You walk up to a hot girl and you tell her how her thighs are really sexy that the sight alone, gives you a boner.
Remember, you don’t need stocked pick up lines to get a girl’s attention. All you need to do is talk about what you’re passionate about in the moment and she’ll listen.
She laughs while imagining your boner and finds you cute, cute enough where she happily gives you her phone number. Congratulations, you got her phone number. Bottoms Up Trey Songz.
Now What
Many guys think getting the phone number is the priority when you approach and interact with a hot girl you just met. So, the scene ends something along the lines of:
You: Well, I’ll text you about my boner in a bit
Her: hahaha, okay?
You: Talk to you soon.
Her: Bye
Leaving RIGHT AFTER you get her phone number is what we call, the pre-ejaculate. Sure you got her phone number but that’s exactly the point, you ONLY got her phone number. By leaving early, you’re basically inferring to the hot girl that you were more interested in getting her phone number than being with her physical body.
This mistake makes the girl feel used, which hinders your chances of her picking up her phone to schedule the date you have planned. Digits are fun to play around with on calculators and/or excel spreadsheets. But you’re not a calculator, you have a penis, so stop going after the number, go after her.
Listen, if the conversation is going well to a point where she happily gives you her phone number, there shouldn’t be a reason to leave. You should do all you can to prolong the fun you both are having at the moment. Yes, you’ll leave eventually but you want to show her how special you think she is… you’re different and memorable from other guys because you’re not leaving early.
How To Do
Our favorite way of prolonging the conversation is by asking for the phone number about 3/5 from when we think the interaction should end: if we only have ten minutes to talk to the girl, we’ll ask for the number 6-7 minutes into the conversation, and then have a really engaging conversation for the last 3-4 minutes.
Give her a hug, tell her the plans you have for your future date, setup the next time you’ll see her; just make it engaging and fun so she WANTS to see you again and will pick up her phone when you call her…
To go even further, if you meet this girl in a club or in a place where you know she’ll be in your vicinity for an hour or more, you should periodically communicate with her the entire night (this also includes sensual touching).
This allows you to make her feel special all while making sure your physical time isn’t being wasted. You don’t want to lose the possibilities of meeting other girls in the club, or, you just want to party rock with your boys.
Of course, stay if you feel like you’re not sure if you like her enough to leave her just yet.
Here is an example of how we communicate to a girl RIGHT AWAY after we get her number in a club:
You: So, it’s 555 – 555 – 5555
Her: Yep. Text me so I have yours.
You: You’re really cool. But, it looks like you’re in trouble because I see your friends eye strangling you to head to the dance floor.
Her: Yeah. Come with?
You: I’m going to check up with my friends a bit, but I don’t want to feel used so I’ll text you throughout the night and we’ll see each other later.
Her: kk.
Then, 15 – 30 minutes later:
As you can see, we’re showing her that we still think she’s special, not used, in our eyes. And, more importantly, we’re keeping the conversation going even though we’re not around: killing two birds with one stone.
Also, our text gives us an option to see her again if we’re not busy with anyone else in the club. It allows you to have a choice. Options normal guys rarely have.
We ask you use the examples above. Please leave any comments or question below, and also tell us situations where this has worked for you.
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Cheers!…
Thanks for the article. Even though I have seen you talk to the girls after the number close in GO videos I never realised whats up. I have no questions but I want to ask you to put up as many text conversations as possible. I have no textgame and for example when you asked her what to do , I would thought to never ask that because You are actualy asking her what to do which is not alfa even though its a joke. But it worked. As you can see I have no clue about text game so the texts would help a lot. Thanks SP
Thanks alot guys!
I'm sure you know how long lots of us have been waiting for such an article!
no questions about the article
you know my text game kinda sucks as well, just like the guy who commented below mine.
what i can do is to put as much high quality effort on the interaction as i can!
===>so that the possibility of her texting me back later will be more…but text examples and a few hints will be AMAZING :O!!!
LO VEY O UGUYS !!!
