and start dancing. Remember though, you have to be careful because you don't want to get into a fight if she's with her boyfriend.
Thanks a lot guys, creative, boldly and confident as always
Whats the best way to go about getting a date with the girls working behind the bars?
A bartender is having a very very very busy night when it's her shift at a club. The easiest way is to flirt with her and then leave and repeat continuously over the night. Then, when she gets off work find her and approach her. The easiest bartenders are ones in local bars.
Just know approaching a bartender and distracting her from her job (HER LIVING) can annoy her quite a bit.
Are you ever afraid of falling in love with a girl?
No. You should never be afraid. This is one of the reasons why we made Project Go, because we want to help guys find their soulmate.
But…I don't want to find my soulmate yet. Just havin' fun, you know…
I see what you did there
What's the best way to approach asian girls?
Go up and say hello, you're cute. Who cares about their race, just go and approach.
What do you do when you get a negative reputation about hitting on girls in your town?
If you think you're a nuance and awkward, it will be a self-fulling prophecy and you will become just that. Don't think about it and just keep doing what you're doing. As we say in Project Go: less awkward is more awkward.
Hi SP been following you since the beginning and you guys made my life better
My problem is I don't like clubs and when I'm there I don't feel "right" so my question is I see a girl I approach and say what? I can barely listen because of the loud music… oh and I'm a huge huge terrible dancer.
In this article we go over a move where you can talk to a girl in a loud/crowded space (the ear technique):  ;http://www.simplepickup.com/how-to/pick-up-girls-at-a-club-part-2/ Also, it's okay not to feel "right" it happens, just make sure your non-dance game is on par.
Lastly, it doesn't matter how well you dance as long as you move your body.
Should I be taking dance lessons for this?
No. Watch YouTube videos. But basically if you just move your body, you'll be fine. Remember, just be yourself.
how to make girls horny on a houseparty? im giving some "sit ins" and they are all fuckin boring!
Well I think the key factor is why aren't you approaching the girls and making them horny? Read this:  ;http://www.simplepickup.com/how-to/be-cool-get-girls-in-college/ We go over a topic about "how to hook up in the bathroom." I think that should help.
You mean it's bad if you spin the girl while listening to house music? I think that's a good way to approach to a girl…
It's not bad. I'm saying most guys don't do that, so do it.
How old are you guys? I know that Jason is 22 but the rest of you?
Jason is actually now 23, Jesse is 23, and Kong is 24.
How can I talk to a girl I've never talked to before without coming off as a creep? (specifically while in university)
Try this:  ;http://www.simplepickup.com/how-to/what-to-talk-about-with-a-girl-you-just-met-2/ Also, if these articles don't help you can always try Project Go because we show you everything.
Remember, just approach because the less you wait the more of a creep you actually become.
Why not? The more you give the more you get back. It just feels good to help others.
Any tricks to hide, or minimize your blushing? thx ;>
What actually works is pepto bismol. Works like a charm and even the redness when it comes to drinking.
Hey Guys!!!! So ive been going out for about 15 days in a row and ive been getting slayed with rejections left and right! i recorded myself and have picked up on alot of uncomfortable cues. Is daygame just not very effective when it comes to meeting women? Daygame seems like all the damn women are so uncomfortable when they get stopped. How long did you guys go out daygame until you saw a decent amount of success? Idk any thoughts? u guys r da sheeeit.
Roseen, day game is actually our favorite pastime. In fact we find it the most effective because how many guys approach girls (successfully) during the day? We have a few podcasts and even most of our uncut videos is in the day.
How to completely lose ourselves while dancing? I mean going on the dancefloor only to "dance"? I'm not good dancer, I just mimic the move from other, and that makes me not enough confident to approach a girl and dance!! And, I know you said it before, but must we be not drunk?
Who cares if you suck at dancing. Just move your body around. Believe it or not the more you dance, the better you become. It takes practice. And yes, don't get drunk.
Actually being slightly drunk (not overdrunk) can help you if you have confidence issues. My best scores were done when I was a bit out of myself. Gives you the confidence and courage to try things you'd never do.
When do you know to kiss a girl?
if you ask yourself "should i kiss her now?"
its the perfect time
Michael is so right.
