You walk up to a hot girl and you tell her how her thighs are really sexy that the sight alone, gives you a boner.
Remember, you don’t need stocked pick up lines to get a girl’s attention. All you need to do is talk about what you’re passionate about in the moment and she’ll listen.
She laughs while imagining your boner and finds you cute, cute enough where she happily gives you her phone number. Congratulations, you got her phone number. Bottoms Up Trey Songz.
Many guys think getting the phone number is the priority when you approach and interact with a hot girl you just met. So, the scene ends something along the lines of:
You: Well, I’ll text you about my boner in a bit
Her: hahaha, okay?
You: Talk to you soon.
Leaving RIGHT AFTER you get her phone number is what we call, the pre-ejaculate. Sure you got her phone number but that’s exactly the point, you ONLY got her phone number. By leaving early, you’re basically inferring to the hot girl that you were more interested in getting her phone number than being with her physical body.
This mistake makes the girl feel used, which hinders your chances of her picking up her phone to schedule the date you have planned. Digits are fun to play around with on calculators and/or excel spreadsheets. But you’re not a calculator, you have a penis, so stop going after the number, go after her.
Listen, if the conversation is going well to a point where she happily gives you her phone number, there shouldn’t be a reason to leave. You should do all you can to prolong the fun you both are having at the moment. Yes, you’ll leave eventually but you want to show her how special you think she is… you’re different and memorable from other guys because you’re not leaving early.
How To Do
Our favorite way of prolonging the conversation is by asking for the phone number about 3/5 from when we think the interaction should end: if we only have ten minutes to talk to the girl, we’ll ask for the number 6-7 minutes into the conversation, and then have a really engaging conversation for the last 3-4 minutes.
Give her a hug, tell her the plans you have for your future date, setup the next time you’ll see her; just make it engaging and fun so she WANTS to see you again and will pick up her phone when you call her…
To go even further, if you meet this girl in a club or in a place where you know she’ll be in your vicinity for an hour or more, you should periodically communicate with her the entire night (this also includes sensual touching).
This allows you to make her feel special all while making sure your physical time isn’t being wasted. You don’t want to lose the possibilities of meeting other girls in the club, or, you just want to party rock with your boys.
Of course, stay if you feel like you’re not sure if you like her enough to leave her just yet.
Here is an example of how we communicate to a girl RIGHT AWAY after we get her number in a club:
You: So, it’s 555 – 555 – 5555
Her: Yep. Text me so I have yours.
You: You’re really cool. But, it looks like you’re in trouble because I see your friends eye strangling you to head to the dance floor.
Her: Yeah. Come with?
You: I’m going to check up with my friends a bit, but I don’t want to feel used so I’ll text you throughout the night and we’ll see each other later.
Then, 15 – 30 minutes later:
As you can see, we’re showing her that we still think she’s special, not used, in our eyes. And, more importantly, we’re keeping the conversation going even though we’re not around: killing two birds with one stone.
Also, our text gives us an option to see her again if we’re not busy with anyone else in the club. It allows you to have a choice. Options normal guys rarely have.
We ask you use the examples above. Please leave any comments or question below, and also tell us situations where this has worked for you.