Q: I've met a girl in a club, 15 min i got her number and we talk about our next meeting next week. The whole week she sound rly excited via texts etc, she found me on facebook, it all was very promising and then 2 days before our "club date" she goes silence. Literaly she stoped txting back in the middle of conversation (i didnt txt her any creepy shit to scare her off). She didnt come to club as i suspected and she deleted me from fb friends. Now i dont know what to do couse i rly liked her. It would be nice to even her from her "fuck you" couse at least i would know to go fuck myself but the silence is killing me. Should I persist for an answer or just fuck it? I got a rule that i dont pick up 2 girls at a time so i move to next picking up rampage only when the previous pick up is closed. Would be glad to hear something from you. Article is great
Ouch..If I was you I'd say fuck it, but lets just wait till one of the three legends answer you.
Fuck it dude
) There's plenty of fish in the sea, so just go out and have fun 
I'd say fuck it, she ain't worth you.
Hey Hugo,
This can happen because of many reasons: her parents found out about you, her boyfriend came back, her guilt for meeting a cool guy, the list goes on… We can speculate on the reasons but, in the long run, it'll drive you crazy because you have no control of why she is doing what she's doing now. The only thing you can control is acting on what you want.
If you want a response, even a 'fuck you,' then text or call her ONCE explaining how you liked her and the silence you've gotten from you has turned you off. Then, though we don't condone standard lines, you can say: "I would rather of you said 'fuck off' than you giving me the silent treatment.'
Then, leave it at that and move on. Keep at it player.
Lol, I bet Jason wrote this article. I love it and it's a great idea to text while being in the club. Jason <3 Full homo.
Im to shy to talk to girls i dont know. Im gettin realy nervous when im tryin to
Isn't treating her special and what not putting her on a pedestal?
Thx for answer. Im actualy going to txt her like u said. And btw since i've found your channel i've met more girls than in my entire life so yeah, your shit is working
Everyone are nervous (except Jesse, Jason and Kong), even the girl you talk to
that's interesting, i don't normally check text while i'm in a club if i'm dancing, nor do my girl friends, but I guess it depends on the girl.
Will give this a try
Normally, what happens to me is I have a good interaction and get the number. Over the next 2wks including poor text game makes the girl lose attraction for me.
heyyy
im not native english speaker, but my future plans include living in UK, so i was wondering if you think my accent (its not terrible but…) would lower my chanses having a fun coonversation with a girl or ? ive heard some girls think accents are cute, but again what do i know 
i love youre vids, they are really helpfull, and i can see improvements on being the dominant in conversations, and leaving right before conversation runs out!!!
TREATING her vs making her FEEL special are two different things.
are you german?
I actually did that before reading this and now that I read it I feel proud of myself. Plus I had no alcohol in me when I approached her.
How to keep a date fun but cheap and what to do ?
Your tips have really helped alot picked up quite a few girls and now hitting on girls is like second nature to me now thanks guyys
We all get nervous, we still do, but the more you GO the easier it gets.
Can you elaborate on that? How do you make a woman feel special?
In your example you did it by saying other girls are boring. However,does a confident guy need to bad-mouth others?
What else can you do to make her feel special?
Thanks
They teach that it doesn't matter what you look like, how you talk or what you say, its all about having the confidence to do it. As long as your words are understandable I don't think there would be a problem. but I hope they read your comment and give you a better answer with more credibility than me. I for one would say No, but I hope they read your comment and give you a better answer with more credibility than me.
QUESTION: your phone was charging at a club? ahahaha epic fail but you guys are still awesome
they posted at home…ofcourse it'd be charging
are you retarded? the screenshot was taken at 2:35 pm. The last text message was sent/received at 1:08 am. EPIC FAIL BRO.
Q: hey jesse jason and kong, i recently moved to a new school and i know absolutely no one. Im not used to this because i knew many people in my old school. Today was the first day and lunch was weird, im in grade 12 so everyone already has their own groups and its hard to get to know people. Plus theirs this really cute girl in 2 of my classes and i want to get to know her but she doesnt seem like she talks much and sits pretty far from me. Any advice would help. Thanks.
lol
He obviosly took the screen shot while editing the article…not while he was texting the girl at the club…
dick head
This happened to me before and it turned out she was already dating someone… If she starts dating someone on Monday and by Friday she doesn't know if she likes him yet…them she runs into you…she'll be really into you. But if it gets serious with the first guy then you will get ignored!!! There are only two ways you could have got her before she started ignoring you 1) The first guy fucks up or 2) you impress the pants off her!! And right now if you really want her…it's going to be super hard to get her. You'll have to put your heart and soul on the line…tell exactly how she makes you feel and what you like about her. Remember….this has to be good enough to make her leave current "boyfriend"!!!