How do you inspire yourselves? and what should I do when a girl rejects a kiss attempt? look, I tried to kiss a girl in a party, I putted her arms around be and mine around her waist but when I tried to kiss her she turned her head away and I left. (sorry about my crappy grammar)
If she turned her head, why leave? Stay there and be persistent and try again later. How do we inspire ourselves? Through loud music, reading a ton of motivational books, and just going out there to approach.
How do you start up a conversation in the dancing floor
90% of the time it's the hardest thing to do. Also, people go to the dance floor to DANCE. Why would you force yourself to have a conversation over loud music (especially when people are moving their bodies)? The best way to communicate is through playful facial expressions.
Yep, but I was talking about the next step. To approach her with the first words to her ear (assuming loud music).
show us how to deal with a cockblock! (Male & Female)
We have a ton of YouTube and Uncut videos that show this… maybe we'll do another soon.
Sup guys, project go sub here. Question: how do I approach with my daughter with me. She's 3. Help us single fathers out!
Best advise I can think of right now. Use your daughter as you would a cute dog. Also, you can say "my three year old daughter thinks you're cute, hi"
what some good pick up lines to say to girls who are dancing? i always go and ask, but they don't accept my proposition. I know i need to talk to them a little and make them laugh before asking them to dance. So do you guys have any ideas?
Stop with the pickup lines on the dance floor. We mentioned this in an earlier comment: "90% of the time it's the hardest thing to do. Also, people go to the dance floor to DANCE. Why would you force yourself to have a conversation over loud music (especially when people are moving their bodies)? The best way to communicate is through playful facial expressions."
Hey players, what does it mean, when you dance with a girl, but after a while she leaves with her girlfriend. Few minutes later, she is back in your area, but doesn´t come back to you. Try again or fu.. off?
She wants you to try again. Usually girls leave to discuss with their friends if they should "continue the interaction with you." It's okay, be confident and keep dancing with others until she returns.
herpes simplex virus lol
Can you guys please make an article about how to pick up girls as a teen? Thanks
This teeters on legal issues. We'll do our best but we try not touch topics when it deals with anything under the age of 18. However, we'll think of a concept soon.
what if your dick gets hard
What if her vagina gets wet? Who cares. It's only awkward if you make it awkward.
How can I understand that she's open to me ? Is there an easy way to understand this ?
If she continues to dance with you, looks at you, touches you, wants to be with you, responds to you…
Show this little ear- thumb trick in a video, tried it with different girls, they didn´t notice a difference…
We'll do it once we get a good concept, we don't want to bore our audience with this one technique. Maybe we'll do a Simple Tips with all these techniques in one. Thanks for the suggestion.
hey, how do you actually approach a dancing girl? dance in front of her and take her hand? get close and start talking? I didnt understand how to get grinding right away.
Don't start grinding right away. I like the dance in front of her and take her hand approach. Or, just dance around her and then into her dance circle. This usually works for me.
What to do when your best friend is interested and going after the same girl as you
Talk about it with him. If you guys are good friends only one of you should approach. Then, once you both make a decision, REGARDLESS of who she is attracted to (even you), you have to help each other hook the girl and the friend up.
And, you should never swoop unless you get permission. It's bad juju and your best friend should come first before any girl.
Hey, what should i do to get a girl who has a non-present boyfriend in a party/club ?
Approach her? Unless of course YOU KNOW she has a boyfriend outside the party. Honestly, you can dance with the girl but if the girl has a boyfriend you should really back off trying to seduce her (not a good thing).
can you guys please post an article or video on bantering/flirting because I'm starting to learn that's a key factor in getting dates or just getting laid.
Give us time, but this is a good decision. It's a hard topic because there is always so much to cover.
When you try to have conversation with a girl in a high energy environment – what the hell do you talk about? And can you give any examples/guidelines. This is completely different from day time. That's my biggest problem!
We actually have an uncut video when it comes to high-energy environment in project go. However, I think Jesse is developing an article about this soon.
I'm a girl, and this is genius.
Thank you.
A question I have for you guys: I often end up making out with the girls I dance with to the only CONDITION that they're dancing ALONE. I then go up to them, invite them to give me their hands to dance and it goes on all by itself.
The big problem is when a girl is with her friends. Several times, a friend or a couple of friends come and get the girl away from me, or just don't let her dance with me. How can you get rid of those cockblockers? The only solution I see is to get a friend to help you (we then all "attack" the group of girl at the same time so they don't have the time to cockblock each other) the problem is when the friends are ugly so my friends often tell me they won't do that for the sole sake of my John Thomas
I will be Your DANCE wingman and I will distract ALL them ladies except for yours.