Lol I'm pretty nervous about picking up girls but I do alright when I talk to them. Funny story, was talking to a girl in the club, was getting what I THOUGHT were good signals, ask for her to come talk to me for like 60 seconds: exact words were "Let's go somewhere a bit quieter and talk for a minute, 60 seconds won't kill ya" and gave her a coy smile. She smiled back and was grabbing her drink to head with me then a guy behind me grabbed my shoulder and said "It might." Turns out she had a boyfriend hahaha…made for a good laugh the rest of the night, I'm not into stealing ladies from their d-bag boyfriends. ONTO THE NEXT ONE!
Dunhill Mendoza, think: last text message was at what time? screenshot was taken at what time?
Yeah thats the scenario I was beting on too. I dont know her THAT well to throw epic words about feelings about her so as Jesse/Jason/Kong said i've txted her and thats it.
My advice: do a marathon watching all their vids on youtube, after that u will feel like u can pick up even the hot biology teacher. The girl in class wont gonna be a chalange. peace
dude, think before posting. LOL
Go on the forum
Hi Jesse Kong and Jason, I picked up girl while she was studying, we talk about 5 mins, she gave me her number, and I said to her: I'm gonna let u study, I'll text u sometime later today. Is it ok to say so? I dont want to interrupt her study time, but after reading this article, I was like: Oh shit, that what I have done this morning. Plx answer, thnks
I really suck at texting, specially with a girl i like. I'm that kind of person who would rather talk in person and be a lot more engaging and a lot more fun. But when i try and text them, i seem so boring, i can't have a normal conversation with girls because most of the time i would end up noticing that I'm in the "interview" mode, plus i keep blanking out on what to say. Is there anyway i can improve my 'texting' skills? lol.
I guess u r still in high school, my advice: watch all the simplepickup videos like HugeCalamari said, and then go talk to one random girl before go talk to 2 "hot girls", it makes u feel excited, get u in the God mode to talk to the other girls. Or u can go straight and talk to them. Good luck
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how do you know to call vs text?
Jason, jesse and kong. i remember you showing texting a random girl "Hey me and you. tonight. romantic date. candles and shit.
if shes says yes for a meet up sometime after that do you actually buy her dinner?
If u're better in talking – call her
Listen….Just go up to her and say "Hi you're just really adorable and I had to come and say hi, My name is Vick M. I like my girl to be someone I can hold close and buy flowers for" then say either "…what do you look for in a guy?" or "how would you be romantic to your guy?"
You want it so that you completely flatter her with the first thing you say so make it genuine…Then you tell her what you would do together if she was yours…Then by the time you ask the question above you want her response to sort of be trying to impress you in a way.
Don't worry if she's in a group with lots of her friends that even better!! because you can get a great discussion going with plenty of opinions. Just do the same thing. But adjust it so you say "Hi i just had to come over and say that all you guys look so adorable to together..My name is Vick M. etc." Then direct the conversation to the whole group.
ALSO: If it is a bit loud or there's loads of people around you need to get their attention before you start speaking. You can either clap your hands once just before you speak, just jump into the group so they turn and look at you…or what I used a lot was just to shout "Hey!" and they turn around.
You should never get stuck in interview mode… just talk about the things that you would do together. For example ask her what's the best first date she's been on…then ask her what her what you like to do a first date (make this good because this is like a trailer for the movie) Then just keep sharing all the fun things you could do together..if she goes sexual then follow..
Just text her what you actually want to do with her!!
Step 1: Find somewhere really nice and cool…like a romantic restaurant or a reggae club.
Step 2: Text girl "Hey me and you. tonight. Reggae club. island romantic vibe and shit."