I
doing this all by my self and had no problems with cockbloks. Dont ask for girls hand first, if a girl is
doing side to side step just copy and bum your already dancing together. Once
this established then you take girls hands. Most important if you do that to a
group of girls they would not know which girl your hitting on.
Why don't you guys start making real pickup videos in clubs and such? Or do something similar to "the pickup artists" where you coach other guys, then film them evolving?
what the fuck are u talking about?? leave that in 2005 where it belongs….
Would you say its easier to get girls at Vegas clubs then Hollywood clubs? Also, what are some good 18+ clubs to go to in Hollywood?
Im going to a black'n'white themed party next week. Any cool suggestions to a black and white outfit?
What would YOU wear?
How do you approach the girl while shes is dancing with her friend? Example your dancing to the music and see the girl you want but shes all up her girlfriend?
Sup Simple Pickup,
You guys are boss.This is a GREAT article.
Why? Well. I am a professional hip-hop dancer and I STILL get nervous going up to girls in clubs (unless I'm crunk) This article has helped me look at my approach differently.
So what you're saying is:
1. Don't immediately grind- cuz who wants to enter a dry Va-JayJay.
2. JUST DANCE, regardless of dance background- NEVER walk around looking for girls to dance with or stand-don't want to look like a creeper (even if you are a good dancer). So even when you are traveling dance.
3. Catch her attention by dancing in front of her, in a circle where she can see you, taking her hand and dancing with her – this is like the foreplay part
4. Then she might grind on you. (forward is preferable cuz u can see ur face and it is possible for you to get a makeout).
When is a good time to take her out of the dance floor so you can talk to her? or even make out? and when do you know you she wants you to take her home and show her a few dance moves?
The only club I can get in the 18+ club belasco and dv8/Avalon/Level 3 :/
Hey Davido what are some good clubs around hollywood?
18+ Clubs I know of:
Club Belasco- Never went hereLevel 3- Hollywood Blvd and Highland
If you want to meet hot girls who can dance look at Carnival Choreographers Ball- Very hot foreign girls all over the world
Do bitches love the d?
I have some problems when calling girls out to dance here in my country(Brazil[forro,sertanejo,samba,etc. and yes,i know how to dance most of them)]
any tips?
What happens if you let out a really stinky fart out on the dance floor? You should try blame it on someone else right?
First I thought to just lay the deuce on the floor right there, but that would be unwise I think. You could get it on your dancing shoes. Try Jason's maneuver of leaving then talking to her later. If you're prairie doggin you're going to either let another one go, which she'd probably catch onto the smell pattern, or crap yourself. Go do the power poop push and come back and talk to her a little later. Make sure you wipe well, and of course wash your hands. Licking them does not count as cleaning them.
I hope that helps CaptainWeiner.
Thanks for the sage advice. When did you last take a poop?
So this article says don't try to attract attention all to yourself when dancing? So that means no dancing with people in a circle around you, aka a danceoff?
Not sure if you're trolling or not, but if your serious, only do it if it looks good. You dont want to go out there and not dance well because you'll look like a fucking dumbass craving attention (usually what will happen especially if alcohol is involved). If you can do it in a way that conveys that you're a fun person and having a good time then this can build social proof and actually make a girl want to approach you.
It doesn't say not to attract attention to yourself.
It says you should never check if people are looking at you. It looks like your asking for approval.
You should stay in your own world and don't give a fuck what people think.
well, great post! need to learn a few moves for the future! can't wait till i turn 18
thank guys! ill return to this article in the future for a refreshed memory ;p
Does anyone know what to say to a girl in the club ? I don't think i could use my normal questions for qualification.
Any examples for the "Us" mentality ?
Agreed great article. Just to add of my own experience and it`s proven method. Girls love to dance and if a guy can dance it`s saves a lot of unnecessary talking. For that I did learned to dance Salsa it`s all about leading the girl.
2. JUST DANCE, regardless of dance background- NEVER walk around looking for girls to dance with or stand-don't want to look like a creeper (even if you are a good dancer).
I actually disagree with just dace, I would personally cruse through the dance floor as If I was going somewhere and if I see something I like just start moving next to them. Proving strategy always works.
I use these methods too. Just act crazy and when they like you they start doing it with you. That's your chance!! Great article!!
Hey guys. I just want to know if this has happened to you and how o get out of it:
I'm actually coming back for a club, where I made out with this girl on the dancefloor for a while, and it was really going well. Constant eye contact and smiles, laugh, kissing, rubbing, playing etc you get the idea. but then, we walk away from the dance floor, talk for a bit(and I'm staying physical a that point) but she just starts going away, looking for her friends and stuff. Though it doesn't always happen, it's not the first time so I'm really wondering what it is that I'm doing wrong after making out that makes me miss my one night stands? Or is it just that some girls make out and flirt with guys just for fun and leave?
Dammit pick up in england is tough. Must be the rain.
Hey hippad,
I guess this happened because the girl came to the club to have a fun time, she wants to be on the dancefloor. And well, would you like to be stuck to one girl while you are trying to have a fun time at the club? You are doing the exact same thing, you hit on a girl – you succeed/you fail – and then go on to the next one. You should have asked for her number and left her right after. That shows high value, you dont give a fuck or you just danced or kissed with her for half an hour. Dont get emotionally attached.
I'm from Holland so my english isn't that good, dont be mad.
x i'm out
Yeah, that happens, they just go from guy from guy(like we go from girl to girl). But sometimes(like the night before I wrote my message) it's a girl I find really attractive though. That's why even if I quickly move on, it can be annoying to be escalating the action and thinking "hell yeah, I'm getting lucky tonight"(lol) and then fail.
But you're right, should have asked for the number and stopped caring, will keep that in mind for next time!
I'm not a native english speaker either and your english is good
lol i been doing it right
When you enter the dance floor create an aura, this will attract females to you, no effort needed, Have fun! *SIPS REDBULL* Going to club now, Peace
If the girl is facing you, is it still considered grinding?
Can you guys post some tips for how to pick up girls at a party? Cuz I could use that in like a week
If a girl is grinding you facing away, turn her around firmly so she is facing you. Get really close to her ear and say, "I Like your ass, but I'm in Love with your face," and stare into her eyes. Every time I've used that line the girl literally falls in love with me. However of course it won't work all the time, but even if she doesn't want your dick straight away, she'll want to dance with you more to see what type of person you are.
You, are a BOSS. This is the kind of mentality I enjoy from understanding Pick Up, dudes helping dudes get laid and enjoy life.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jJNzEQUfg0
When I get a few in me, I dance like Peter Garrett. Good or bad?
I have no idea how to grind face to face XD
What do you do when your sweating alot?
Put on some deodorant prior to the club and/or keep a stick in the side pocket of your car. As for at the club sweating if it's happening like it's not gonna stop, your best bet might be to take a break out on the patio and cool yourself off. If this is not an option, then get yoru butt back on the dance floor and dance with an intensity that makes up for the b.o. women sweat too, we just do it as a result of intense dance sessions ^-^;
Hey guys this is the first comment I have ever made but I wanted to thank you for this article. I read it right before I went out last Saturday and the results were amazing. I had no idea just dancing right away and using ballroom dancing tactics would prove so effective. Ultimately, I got the closest I have ever gotten to a lay and I really appreciate your hard work to help me get that far. Please keep the articles coming because they are seriousry legit.
Kong, show us your king…
The most important point is yet to be announced. How to get her into your bed after making out? Hardest journey for me…
Whoever is a skeptic, please listen to this: When I was 24-27 years old, I was overweight to the point where I was able to balance a beer on my belly simply by sitting down. But I had the confidence of a God! I would go clubbing and almost every weekend leave with a girl. What I wouldn't give for that confidence back, is what I thought a few weeks ago (I'm about to turn 33). I am currently in stellar shape and yes girls think I am attractive, but I can't close/approach/converse/anything so nothing really happens after a conversation is sparked.
I don't know what happened to me but as I became fitter, I also developped the biggest case of BBs known to any vag-man. After reading and watching many of Jesse, Jason and Kongs' articles and videos over the last few days, I can tell you that these guys are spot on and have helped me remember the AMAZING times I had and will have going forward. My balls have fallen back out of my uterus and I am a man again. Thanks guys!
Take their advice, it'll change your world. If you are like me and developped a serious case of pussy-tytis over the years, reclaim your manhood and become the stud that you once were. These guys will help you remember the good times you had and the good times you are about to have! Love this $hit!