Step 3: Take girl out and enjoy
Calling is good because she gets to hear your voice..it reminds her that there is a male on the other end of the line!!
Texting is good because if you text something really really good she can keep going back to it and reading it over and over again!!
Do whatever you strongest at…
Hey Pickup Guys
I Started Picking Up Girls Around 5 Nd Get Rejected
I' Live In India
Girls Are shy Plzzz
Upload Something About Shy Girls PLzzzzzzzzz
Plzzzzzz
Hope U Will Read This Comment
It's possible that you're on the right track already… What do you usually say to them and how do they respond?
Rajeev dont worry man. I'm staying in India and I've picked up girls here. You gotta go after anyone you feel like and yea I know most of them are shy. So don't feel dejected, they act that way cause its the social norm. However, there are a number of outgoing girls and the more you pickup the better you get at recognizing them.
In fact one girl I picked up was 22 and I was 17 at that time. I met her on the train and spent the night with her(although she had a boyfriend at that time).
What I'm trying to say is keep your head up it's about you not how the other girl is.
Remember, fuck me or fuck off
Sow I hit on this girle on a festival. I can't remember how I did it, but she left here friend ( that didn't dared to sleep alone) and slept whit me in my tent. The next night she invited me in here tent to sleep over there, sow I whent. But she wasn't tired and whent to sit whit some fiends, I stayed in the tent. Then came the worst cockblock ever, and I'm 100% sure that it was the worst. Sow I slept in my owne tent. but the next day she texted me to say sorry fore the cockblockers, and we texted some more. And now when I text here she responds sow direct ( like I text here something and she answers like " hahaha yea"). Sow I don't know wat to do now. Sow somebody please help me.
I'm 17 Ryt nw
I'm Doing ma Best
I knw Its Normal To get Rejectd
Nd I Wont Stop till I Succed
I Always Pickup Good Looking Girls
But The PERSISTING THING I JUST DONT GET IT HELPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!
I Actually Go To Them And make Them Stop For reason
Hehehe
These are I Used yet
Like U Knw Where this Place is
Nd Told Her Directly Hey i thought u Were Cute come To Say Hie
nd I Told Them Statement
but just in few sec dey wante to leave
even They Dont Do HANDSHAKE
This article is on point and very helpful. At the same time your keeping your options open in a "club" scene. There is nothings wrong with scoping out other girls in the club. As long as you have the number of the girl your interested in for the night, your good to go. Its a must to stay close. The only question i have is, what if the girls "HOT" but she got ugly friends for your wingman to take over? Although i know a wingman suppose to do its job no matter what, but should you put enough work, to ditch her friends later on, if things go well?
Listen, guys, Ive got many good friends, which are vags! Im so mad at them for being such pus**es and i want to change them. I want to prove that they are as good as anyone else and to show them that girls are going to like them just as they are!!! I tried giving them social acceptance by being rejected myself MANY times in front of their eyes, I tried being a BEST WINGMAN in the world and doing most of the work myself, BUT STILL NOTHING!!!
PLEASE HELP!!! I HATE PUS**ES!!!
Stopping them is one of the biggest things to learn and it sounds like you already have this!!
It seems like they are feeling too much pressure and awkwardness from the situation. Extend your arm for the handshake when you introduce yourself. And the SimplePickup guys said, use her name as often as you can to build that comfort between you. Here are some things you could talk about that will keep the attraction going:
1) The romantic things you would like to do with her
2) The sexual things you'd like to do to her
3) The standards that you have (i.e. what you expect from girls…funny, clever, adventurous etc.)
4) Remind her again that you're attracted to her
the order you do this is irrelevant as long as it feels comfortable!
And if the girls are shy, you should say "Let's take this one step at a time". You should say this right near the start and you should be willing to stick to it as well!!….and she'll be worth it; shy girls have a lot of frustration built up underneath the surface!!
Can we get a dictionary up in here? Some of these comments look like they came from sexually frustrated 12 year olds who are trying to look "gangster".
One More Question Being Too Much flirty will Affect my Picking Up Girls
all these Thing u told me Come Under Flirting ryt ?
nd plzz sm more tips abut Shy Girls
Hey guys can you give out any tips for people in highschool i could really use some and im sure many people could to. Thanks !
I'm trying whit this girl but she is ignoring or answers short and direct on all of my textes. I'm 18 and don't know what to do.
you guys should make a interaction game by asking questions and having a few answers for us to pick…if thts somehow possible haha
Gosh I wish I had read this before My first ever cold approach to this unbelievably cute French girl yesterday (she was nearly Natalie portman lvls no joke). Even though I was so overwhelmed with bitch butterflies I gathered enough courage through my retardedness to ask her number via some seriously forced confidence and miraculously got it! I sent a text today and nothing back. Now that I think back, I actually got her number then gtf out of there -I didn't leave any kind of impression – just shook hands and left. Now that I think about it, that is probably the reason she hasn't replied. I honestly feel shit that it wasn't a success because shes actually the hottest girl I've spoken to. How will I deal with this? take it as a lesson well learnt and vow never to fuck up like that again!
Hook up with her and do her
And even if it doesn't work out after I have left some form
Of lasting impression – at least I know I did my best and I will just accept it wasn't meant to be….Next!
Tll her
FUCK ME or FUCK OFF
dere Are Many Fishes Around Dont Stuck On Her
BEST OF LUCK
I Got Flashed As Fuck .
What if for example you have a friend tell you you have to leave so you ask for her nimber then?
didn't subscribe for tips, you guys are ballsy and hilarious.
Hey! Same thing is happening to me. I'm so glad they decided to post this. Like I only get the girls numbers right when we're saying goodbye to each other and then when I text them later I get no reply. Now I think I know why.
And now that I think about it, they're right, that's an assy move on my behalf, is like I'm more interested in the number than in her.
I hope I learned something here.
This post is exactly what i needed to hear. I started to get numbers because of your guys encouragement; however, I have no follow up ability. But, i didnt see anything wrong with that. but when you said "stop going after the number, go after her." i felt a spotlight. I guess that is the next logical step. thanks simple pickup
You guys are NOT less than average looking as you claim Kong. Jesse is fit, jason has the face of a model and kong is muscular AND has got the height. So no wonder you guys are getting some numbers, stop bullshiting, because I dunno about you, but where I com from those are decent looks, Ive seen MUCH "worse".
Even if they have an average looking, it doesn't really matter. You're right, though, but i think that Jesse is looking like a skinny nerd indian guy just like the indian guy from The Big Bang Theory.
However: The Outlooking is important, yes, but not as important like the most guys think. Sure its easier to get some girls when u have a great outlook. But it's more important to feel confident about everything you do.For Example: Those three guys said that we should talk about the shit from our dog. For what? Exactly!
Just to show the girl that you're confident about everything you do, in every situation. No matter if u talk about dogpoo or how you got a boner just from looking at her.
fag
what a brilliant comment… made me laugh so much!
you should of put 'No Homo' at the end, unless you were trying to sound like a fag…?
I think you are on the wrong site, you need to look at 'How to pickup guys'
The whole point of this site is pretty much to prove that anyone can do the business as long as they believe in themselves and not judging themselves on how their appearance.
The problem with this is that she might not even check her phone until she's about to leave the club.
how to schedule a date? how should a date go? how to kiss?
Alrite, I managed to get a really cute girl's number at college on the third day using Jessie's move of passing notes and also get a hug out of it and we've been out to lunch together often but how to initiate more intimacy between us??
Hey player, to attract her you need to build both a PHYSICAL connection and an EMOTIONAL connection.
To build the physical connection, just keep the touches between you two slowly escalating. For example, high five her before touching her arm. Then try to lock arms with her or even hold hands. If you guys are sitting next to each other, the classic arm over her shoulder is awesome.
To build the emotional connection, just make sure the talk is passionate. If you're good with conversation, this shouldn't be a problem. Here is where you really charm her, by showing you're a person of high value and interest.
That CAN be the case, but it's unlikely. You just told her, you will be texting her and since she gave you her number, she likes you. So yeah, she'll probably be looking on her phone fanatically.