P.S. This article is spot on! I really like the end where if you want to just go to a club and dance, just go to the club and dance! It's an awesome workout and you get to try out your dance moves. Girls do come up to you to dance. True story bros!
hey man i need your help srsly, i was a baws before and was picking up girls like np, it was like 1 year ago and then i was ill for 3-4 months and didnt go out and then i became a fucking vagina, now i didnt get girls for a while cuz i dont do the final step to make out. how did you return to baws mode ?
You guys should totally post videos of you dancing at the club.
Hey im newbie here and, I were on a club first time on Friday and I managed to perform a makeout but after that the girl just got away, should I go after her when this happens? And also when i saw girls just sitting around I asked them to dance but they were "too tired" or something. So you think its bad to ask straight through girl to go to dance?
Honestly I can say that I've been that girl and prior to turning down this guy, I had been dancing for 31/2 hours straight: I was pretty tired out. The best thing you can do is just smile in her direction as you dance; the more you intrigue us, the likelier that we'll remember you and want to respond to your invitation(s).
This is seriously some great advice guys, you should really listen to them! As a young lady who often visits the club scene, I can say that these tips are pretty solid. As an add on I just wanna say, don't do the 'oh she's grinding on me, bend her over then!' move; It's the #2 piss her off move, the #1 being the stand on the dance floor and stare like a creeper. Also remember: if a girl's sitting down she probably doesn't wanna dance at the moment; this isn't homecoming so don't ask to her dance, just give her an inviting facial expression or beckon her with your body language then dance on. She will get up and dance at some point so don't worry, that's why she's there
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Hey everyone
Brilliant advice guys, can't argue with any of it. I would like to also add a technique that i started doing out of intuition and observation. I've been using for years and years now, simple but it works about 70-90% of the time, in a club or even a quieter pub.
All you need is you, some mates… and a camera phone. Now we live in the age of digital social media, and taking pictures has… become the norm in night clubs. Granted it is mostly girls that do this BUT. There is nothing wrong with taking a picture of your mates right next to a group of girls and make sure they see you. Then which ever one that is cute and is observing what your doing (should already be making eye contact at this point) beckon her over and sign language you would like a picture with your mates. No stupid faces here, look good but look like your having fun. She will respond to that. once she takes the picture let her come to you… This is where you give her a reassuring nod, almost like a seal of approval. You thank her, introduce yourself and then make a nice comment such as "That's a good picture, but there is something missing. I do think it needs a hot girl in there." Then she will do one of 3 things.
1. She will passively want to have a picture with you, but won't say anything.
2. She will ask or tell you if she's the girl.
3. Or if she is not interested, walk away.
The later (3.) happens less than 10% of the time.
If no.1 happens then suggest "maybe your the hot girl that's right for this picture" then let her agree with you.
If no 2. happens don't agree with her, tell her "you might just be… let's try and find out" Then get a mate to take a picture of the 2 of you.
This way of meeting a girl ticks so many boxes in one go, your introduced, you have her trying to seek your approval, she is trying to impress, you create likeability, you have her friends wanting to join in with pictures, you have your mates giving off good positive vibes that your all out to have fun.
Using this technique on every outing, there has been regular times of full groups of girls meeting me and mingling with me and being the ultimate wing man for my mates. It's a common occurrence of bringing back groups of girls to my place because of that one introductory technique.
Keyword introductory, you have to be interesting, playful and confident. Always leave them wanting more… then when the time is right, suggest to her/them to come back to yours continue the party and fun.
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haha love the last sentence, as i'm a Bboy. I do mostly tricks and powermoves and floorwork however, so doesn't really help me in a club situation.
please do a video teaching us how to dance…
Watch the film "Hitch"
All you need to know about dancing is in that film.
What if you can't dance? Where do you guys meet girls? At parties it's easier, but I can't dance or sport for a month…
Well guys, this weekend i decided to give your stuff a try.. I always played the bad dude making the women feel insecure about themselves… this was hard because I'm not an asshole. Now, i'm just telling women that there's cute and sexy…OK, while many dudes in da club where making silly dance moves trying to impress a hot girl .. i just started a conversation with her, got her number and a day later I have a date upcoming friday.. (oh hell, i just decided to call her too WTF.. ).. i have to say i never taught I had the balls but all beginning is difficult..
Amen to the just dance mentality. That is by the most fun at a club, besides you'll find yourself dancing with girls if you just dance for the fun of it.