Thanks bro, but when it comes to conversation, I can talk to girls about anything but I then start to run out for ideas and then we have the silence…advice on avoiding the silence?
like they said in one of their videos, just talk about what YOU like. If all of that runs out talk about something random (favorite fruit etc.)
what are some other examples of how text a girl after you have gotten her number.. say from a class in college? Because I have that problem where I get a girls number from her but I'm not all that good at keeping the attraction through texts
I also want to say that you shouldn't sweat silences too much. Unless you are the best conversationalist in the world, you're bound to run into some brief lapses in your conversations. However, if you handle them well, everything will be fine, i.e. if you are noticeably uncomfortable, she will be, too.
Hey bro, i met this girl when i was drunk. And fuck her twice in a day! But when i text she say that i annoy her? I really want her to go out date with me but she scolded me already.. Please help me bro!
After seeing your videos, wen to CVS pharmacy and talked almost to the first girl I saw. To my surprise, I got her number, but made this damn mistake of leaving immediately. She did not respond
hahahah oh man, i don’t want to be scolded
i got a girls number and I haven't talked to her since then. I still see her everyday but I dont ha e the guts or her to speak to each other. wat should I do?
I got a girls number, but my high school has 5 minutes of passing period, which lets us go to our next class, and I got her number then the 1 minute bell rang, which means 1 minute is left, then I left with it and thought did I use her? It was early in the day and I did talk to her throughout the passing periods.
The perfect guide how to be a douche
thanx bra
Before following Simplepickup I was never rejected (because I never really asked anyone out ). 3 weeks after watching simple pick up I was rejected 12 times(and surprisingly 10 of them had boyfriends) and I didnt gave a fuck about rejections. But now I know that I will find someone soon.
Thanks guys
So are you supposed to show disinterest/lack of neediness qualities only at first, like when you're breaking the ice?
i know it seems tough but next time you see her just ignore your approach anxiety and go talk to her right away, be the most confident guy that you can be
and remember no pain no gain
You guys r the fucking real pickup artistS
well i try that new material just right now and let me tell you something. this is astonishing it work en less than 10 minutes
this is dumb, we want vidios(sorry about my english i know its not porfect i just a israeli guy)
ps- pleaseee share my comment that i know you read it(thanx)
share on your vidio
before watching simplepickup… seriously imma pusseh…i just watch the girl that attracts me go away..and without a chance… now i've grown some balls… i manage to get her number..asked her out 3 times within a month.. get a tiny tiny bit physical… but sadly things gone cold… i hope they will make a video on how to keep things interesting and make her get interested in you… i will stay strong
PS: imma picking up asian girls in asian country…they are more conservative… seriously its damn tough
please like ,so that they can make a video on ""how to maintain a relationship"
Really? You're from Israel? Me too! I didn't know there's more Israeli's around here lol
Actually I just did the "talking to a boring girl" bid a few hours ago, it worked. glad to see something I intentionally thought would work published here by you 3 homos. I LOVE YOU GUYS! Kong nice eyes bro
alrite so i met a hot girl yesterday via work, got introduced another girl i got friendzoned by (before i found simple pickup) the girl i met has a boyfriend but we flirted like crazy, we were touching and stuff and i really wanna bang her, she gave me her phone number but what should i do cause i feel morally wrong cause she does have a boyfriend but i really wouldn't mind just being her fuck buddy-she's hot, ADVICE PLEASE
Yoav. daniel. im also israeli. this guys rock and their methods wormk world wide so why not.
Nizam, have you thought that maybe she was drunk too and now she regrets it?
And that maybe the police is coming for your ass right now cause she might assume you raped her?
Just my 2 cents.
Stop whining like a little bitch and be happy they're even sharing this stuff…
Nothing should happen.
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Screw it man, just bang her if you can. Think about it. If she actually lets you do it, she was bound to cheat on her bf with someone else anyways. You might as well get some in the process. Tell me how it goes, player.
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I think to maintain a relationship, you actually need to just be yourself. You can still be that confident awesome guy, but you cant use pickup while in an actually relationship for too long that would just be fake to yourself. Be confident. Strive for perfection. But be yourself, at least thats my opinion. Good luck, player.
I just wish they would give us advice on how to do this stuff in high school /:
Good predictions i think i have more confidence than before
You don't do this stuff in High School.
Hey man, this isn't dumb. This is showing the methodology on how to do the shit you couldn't do before (and might still be struggling with). So sit down, read, take notes, say thank you to these 3 losers, and GO.
Nice article!
You don't usually learn something in high school to use while in high school, you learn it in high school to use afterwards.
my balls finally dropped and I got this cute girls number, we've worked together in the past and I've always had a thing for her, so last night I got the number. I have a feeling I've already waited too long though when do I call?
Call her already dont wait too long
I would at least text her before the next time you see her again at work. Text her something funny and sexual and not something lame like, "how is your day going?" Say something funny because girls like to laugh and something sexual so that she sees you as a sexual person and not her next "best friend."
I've texted this to a cuttie with a booty from my class: "There are so many cougars around, I think I'm going to pounce on one! JK"
And if she is at all intersted, she will respond asking where you are… and the conversation begins.
Take advantage of the opportunity and hook up with her. I used to let my "morals" get in the way. Nothing good came of it.
Bro, I understand where you are coming from, I was hitting on this MILF prior to knowing she was married, we were talking, I was making her laugh, I got her number and I thought it was only a matter of time before we were making out, but then I found out she was married. I wrestled with the idea of making a move on her for a couple of days, in the end I knew it would have wrong if I tried anything with her.
But dude, she gave you her number for a reason, go for it. Personaly, I wouldn't try to make her my girl, but I would try to stab it.
You are supposed to treat her as though she is just another person and not some chick that you really want to stab. Do not put too much focus and energy into her. She is just another face in the crowd.
Hey I am really good at getting any girls number.. I mean any girl I so choose, I just don't have "texting game" What should i do? I'm great in conversation in person or on the phone. but I feel texting doesn't allow me much space for personality to really shine through…
you should write more about the next step? after getting her number. Thank three of you!
Hey jesse,
I live in india and girls here are very very conservative and dont easily open up.Talking about things lile boner make them pretty furious and asking for their phone number is a later issue.
what to do?serious problem
jesse im asking this to u cause u are indian and hope u will give me a solution to this.
Getting laid in india is more difficult than countries like usa,uk etc.
nice guys. real helpful. going to the club tonight and I will put it in practice. keep it coming guys.
9 times out of 10 you should just call her, it is showing her that you are confident and not a pussy hiding behind text, though a text could be more convenient like when you are in a club, but just don't stress over it too much, if you are as great as you say in person you'll compensate for your lack of texting, in physical communication.
Any book/video suggestions for a beginning pua?
I live in Israel and its rely hard to :/
what do you do if you are a terrible dancer and she asks you to join her at the dance floor?
Girls in USA seems more receptive than girls here in Brazil.
If I talk about a boner the mostly girls will leave you alone. Approaching girls on the streets is not usual here, so I will try and let you guys know if it works!
(brazilian here too)
I agree. I think they are very receptive to approach, even during the day, but it's definetly more difficult to talk about dirty stuff with them. Of course that depends from girl to girl
I did a kind of statistc about that.
I approached 20 girls in a week.
10 during the day and 10 at night close to a party.
At daylight I've tryed to using dirty talk and 5 I dont.
So I got 3 numbers from girls using normal conversation and 0 using dirty talk.
At night I got 4 numbers using normal conversation and 2 using dirty talk.
So, I guess that in my city, the best option is to approach girls at nights and dont use dirty words!
=D
You go out there and make a fool out of yourself. It puts them at ease when you're goofy and they respect the fact that you're confident enough to make a fool out of yourself even more than if you kicked ass at dancing.
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Hey Jesse! I'm an Indian and I have serious issue. I lived in Ireland most of life and I have great Irish friends. The problem is my parents don't want me to go along with the Irish culture of going to clubs and getting girls. Its a major problem as I can't go out and talk to girls. Any solutions?. If you had the same problem with your parents, how did you convince them to let you chose your own path? Thanks lads for the tips and stuff. It really increased my confidence mentally.
I think that was fucking awesome! I've never thought of it that way to continue interacting throughout the night… GENIUS!!!
anybody from San Francisco want to pick up girls together? need someone have common goal to hit the club!!!
FUCK THIS SHIT.
Actually, this idea of getting a girl's phone number is genius.
Too bad that the parties of my college where during the last week and I only received this mail today! And I already asked, the girl I was looking for, her number in a really ridiculous (amateur) way last week! And now I'm really close to be rejected. Fuck my life, fuck you SP! lol. I really liked that girl, and now I feel like an ass/idiot.
Now we only have parties here in a few months, cause now the exams are starting.
God damn, I'm so frustrated.
I am pretty sure they were joking about the boner. They do that crazy stuff on simplepickup channel but not for project go.
I'm not affiliated from simplepickup. I'm a full time college student who is starting to learn how to pick up chicks and working his way to the main goal (getting rid of his vcard). You've gotta embrace the fact that you can't get them all. Chances are, she wasn't that into you and you put your eggs in one basket. It sucks and exams are gonna get in the way. BELIEVE me when I tell you that there are more chicks out there that are out there. Sure exams get in the way but I strongly recommend you pick up chicks in your down time. Grocery store, on a coffee run or on your way home. What's a few minutes out of your day to pick up a chick? I don't mean to call you out, rather give food for thought. Hope this helped.
This kind of situation works to every place? Actually I'm living in Brazil and there are some situations that girls thinks I'm a perverted, maniac, etc. So, my question is, should I try to do these tips anyway? Should I take the risk of taking a slap in the face?
hello guys, can you give me any advice about what if a country is a lot more conservative or traditional than america ? thank u so much !
I have a big problem.
I end up getting girl's numbers, showing my really confident side and they end up showing strong interest signals, and I even talk about what to do on our date (like grabbing a smoothie, coffee, or something) but when I try to meet up, most of them don't reply back to my texts, but at the same time, I take more than 2 days most of the time to text them or something.
any tips?
These tips are legit. I was recently hitting on two girls who most people would say were out of my league. I kept strong eye contact and flirted with them throughout the night. The hardest part about this exchange was that they had three guys with them and they were both single. They kept on trying to bud into the conversation but I didn't take my eyes off the girls. Worked out GREAT! The cock-blocks got the hint and left.
Thanks Guys!
I just met this girl last week. Then we hung out , got food and afterward walking around and crap. Then, hung out once again following day. It was great. She barely text me back but when we hang out everything is good. I dont know what to do, i cant tell if she likes me or just fuckin around with me. She hung out with me the first night i met her, and hung out with me following day. I dont know what to do bro?
Hey! this text message actually work for me! I was confidente before but by watching ur video's i learned when to use what, and how to use, and what to do. i learned how to keep the conversation going and intresting. u guys are awesome thanl's for changing my life! if is anything i can do as a fan let me know!
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Jony, if you can't GO… try this:
go to a mall in a different town so youre not running into girls you know, (start with least attractive girls) tell them youre not from around town and you are looking for the best place in the mall to get some jeans.. say thanks.. then leave. that's it. theres no rejection involved, nothing to worry about all youre doing is approaching a girl and leaving..
what it does:
you will quickly realize girls are actually easier to talk to than you think.. 99% of the girls you ask will be nice enough to say "oh go check out bootlegger"
all while boosting your confidence..
(what this doesn't do…yet: pick up girls) it is simply to help you get over approaching and talking to a girl.
once youre comfortable with this.. follow SP directions…
"hi, im not from around here.. wheres the best place to get jeans"
"oh go check out boo-" (cut her off)
"actually im not looking for jeans, I just thought you were adorable and I had to meet you"
*insert your own conversation here*
Your friends are just afraid to approach a girl? Go to a bar (or even having dinner at a bar and grill) and try to get a couple of girls to come and sit with you.. (coming back to best wingman in the world).. but if your friends aren't showing confidence and interest, obviously the girl(s) will still be attracted to you and not them. good luck.
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Its true, looks really don't matter. It's definitely hygiene and confidence.
Yes, you will get rejected.
No, not every time.
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But what should I do if she is a Christian?? How should I text her?
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